Whether it is urban or rural, ancient or modern, it is a society that pays attention to human feelings. When you are weak, incompetent and poor, your relatives will pretend not to see you; When you are rich and capable, others will compliment you and want to get benefits from you. No one asks if you are poor in the city, but if you have money, you have distant relatives in the mountains. Even in modern society, this will still happen, and it will get worse and worse.
No one in the city asks if you are poor, but if you have money in the mountains, you have distant relatives. In today's society, some people are really like this, which is very realistic. When people are happy, people around them turn around. When in trouble, it's too late to hide. No wonder some people lament that the world is cold. Of course, everything has two sides. There is a saying that you have succeeded and I will accompany you to the throne. If you fail, I will accompany you to make a comeback.
This is a very realistic problem! People always say this, because most people are experiencing this reality! Comprehensive social status quo, we can understand this sentence from several aspects:
1, the most obvious thing is that you are too poor to love rich people? There are people everywhere! You are poor, others naturally don't want to have too much intersection with you, because there is no benefit to be gained! Rich people occupy most of the resources in the world, so other people who want to share resources naturally have to deal with rich people more!
2. From a deeper level, the rich man must have his ability, so there will be more people who agree with him and a larger circle of contacts! Even if you live in a deep mountain, someone will visit you, because you have enough contacts or many things! On the contrary, the poor focus on the weak, and they know so many people coming and going, and there are not many things, so naturally few people care!
This sentence reveals that the world is cold and warm, and the world is indifferent. In this fickle world, sometimes blood relatives will not help you in times of crisis, and often coldly refuse your help. . That's what I said. In this world, no one really wants you to live better than him except his parents. As an only child growing up, I have a particularly profound experience.
Question: Why do people always say that the downtown area does not ask for poverty? Ricky has distant relatives in the mountains? Answer: We always say that we are poor in downtown and no one asks. Rich people have distant relatives to meet in the mountains.
We always complain that we are poor in the downtown area and no one asks.
No one asked that we had no merits worth learning.
We hope someone will ask us to make friends, so we should reserve our knowledge and energy or tap our own strengths.
We can't just pity the life next to us and nourish negative energy, but complain that others don't get along with us.
Do others have this obligation to pay for our laziness and lack of progress?
Even if we don't need financial help from others, others don't want to meet us.
We are not skilled, and they don't need to meet us, wasting time. Everyone has something to do.
Learn to think flexibly when downtown is poor.
The bustling market is suitable for doing business, so we should seriously think about what we should do. What are you interested in? If our personality is not suitable for doing business, we will rent the house to others to do business, open up wasteland on the mountain ourselves, or work in the factory on the construction site.
We should not always complain, we should learn to change ourselves and improve ourselves.
If we want someone to make friends, we should think more about the reasons why rich people have distant relatives to make friends in the mountains.
Why do rich people have money?
The rich are aggressive.
The rich are smart and studious.
The rich are rich in unremitting efforts.
The rich are thrifty and housekeeping.
The rich are full of arrogance and rashness, and their morality is noble.
The rich are rich in primitive capital accumulation.
The rich have great wisdom to keep the capital accumulation of their parents and grandparents.
Now we know why rich people live in the mountains and have distant relatives to meet. The rich have a steady stream of wisdom and energy, which is worth satisfying.
The intersection of the rich does not include nouveau riche and unscrupulous businessmen.
About the author: A sanitation worker, whose name is Wang Lili, whose pen name is Drunk Listening, is female. She likes riding outdoors and reading poems and articles in her spare time.
In a word, poetry view: catch the light shining in your heart.
No one asks if you are poor in the city, but if you have money, you have distant relatives in the mountains. , is a household name, well known.
Although it is sad, its truth is recognized by everyone.
The complete words are as follows: human feelings are as thin as paper, and things are as new as chess. The poor live in downtown areas, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. If you don't believe me, look at the wine at the banquet. Let's toast the rich first.
Among them, the downtown area does not ask the poor, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains? When people are poor, even if their relatives and friends are not far from you, they seldom come and go. When you are rich, even if you live in the mountains, distant relatives will come to see you.
This is a fact, a worldly wisdom and a secular style. Let's make an inappropriate analogy.
