Dear, are you asleep? If you are sleeping, I would like to beat you up, listen carefully to what I say, let me list your bad deeds like a treasure, let me tell you the great grievances over the years.
We have been together for a long time, right? Five years is still short, after all, you have only lived five years, but you have ten years of scheming. How can I, a stupid kid with an unsound mind, defeat you? So the tragedy of a moth flying into a flame was doomed from the beginning.
In the past five years, I have been making rapid progress every day. It’s impossible not to be very fast. Because your legs are long. If you take one step, I have to take two steps. If you walk quickly, I have to trot. You trot. I have to sprint, I’m tired! I took three steps and made two steps at the same time, and took two steps and made one step at a time. I strode like lightning in high heels.
I silently observe your words and deeds, and carefully understand your likes and dislikes. I imagine that you are as free and easy as you, chatting and laughing. I study hard and make progress every day. I think at least mentally I strive to be on the same level as you.
You can memorize large sections of classic dialogues in Gu Long's books, and you write down unforgettable words in a small notebook. Although your handwriting is ugly, I still think you are very tasteful. I will learn from you. I also developed a notepad with your image in mind, but unfortunately I only wrote down some romantic romances.
By chance, I discovered what Linghu Chong said to Ren Yingying from your notebook: I am the only one in this world. If there is a rift between you and me, what's the point? Only then did I realize that you read Jin Yong, and you also read such lengthy tomes, unlike me who was bored with the endless historical descriptions. That time I felt ashamed of my ignorance.
I know you are a game fanatic, because every time you mention QUAKE, you get excited and excited. I wonder if it's a new version of the mine-digging game. Later, I saw this game from a friend, and I was very excited at that time. From now on, whenever QUAKE is mentioned, I will feel an inexplicable sense of pride. To be honest, I have tried to draw a few tentative gestures, but I really can't see this kind of dog-eat-dog approach.
You liked my new white shirt with ruffles. I was so stunned that it didn’t come off the shelves for a week. As you know in Beijing these days, that dress was considered a disability. I kept wearing it. Consider dyeing it all over. In fact, slowly I realized that the dress was not as good-looking as you thought, because every time I put on a new dress you said it looked good. If I had known better, I wouldn't have chewed on that one. It's so expensive!
Alas, after so many years, I have been following you like a little lunatic. Have you noticed all the coincidences and encounters? My dear, have you seen the progress I have made bit by bit? Have you seen how many more books I have read, how many more songs I have learned, and how many more hobbies and tastes I have developed?
People say that if you love you, you will become you. Look at me, but you should get up and look at me. Do you think we two look alike? Why do you have to sleep like a dead pig? I am expressing my emotions. I am lamenting and complaining that you are killing so much scenery! I used clothespins to clamp your ears, I used cotton balls to block your nostrils, and I drew bastard pictures on your big face and you didn’t even wake up. I'm really heartbroken. What should I do to you? Will you wake up if I kiss your fat lips? People say that where sincerity leads to gold, even if you have been a frog for so many years, you should have turned into a prince. But as for you, you are just you, you have always been you, and I can only be me.
My dear, stop pretending to be asleep. If you sleep too much, you will become a fool. I won’t pester you anymore. It’s been five years and I’m tired. You can’t pat me on the back for all the grievances I’ve suffered. My back, giving me a warm hug makes me feel much comfort.
Forget it, let me sing you a song whether you are awake or asleep. In fact, it doesn’t matter to me whether you hear it or not. Ahem:
Maybe your love is a double bed/ Maybe anyone can accompany you on your wanderings/Your eyes are locked on a certain place/Your stubbornness is a wall and your heart is not open/Maybe your heart is a single room/One more person will make you look nervous/I want to see you Your initial appearance/How would you put on the disguise you took off
After singing, you still haven’t woken up. Falling in love with you is like a moth flying into a flame.
Some things cannot be forced, so I have to try my best to look at them more.
I still believe in love, but I have also understood that love is by no means everything in life.
Hugging is really wonderful. Although two hearts are very close, they can’t see each other’s faces. .
Falling in love with you is like a moth flying into a flame. I have been prepared to die together from the very beginning.
