Unlike other contemporaries who depicted the relationship between literati and courtesans, Mao Pang's love words mostly reflected the relationship between husband and wife. This was rare in a feudal society where love was the norm. Mao Pang's first wife, Zhao Ying, was the granddaughter of the famous Northern Song courtier Zhao Jin, who had been orphaned at an early age and was a scholarly woman. At the age of eighteen, she was married off to Mao Pang by Zhao Jin. She was married to Mao Pang at the age of eighteen. She was "thinly veiled, with simple clothing and embroidery", yet she treated her guests with hospitality and compassion. When Mao Pang was a young man, he was "lazy and slow in nature, and disliked working as a bureaucrat, so his family members laughed and scolded him, thinking he was a fool", but Zhao Ying counseled him, saying, "Life is full of clothes, food and clothing, and you can take a break. Jun first everyone, almost hide 10,000 volumes, in which the sages are all; Jun although closed to the old man, the end is not forlorn." (6) It can be seen that the young couple was in love with each other and their conjugal life was very compatible. In the Dongtang Words, there is a poem about being fond of one's wife during a journey: "The short rows of horses are still stopped, but the heart goes first. I said that I would return to my wife and called her to be my wife. When the sun is setting, the city is no longer the same. The wind and the dew are cold, and the high building is a mistake for me to wait for her. Tonight, I am alone in the village, how can I go to the moonlight? I still dream of returning to the embroidered front. The distant mountains are imagined and the autumn waves are rippling. Tomorrow night, I'll paint my eyebrows with you." (Fatigue. About the return date of the occasional paratroopers play to send inside") have with his wife *** degree of Tanabata Festival: "short sparse haunting green elephant bed low, jade ducks to incense late. The clouds are light on the river and cool on the branches of the blue woo. Autumn rhythms, moon yin move, under the curtain. The same scenery on earth and in heaven is known to me and to you." (《訴衷情.七夕》) There are also many other expressions of love for a person. (Tanabata) There are also many expressions of good wishes to his wife entitled "family birthday" birthday words.
Mao Pang's love words do not see any lovemaking, nor do they see any sexualized language, but they are all about love, and they are not explicit, and there is no such thing as a mushy, mushy language. The first time I saw Mao Pang's love story was when he was in love with his wife, and he was so happy that he was able to get away with it. Night Shen Shen, drunken soul blinded pine. The rain calls for smoke to pay for the bleakness, and not, those good dreams. Tomorrow, the smoky river will be dark all night. The flat boat is tied up with a line of rainbow. The seasonal eagle affairs are filled with water, and the perch boat is seen off again and again." (Night Boat. The rainy night moored to the Wujiang River, tomorrow over the Rainbow Pavilion") Mao Pang word direct emotional place is very little, that is, the following song "Sheng Chazi" to see, the word of the sadness of the sorrow of all the sadness of all depending on the twilight of the late spring, the setting sun on the riverbanks, the scattered wind scent, the fading of the spring flowers, the fluttering flotsam, and so on, the bleak and symbolic scenery to bring out.
Spring evening out of the mountain city, the sunset line the river bank. The people do not **** the tide to come, the fragrance is also scattered in the wind.
The flowers are not made up, the warblers are trapped in the song break. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
In ancient poetry, the sincere and pure emotions between husband and wife were often expressed in the form of mourning and farewell, while Mao Pang allowed it to be displayed in his daily life, such as boat trips, festivals and birthday celebrations, with warm and lingering feelings, and a relaxed and joyful mood, which more completely documented a feudal scholar's obsessive and undying love for his wife, and is clearly of unique ideological value.
2. Ancient husbands thank their wives in Mandarin
There are, but it is a farewell, Huanghuagang martyrs, Lin Jiumin's "and his wife's book" The following is a detailed "and his wife's book" meaning to reflect the Qingqingqing such as Thames, I am now with this book and you forever goodbye!
I made this book, teardrops and pen and ink down, can not go to the end of the book and want to shelve the pen, and fear that you do not realize my heart, that I can not bear to leave you to die, that I do not know that you do not want me to die, so I endured the sadness of the words for you. I love you, that is, I love you a thought, so that I am brave on the death also.
