We often hear young people say to their elderly family members, "If you are old, you don't need to go around, just stay at home with your grandchildren, go to the park, and dance in the square in the evening." This seems to be right at first glance, a careful taste but found it is how ridiculous!
Yes, everyone can only be young once, everyone is singing the praises of youth is priceless, but everyone can only be middle-aged once, old age once ah. Every stage of life is precious, so why favor one over the other?
All human beings grow old, and old age is not a terrible thing, but the loss of curiosity to explore the world because of age is terrible.
Some people are already 60 or 70 years old, but they still smile like a child and are willing to accept new things. On the contrary, some young people live a stereotypical life, do not smile, stay at home all day and do not go out, and make themselves yellow and thin, they are the real old.
The word "old", when I first heard it, I thought it was horrible, but when I thought about it, I thought it was pretty good. Some people grow wrinkles began to scream, in fact, that is God's generous treatment, face more than a wrinkle, to protect your feet across a hurdle. There are too many people in the world, tripped by the bumpy road, not that blessed peace to old age.
But there are still people who spend a lot of money on plastic surgery and injections to keep their "young" faces. Yes, the beauty, indeed take advantage of. But it is very short-lived, and if you don't know how to do it, you'll get sick of it in no time.
Some women look ordinary, but the more we talk, the more we feel they have flavor. The day of the color of the people will not last too long. Nowadays, a lot of people are looking for someone who is interesting before they have a face.
Some people say, "I know that old age is no excuse, but can I wait until my grandchildren are older and in kindergarten before I pursue my own life?"
Your life should be your own decision and responsibility, but you have to know the truth of "do it now". Everything should be dealt with as soon as it comes to mind, or else it will be forgotten.
Today, I forget, next month, I can not remember, tomorrow, do it again! The next day will be the next day, and the next day will be the next day! Then a delay, the grandchildren are married, may be you are still on earth, then you have to bring the heavy grandchildren, and it is possible that you are not even in this world.
Young people think they have a lot of time to spend, so they don't listen to these words, what about the elderly? Still, it's good to think about family, but don't forget to live your own life.
Each of us will grow old, full of wrinkles, sagging skin, gray hair, maybe some have become bald. But I wish I could be like red wine, the older the more mellow. An aroma, enticing young people to the group. Everything to see open, put down, life is open and cheerful, that's how good!
Many people are afraid that they are a special case, standing in a pile of normal people like a sudden intrusion of aliens, but people are different is good, there is no need to fight a high and low.
Why be afraid of being different? Could it be that one day you feel like saying, "Wow! Everyone around me doesn't wear fall pants in the winter, so I don't want to wear fall pants either." What if you're just an old cold leg? Then it's you who will suffer if you don't wear fall pants, not those who are healthy.
So what is a capricious life? To be able to face aging openly, to keep the curiosity of exploring the world forever, and not to be afraid of being different, this is a capricious life!
Cailan said, "To enjoy good food, you have to sacrifice a little health. If you can't eat this one, you can't eat that one, what's the point of living?" This is capricious! But "capricious is not arbitrary, but in the social norms and rules allow the scope to do without constraints. That is to say, do what you want to do when you want to do it the most, otherwise there will be a lot of things you regret."
Shu Guozhi, author of An Ideal Afternoon, said, "It's actually very difficult for people to be capricious, to be their own masters, to enjoy themselves, and to be able to pretend that they don't know that old age is coming is something that has to be created."
This way of life, and not just need to create, or very dependent on the person's own cultivation. And this cultivation, and the state of life complement each other. The lifestyle that Cailan pursues is a free and happy lifestyle, a capricious and forthright lifestyle. Such a life, I think, is also what you expect.