If there is an afterlife, be a tree and stand for eternity without a sad posture
To the world, you may be just a person, but to me, you are My whole world.
The ups and downs keep repeating themselves in a love. For another person, the sky would not always be blue.
Love is not about staring at each other, but looking in the same direction together.
Only thin water can flow forever, and only ordinary happiness can last forever
Sometimes, I want to hide and be vulnerable alone, and don’t want others to see my wounds.
In this final farewell, we can only turn around and go our separate ways
Simple life is charming, simple people are happy; learning to be simple is actually not simple.
Now, we should all forget about each other and live each other's lives again.
The final outcome is still tragic. To put it bluntly. It’s not that I don’t love it. I just can't stand the dullness of life.
Some memories are so gorgeous that I dare not touch them, but I can't resist the temptation.
Life is not easy, it all depends on acting. Play the role as yourself and play yourself until you lose your memory.
The most beautiful years are reserved for a bright smile, the courage to love, hate, and pursue.
Missing someone may sometimes bring a smile, but your heart will shed tears.
The happiness in the past laughs at the pain in my heart. It turns out that the most painful pain in the world is leaving.
I would rather regret what I have done than regret what I have not done.
Happiness lies in the original promise, in the future dreams, and by your side.
Everything will be good in the end. If it's not a good thing, it means it's not the end yet.
After you left, the sky where the fireworks were set off was still deep and cold.
Some people are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for.
It’s not that I can’t forgive, it’s just that love without trust becomes an absurd drama.
The deepest part of love is that when you leave, the whole world becomes blank.
The best love allows you to constantly improve yourself without losing yourself.
Time is like running water. And we can never touch the same flowing water twice.
There is no reason to fall in love, and there is no reason to leave, so stay.
Flowers bloom and then fade, and people come and go. If he is destined to be a passer-by, why bother with him in the first place.
One is a gorgeous and short dream, the other is a cruel and long reality.
You are sitting here, are you waiting for a love, or are you killing some time.
The sweetness lingers in my ears, and the journey we have taken together is not as happy as I imagined.
We are giving up and whitening out our memories, thinking that we can disguise innocent beauty.
People who love you will fall in love with your shortcomings; people who don’t love you will not be able to understand your beauty.
No one can understand your pain. Then you can only smile through tears.
If I had never gotten it before, I would not miss it so much at this time.
Everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often in the eyes of others.
Moths flying into the flame - bringing about self-destruction/suicide/suicide
About "moths flying into the flame"
1. Basic information
The source is from Yao Silian's "Liang Shu Biography of Dao Gai (gài Gai)" written by Yao Silian of the Tang Dynasty. Original text: "Like a moth rushing to the fire, why would you burn your body?" Like a moth rushing to the fire. It is a metaphor for seeking death and self-destruction. It is also a metaphor for rushing towards the desired goal regardless of the cost. Sometimes it has a derogatory meaning, and can be used as a metaphor for a bad guy who slipped through the net and threw himself to death.
Example If he throws himself in today, wouldn’t it be that he is asking for his own death? --The second chapter of "Xiaoxiang Rain" by Yang Xianzhi of the Yuan Dynasty
Usage Used as predicate, adverbial, and attributive; refers to self-destruction.
Story Xiao Yan (yǎn), Emperor Wu of Liang Dynasty, was the twenty-fifth grandson of Xiao He, the famous prime minister of the Han Dynasty. He inherited the legacy of his ancestors and had extensive knowledge. To Gai, he is smart, studious, fair, and straightforward. When he reaches the official position, he often serves as a servant, waiter in the middle, and offers wine to the prince of the country. Due to the appreciation of Emperor Wu of Liang Dynasty, Daofeng was promoted to Yin Cheng of Danyang. At the same time, Dao Gai was also one of Emperor Wu's chess friends.
One day, Emperor Wu of Liang was playing against Zhu Yi, a famous player at that time, and he was watching the game from the sidelines. Seeing that the game was about to end, Zhu Yi accidentally messed up the pieces on the chessboard. Emperor Wu of Liang was very unhappy. Zhu Yi was too frightened to say anything and knelt down to accept the crime. He was not in a hurry, and advised from the side: "It doesn't matter, I have memorized all the chess games just now, and you can review it immediately. Let's continue playing chess." After that, he immediately laid out the chess game as it was. It turned out that not a single chess piece was missing. Emperor Wu of Liang and the ministers present were astonished and admired his photographic memory. After that, Emperor Wu of Liang often made appointments to play chess in the Imperial Garden.
