First, don't wait, show yourself.
Don't wait for girls to come to you. Although it is possible, it is really rare. In fact, choosing a boyfriend for a girl is very similar to buying clothes. No one will count them shelf by shelf. They just browsed a shop. If there is nothing that catches their attention, they will go to the next store immediately. What attracts them most is print advertisements or clothes displayed by models. Although you don't have to buy it, your eyes stay a lot.
So, even if you are an honest and boring boy, don't be a dress on the shelf in the corner. Show yourself and let others see you! Participate in various activities in schools, units and society, and give full play to your abilities and advantages, ranging from challenging, creative and unusual things to your own dress, hairstyle and desk layout. Your statement may not be perfect, so it doesn't matter. You don't have to think about how many people who notice you will appreciate you, because as long as a few or even only one girl appreciates you, you will
Second, take the first step bravely.
The hardest part is actually in the beginning Don't let men who are surrounded by girls oppress you and make you feel ashamed. The secret you need to know is that the number of times they kick the iron plate is actually much greater than the number of times they succeed. Although men who are good at chasing women have their own tricks, they all have two things in common: courage and thick skin.
Be bold and take the initiative. The extroversion, reserve and arrogance of girls are often just a shell to protect themselves. As long as you are polite and generous, they will not refuse your friendly greetings and sunny smiles. This may be your first step towards love.
Third, don't be afraid of many failures, because you only need one success.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It's definitely not your fault that a girl doesn't appreciate you, just as it's not her fault that you don't appreciate a girl. Even if you have been rejected by a hundred girls, it doesn't matter. Being rejected will not degrade your character and quality, but all you need is one success, one time is enough.
Sometimes, although a girl appreciates you and likes you, she doesn't love you, which makes you fall into the pain of unrequited love, but it is also very good and rare to take a step back and let go of your feelings and keep a confidante. Only a playboy can calculate the success rate of chasing a woman, and a sincere man only yearns for a lifetime fate.