Poverty is like a black hole, absorbing matter and energy; Abundance, like a star, releases light and energy. As Sima Qian wrote in Historical Records? Biography of Huo Zhi wrote: People are rich, but what about benevolence and righteousness? It also says: the deep is a fish, and the deep mountains are beasts. ?
Since ancient times, not only human beings, but also the whole biological world have learned to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, which is also the result of natural selection. Yes, poor, or financially difficult, or mentally poor, associate with it, or need help, or need sympathy, or you will be infected by negative energy? What's wrong with avoiding it
No one asks if you are poor in the city, but if you have money, you have distant relatives in the mountains. Let us know the way of the world, it will calm our hearts, complain less and be more self-reliant. Poverty is immune and wealth is beneficial to the world. Wouldn't it be better? This is people's perception and understanding of life for thousands of years. This fully reflects the indifference of the world, the survival and development of the fittest, otherwise people will spit on, abandon and forget. In today's society, people's profit-seeking thought is more serious, mercenary, and vanity has become the main tone of society. Therefore, today's snobbery is even worse than in the past. People are more explicit, more realistic and more straightforward, and there is no need to hide it. More incisive The performances at various parties are even more impressive. The rich make public, and the poor are beggars. Everyone is attached to the world, arrogant and doesn't even need a fig leaf. What feelings of classmates, comrades, colleagues and relatives are put aside. This is the harsh reality today, and it is becoming more and more realistic until the brothers and sisters are indifferent and do not communicate with each other.
This question doesn't matter whether it makes sense or not, it's a cruel reality.
Being poor means that you are meaningless to others, you can't help others, you can only be helped by others; You can't give it to others, you can only be given by others.
Poverty means no food and clothes.
Who wants to associate with the poor and the poor!
Having money is willful and has willful capital.
Look at your embarrassment, how handsome you are when you throw big bills.
Rich, countless friends, surrounded by handsome men and beautiful women, countless people are willing to help their dogs and horses.
Once the money is gone, the building is empty and people are empty.
Look at a dream of red mansions. Suddenly, it looks like a building. It looks like a lamp will go out. Sigh that the world is hard to decide. ?
How many people can live in peace if you are poor and white, and how many people can live in peace if you are poor and white?
Just look at the money, not where it comes from; As long as he has money, he envies and praises. Who cares if he is a saint or a turtle?
Weaver loves Cowherd and Zhu Yingtai loves Liang Shanbo. That's myth and legend. How many are there in reality?
Ma Yun, not handsome, has a beautiful wife. ?
The national backbone that enters the eyes of money is always curved.
Rich and heartless, what is the result?
Adults' confidence is all given by money! Making friends socially is like playing stud in a casino? Don't lack money, as long as you have a card, you dare to follow; If you don't have money, you don't have enough confidence to catch good cards.
There is an old saying: others give you face, you lose it yourself? . Why should others give you face? What are you ashamed of? The answer is actually only one word: money. If you have money, others will give you face. If you have no money, you deserve to lose face everywhere.
Ren, the richest man, once said a classic and cruel sentence. The general idea of this sentence is that people who can succeed in the world are shameless people. Only those worthless people will not try to make money, but focus on maintaining their face. Such people often don't make much money, but they always have to face up to it and bear it.
Face is given by others, but no one in the world will give you face for no reason. There must be a premise for others to give you face, and that is to see how you do.
If you are rich and powerful, others will give you enough face; You are down and out, and even your parents may not give you face. Attached to the inflammatory trend, it is human nature to hate and love the rich.
If there is no money in the bag and there is little communication, people will whisper. If a person doesn't mix well, has no money and likes to talk nonsense in social situations, will people treat this person as a fool? Still crazy? .
But what if he is a rich man? Even if he is full of empty talk, bravado and unknown address, people will listen to him. What's going on here? Because people have money.
The size of a person's face must be directly proportional to whether he is good or not. How much money is there in this materialistic world? In the heroic age, everyone's face will only be given to those rich people.
As for those who have no money, save yourself some face. Go out less, see few people, live alone and meet people around you. This is to save face for yourself.
Always remember: adults' confidence is given by money. If you are weak, put down your face and earn money. If you earn money, you will naturally earn face.