There was a grandson named Dao (jìn) in Daogai. He was very smart and could write poems and compositions since he was a child. Emperor Wu of Liang liked him very much and often took him out to play. Sometimes I go to Jingkou and climb up to the Beigu Tower to recite poems and compose poems. Dao Xin's poetry became better and better, and in the eyes of Emperor Wu of Liang Dynasty, he had already surpassed Dao Gai.
Once, Emperor Wu of Liang Dynasty admired Dao's poems after seeing them. He jokingly said to Daoji: "No wonder you write so well every time you submit a letter. It was probably your grandson who wrote it for you." Right?" After saying this, he burst into laughter and wrote a poem for Daoji: "I grind the ink to write, and the pen flies to write the letter. How can I burn my body like a moth? He must have reached his old age, so he can pretend to be Shao Xun. "It means: the inkstone grinds out ink to write articles, and the pen is used to write letters. At this time, like a moth rushing to the fire, go all out and forget that you may be destroyed. You are already an old man, why don't you let your grandson come to Nilai to write articles on your behalf?
Synonyms: overestimating one's ability, mantis' arm like a chariot
2. Scientific explanation
(1) A phenomenon
In fact, the moth is just keeping to itself The flying direction is at a certain angle with the light source. As it continues to fly, it will continue to change the angle, and the trajectory will gradually approach the light source, just like the shape of a mosquito coil, flying around the light source, and the radius gradually shrinks, and finally touches the light source. , if unfortunately it flies around the flames, then... it does not fly directly towards the light source.
(2) Two explanations
Why do moths often fly toward the light of fire? There are currently two mainstream explanations for this problem in science:
Explanation 1
After long-term observations and experiments, scientists have discovered that moths and other insects rely on their wings when flying at night. The direction is determined by moonlight. A moth always causes moonlight to fall into its eyes from one direction. After a moth escapes from being chased by a bat or turns around an obstacle, as long as it turns another corner, the moonlight will still come from the original direction, and it has found its direction. This is a kind of "celestial navigation".
The moth saw the light and mistakenly thought it was "moonlight". Therefore, it also uses this fake "moonlight" to identify directions. The moon is very far away from the earth. As long as the moth maintains a fixed angle to the moon, it can fly in a certain direction. However, the light is very close to the moth, and the moth instinctively maintains a fixed angle with the light source, so it can only circle around the light until it finally dies of exhaustion.
Explanation 2
Many insects only fly among flowers after sunset and nightfall, collecting nectar and pollinating plants. In the dark night, they can successfully find flowers, which is due to the "flash language". When nocturnal insects fly in the air, due to the vibration of their wings, they constantly friction with the air, generate heat energy, and emit ultraviolet light to "ask for directions" to flowers. Due to the exposure of ultraviolet light, the flowers arouse dim "nightlight" echoes and emit enthusiasm. An invitation; when the special structure of the insect receives the echo of the flower's "night light", it will fly away to pollinate the flower, causing it to bear fruit and pass on to future generations. In this way, the light language of insects also contributes to the prosperity of nature. Therefore, most nocturnal insects have phototaxis, and "moths flying into the flames" are a true reflection of this habit. In addition, in fact, the moth does not subjectively want to die in the flames. It is because the structure of its compound eyes makes it fly around the fire at a spiral angle, gradually approaching and finally extinguishing the fire. You are not wrong, it was me who flew into the flames
1. The farthest distance in the world is the path where my tears fall after you turn around.
2. I will still believe in love, but I will no longer believe that love can last forever.
3. The only thing I didn't do well was to say "I love you".
4. Instead of making excuses everywhere, it’s better to just say I don’t love you anymore.
5. I will never go out of my way to love someone again, even you.
6. When you see through everything, you realize that losing is more practical than having.
7. Looking through the fleeting time in your eyes, I believe that you really loved me, just like I really lived or died for you.
