What if my family often urges me to get married?

People who are often urged to get married by their families usually don't want to get married or haven't met the right person yet. At this time, in order to reassure the family, you can choose to communicate well, such as risk, coquetry, reassuring your parents and so on.

First, go against the customer and disrupt each other's situation. When asking about love and marriage, first care about each other's situation. "Aunt, when will the first cousin get married?" "When will the second cousin have a baby?" "Uncle's salary has been rising in recent years. How much has his salary increased? " "How is your square dance? Have you learned the dance steps of the little apple? " The other party either pokes a sore spot and loses interest in chatting, or is immersed in personal life and forgets your existence.

Second, risk. When it comes to marriage, you will feel sad and tell the unfortunate experience of your last relationship like Sister Xianglin. It's better to add "I don't believe in love anymore" and "My heart is still hurting. What should I do? " "I'm not ready to start the next relationship" and other lines. When the elders see that you are hurt, they will stop talking and bring it up later.

Third, honey trap, there is no lower limit for coquetry (not applicable to boys). Blinking watery eyes, looking at each other's face: "Damn, I'm still young!" " "Don't you like me? You want to marry me off so soon! I still want to spend more years with my parents! "

Fourth, be prepared when facing the enemy. Answered confidently: "I am also considering it. Don't worry! " If you don't want to be nagged by your parents about getting married, you'd better put on a confident look and make people feel that you have found a good way out and everything is going well. However, in order to prevent cheating under the questioning of parents, we should make more preparations, such as forging the image and information of a nonexistent boyfriend and making everything watertight.

5. Seek common ground while reserving differences. First of all, I will definitely get married, and then I will say that marriage has many benefits. Mom and dad listened well, which was equivalent to giving them a reassurance. Then I talked about my plans for my future life. Doing what you like is the most effective way to start negotiations. If you start quarreling, they won't listen to you for a while.