In fact, no matter how you choose, you always have your deepest thoughts. In my opinion, although the person you like doesn't like yourself, it doesn't prevent you from falling in love, and generally speaking, if you want to get better feelings, you need to pursue them yourself, so you can choose to face up to your feelings and pursue them bravely, so that the other person can feel your sincerity, so that you can get the other person's love.
Of course, for me, the best choice is to face the people who love me. Because in the face of people who love themselves, it is often easier to get a happy life, but understand, after doing this, will you have feelings for this person who loves you deeply in the future? If you can't guarantee this, then it's best not to give each other hope, but if you can do this, then your future life will be very happy.
But in any case, the most fundamental criterion still lies in your own heart, what do you think of such a choice. Only by truly conforming to your own heart can you make a choice that you will never regret and find your own happiness.