Life is made up of meanings. People at each stage have different meanings that need to be pursued. Society has arranged a fixed life script for everyone. When we are born, we begin to perceive the world and need someone to raise us to survive. When we have the ability to support ourselves, we begin to explore new areas of life: going to school, going to work, falling in love, getting married, having children... Have you ever thought about what happens when we become successful, have a happy family, travel to many places, and see many people? People, after experiencing many fun and interesting things, what is the meaning of life?
We can continue to live step by step according to the script of the life stage, but there will always be a moment when you suddenly feel very lonely, and no matter how close the people around you are, you can't heal this loneliness; suddenly you feel very confused, What I was doing at hand was not that important; suddenly I no longer looked forward to the arrival of the next day, and felt an indescribable boredom; suddenly I didn’t know what to do, and nothing could fill the hole in my heart...
Sooner or later, we will all enter a similar "bottleneck period". The stimulation of the external world can no longer satisfy us, and we have to continue to live. How do we find the meaning of life and live a good life in the future? ?
First, start to reflect and examine your past life and look for fixed patterns. If you want to find the true meaning of life, you must break the old meaning of life that limits you. You can reflect on what you have experienced in the past. Are there any "surprising similarities"? The kind of thing that just changes the person and the environment, but from the beginning to the end is almost the same as before, is your inherent pattern. If you don't break it, life will still be like this in the future.
Second, find the things you really like from the inherent patterns that limit you. Hobbies are a person’s true inner needs. Are there any hobbies that you like very much but stopped due to practical reasons? Or maybe it’s just a belief that you don’t know who told you that has closed your heart, for example: There is no future in this profession in the future...
Third, use your innate talents and talents and love what you do. Love, every day is the best day. No longer expect that one day all your dreams will come true, do what you really like, and sincerely love the people and things around you. Every day is a unique day. This kind of life is full of meaning.
Everyday is perfect day! Good Luck!
Yao Zhitianwen, nicknamed Yaoyao, has a master's degree in communication from Renmin University of China and is a physical, mental and spiritual healer. Upgrade your cognition and live your life. Personal WeChat ID: rryy314; WeChat public account: loves-knows.