8. You suddenly reminded me that the time we have known each other can be counted in years. You have found the one you love, but I am still wandering in the same place.
9. Heartbreaking attempts to stay are just a sign of unwillingness.
10. Looking at your leaving back, I told myself to be strong and not cry, because I love you and understand you.
11. We are all separated in the wind of time. Looking back, we can’t see the traces of being together, even though we have been together so hard.
12. I turn just to meet you, but I forget that you will also turn.
13. I always think that if there is an original me at the beginning, there will also be an original you.
14. For you, I can only miss you as a stranger.
15. Maybe one day, you look back, but I am no longer at that intersection.
16. When you have the ending and the process, if you continue to struggle, even you will feel greedy.
17. Forgetting you is to prove that I can forget you.
18. We agreed to watch the flowing water together forever, but we became someone else’s. At the forked road, you were on the left and I was on the right. We were both stubborn and never looked back.
19. The words hidden deep in my heart are not meant to be hidden, but not all pain can be shouted out.
20. There is only one true love in this life, and no matter how tender the love is again, it will not break your bones again.
21. I keep writing a diary. I don’t know whether it is the pen or the memory that I can’t stop writing.
22. You have to find happiness individually, and you will eventually get used to one's scenery. After so long, I finally learned to smile and miss him.
23. In this city, be a passing scenery, a hasty passerby, just for one person.
24. The first love can never be understated.
25. There is nothing that cannot be forgotten. I will always forget you in the future. I will forget your appearance first, then your voice, and what you said. Not now, but in the future. That's ok too.
26. It seems that I have been waiting for a hundred years, and suddenly I understand that even if we meet again, it would be better not to see each other in a mature performance.
27. Let me stand at the heartbroken place and gently tie a knot, a kind of mending, to prevent the pain from flowing out again.
28. I know that forgetting is an easy thing. As long as you don't look at it, don't think about it, don't remember it, you will forget it, just like the sky after the fireworks.
29. We have to wait until a long time has passed, and we have to wait until there is no retreat, and then we realize that the things we have given up with our own hands will never be encountered again in the days to come.
30. I cried on the way home, and my tears broke down again. I was powerless to walk like this, and I no longer dared to be proud and ask for extravagant things. What else could I say? What else can I do? I really hope you will hear me, because I love you, I let you go.
31. Goodbye, I love you so much. Although I am clumsy, I have worked hard, so I have no regrets. Now, I give my love back to you, can you give me back the little bit of pride I have?
32. We will never regard each other as irreplaceable as before; we will never love as hard as before until we cry.
33. After walking this journey with you, you will also become the road I pass by.
34. If you can, please don’t forget about it. When the wound is healed, you have to be willing to leave.
35. One day, I finally stopped missing him, because he had been gone for too long, and my habit was no longer a habit.
36. I have always been stubborn in thinking that I can smile calmly no matter what happens. However, when you finally turned around and decided to leave, I burst into tears that could not be suppressed. This is, the past happiness laughs at the pain in my heart. It turns out that the most painful pain in the world is to leave.
37. The most romantic words of love are when the lover who has broken up with you calls and asks, "How are you?" and your ordinary answer is, "I'm fine." But in fact, you still love You are not good at all with him.
38. One day when you think of me, time has settled all the mistakes, and you have learned not to ask why. Until one day, when you start to be stingy in the face of love, will you miss the original passion? They went through twists and turns along the way, until one day, they chose someone to help each other.
39. There is a person who teaches you how to love, but he doesn’t love you anymore.
40. I won’t get used to being without him, because I have never been used to having him.
41. To forget that person, it is better to forget yourself and tell yourself that you are not afraid that he will forget you, but that you are afraid that he will think of you again one day. Time takes away memories, but the memories will become clearer and clearer. One day, if he turns around and tells you that he has been thinking about you, don't believe it, because he is no longer the same person, and you are no longer the same person as you were in the past.
42. You are not wrong, it was me who drew the moth to the flame.
43. I have always had you in my heart, but the proportion has changed.
44. Now it’s finally time to say goodbye. He left before me, but I feel a little relieved. Sooner or later, one of us will experience this kind of sadness alone, so let me bear it.