Do you have any voices that you dare not hear?
Is there tenderness behind your apparent refusal that you don't want to touch?
Is there a unique sweetness in your inner corner that keeps you running away?
Why don't you miss each other when you meet?
Meeting each other is close at hand, which is companionship; Missing far away is parting.
About companionship and parting, the earlier classic is "it is better to forget about the rivers and lakes than to pity each other."
This sentence comes from Zhuangzi. Two sea creatures spit bubbles with moisture at each other on the dry beach to help each other continue their lives. This desperate death makes people feel sad and moved.
But Zhuangzi said, rivers and lakes or forget it. Back to the sea with each other, let life be carefree and live more naturally and freely. With the size of the rivers and lakes, we may not meet again, but it's better than sharing weal and woe.
Suffering together will refine the quality of love and bring emotion to the onlookers, but the real parties and people who really love each other want each other to have a better life and greater freedom.
This is a higher level of love.
It's better to miss each other after seeing each other, from Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon.
On that day, Sima Wengong attended the Ruo banquet, and the beautiful women danced at the banquet. I saw the dancer loosely holding the cloud bun and lightly applying lead powder. His clothes are like smoke and fog, and his posture is like catkins. A burst of elegance and vulgarity brushed the dinner, and the lake rippled.
Soon, the banquet woke up, leaving only the moon quiet. That figure is still wandering in my mind, I don't know where to go.
It's better not to meet each other once in a while. It is better to be heartless than to know how bitter it is to be affectionate.
Full of memories and reluctance, silent, very romantic. Sima Wengong is not a hypocrite, but a frank man!
It's better to miss each other than to meet. Since we love each other, why don't we want to meet?
This shows that a relationship may have quietly changed.
If we carved a mark on the emotional boat when we broke up, and now the river of time is swift and the canoe has crossed Chung Shan Man, can we still save our feelings when we broke up according to that mark?
Time is like a piece of iron, which will smooth out all traces.
Once-fiery emotions became dull, and the anger of slamming the door was released, leaving an embarrassment of not knowing what to say. The promise of vows of eternal love has already been passed on to others.
So, how can we meet again? What can you say after meeting but smile?
Then don't watch it, let the final beauty freeze, and don't let the loss of goodbye ruin it.
In fact, since lovers can't be friends, let's be friends again. Tell each other frankly, and then meet as friends. What are the disadvantages of falling in love at first sight?
In fact, since it has deteriorated, it is not worth mentioning, but why should we miss it? Is this love rat's excuse or another unspeakable difficulty?
If you love each other and stay together for a long time, the ends of the earth will find you back. But now I have to whisper. It's better to miss each other than to meet.
That means that there must be huge obstacles between this relationship. Even if you cross Qian Shan, you can't get rid of the risks this relationship faces.
Just like once, the sadness of love is not embracing the sunset, but the tears in the corner of my eyes slip by inadvertently.
Can't be together, can't last forever, but meeting you in this life is my greatest unforgettable and greatest happiness, so let's separate, let's miss, and let's plant permanent memories in each other's hearts.
There is a deep empathy behind this dedication of love, so it is better to miss it than to meet each other and be praised by psychologists. This is the essence of long-term memory.
For two people who have been in love for a long time, there may be two situations: forgetting each other or missing each other.
If it is the former, it means that the original love can't stand the test of time, so forget it.
If you really love each other, you will miss them if you don't see them. Missing is to deepen memory. It always keeps a name or a past event in the working memory of the brain, which is repeatedly processed and always fresh. No matter how long the years are, they will not be dusty, and the days will be dull and will not fade.
At the same time, when we fall into memories, we usually only keep those beautiful fragments, and the once love-hate relationship will be processed into a sweet taste. This pleasure will stimulate the brain to secrete dopamine and stimulate us to taste that taste again and again.
On the other hand, if we meet, it means that the goal we missed has been achieved. The brain will remove this task, reassign it to working memory and start chasing the next goal.
This may be the beginning of forgetting.
How many crazy pursuits are left at hand after success, and how many days and nights are boring after expectation.
In this case, I won't see it, I will miss it.
Thank you for loving me, all this will be buried in my heart.
Since then, we have never met again, but that is the source of happiness for the rest of my life.
It's better to miss each other than to meet.
I wish you happiness!