How can we make the elderly treat life positively?
How do the elderly face life positively? To tell the truth, this question seems unnecessary. I think most old people are super positive about life. For example, they get up early every day to go to the park to exercise, then cook food for themselves and help their children take care of their children's children. For example, at night in our family, they will go to that fixed corner of the park to listen to others playing erhu, playing flute and singing big plays. Although retired, I still have to help my children take care of them every day. This may be the present situation of the elderly in China, but it is undeniable that this is in line with the national conditions. With children, they will become young and active, and they will try new things that they have never tried before, which will make them face life more positively. There may be some old people who are not very active in life. I think one of them is the elderly who stay behind, without their own children around, without grandchildren to have fun and enjoy any family happiness. I think this kind of old people may have no passion for life and always feel that life is just muddling along. No way, we can only rely on social help, or family members to send the elderly to nursing homes. With peers to be companions, we will be less empty and have more hope for life. Some families don't have the financial ability to send the elderly to nursing homes, or the places where the elderly live simply don't have the conditions. They can only rely on some voluntary associations, some volunteers and some government departments to express their condolences on holidays, but these are all temporary solutions rather than permanent solutions. After people leave, the life of the elderly will return to normal. There are also some terminally ill elderly people who really have no expectations for life and always feel that living is a drag. If so, I think there is really no way to improve their enthusiasm for life. Most elderly people are still very positive about life. They want to see family harmony, promising children and grandchildren, and happiness, so they are full of expectations for life and can live actively and seriously. If you are a few left-behind elderly people with few family members, what your children and grandchildren need to do is to make your elderly people live in a group as much as possible, don't care about money, don't be stingy with the places they should use, let them have company, and make their daily life more colorful. If it is that kind of lonely old man, I suggest that children don't mind him (her) finding a wife and don't be so narrow-minded. Therefore, it is always good for feudal old people and old people to have many people who are familiar with hot and cold, and it is expected to have a feeling of starting a new life.