Since I met you, I often wish that all lovers in the world have become lovers; but everywhere fishy clouds, full of dogs and wolves in the street, happy, how many can enough? Sima spring shirt, I can not learn too much forgetfulness also. Language cloud: the benevolent "old as we are old, as well as people old; young as we are young, as well as people young".
I fill my love for your heart, to help the world to love their love, so dare to die first you, regardless of your also.
You do not grieve! I'm not sure if you remember, but I'm sure you'll be able to tell. Four or five years ago on a certain night, I tasted said: "and make me die first, no rather you die first." You first heard the words and anger, after I politely explained, although I do not say that my words are, but also have no words to answer.
My intention is to say to your weak, will not be able to lose my grief, I die first to stay bitter with you, my heart can not bear, so I would rather ask you to die first, I take the grief. Contempt! Who knew that I died before you? I really can not forget you! Recall the back street of the house, the door through the corridor, through the front and back of the hall, and three or four folds, there is a small hall, a room next to the hall, for me and you to double the place.
The first three or four months of marriage, the appropriate winter before and after the day of hope, outside the window of the sparse plum sieve moon shadow, vaguely reflecting; I and (you) side by side hand, low cut, what is not to say? What is it that we don't talk about? And now I think of it, empty tear marks. And recall six or seven years ago, I fled home to return, you sobbed to me: "hope that in the future there is a long distance travel, will tell the concubine, I would like to follow you line."
I also both promised you carry on. More than ten days before home, that is, I want to take advantage of this line of things to say to you, and with your relative, and can not open the mouth, and to your body is also more afraid of not winning the grief, so only day to day call for wine to buy drunk.
Contempt! At that time, the sadness of the remaining heart, cover can not be described by an inch pipe. I sincerely wish to die with you, the first to today's situation, natural disasters can die, thieves can die, can die on the day of the partition, can die, the evil officials abuse the people can die, my generation in today's China, the country no place and no time can not be dead, so that at that time, so that I look at you to die, or make you look at me to die, I can be it? Can I or can you? Can not die, and separated not to see each other, in vain, so that the eyes of the two places into wear and bone into stone, ask how many times in ancient times have seen the broken mirror can be reunited? It is more bitter than death, what can we do? The first thing I want to do is to get rid of all the stuff that I've been doing.
The world's people do not want to die and death and do not want to leave and leave, can not be counted, love such as my generation, can bear it? The first thing that I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what is going on in the world and what is going on in the world.
Yi Xin has been five years old, turned into an adult, you have to be good at caressing, so that the Xiao me. I suspect that the woman in your womb is also a woman who will be like you, and I am very happy about that.
Or again is a man, then also teach his father's will for the will, then I still have two holes in the will after death. I'm not sure if I can do that, but I'm sure I can! My family in the future when very poor, poor no suffering, quiet days only.
I have no words with you today.
I have no words with you now, but when I hear your cry from the bottom of the grave, I will cry for you.
I usually do not believe that there are ghosts, and now I hope that there really are. Today, people also say that telepathy has a way, I also hope that their words are true, then my death, my spirit still rely on the side you also, you do not have to be no couple sad.
I have not tasted in my life to my will to say you, is not my place; but language, and I am afraid that you worry about me day after day. I sacrificed a hundred deaths and not resigned, but to make you worry, of the non-we can not bear.
I love you so much that I am afraid that I have not done enough for you. I love you so much that I am afraid that I have not done enough for you! I am fortunate to have you, and why not fortunate to be born today's China! The first thing I'd like to do is to get out of the way and get out of the way.
Contempt! The short towel love long, not yet exhausted, there are still thousands, you can simulate the get. I can't see you now! You can not give up my, it is sometimes in the dream to get me! A mournful! Xinwei March 26 night four drums, Yi Dong handwritten.
All the mothers in the family are fluent in the language, there is no understanding of the place, I hope to ask for guidance, when I do my best for the honor. [edit paragraph] Translation Yi Ying love wife, see the word as face: I now use this letter with you forever separate! When I wrote this letter, I was still a person in the human world; when you read this letter, I have become a ghost in the underworld.
I write this letter, teardrops and ink fall together, not able to write the letter on the want to put down the pen, but also afraid that you do not appreciate my heart, that I can not bear to abandon you to die, that I do not know you do not want me to die, so it is forcibly held back the grief to say these words to you. I love you very much, and it is this intention of loving you that prompts me to die bravely ah.
Since I have known you, I have often wished that all lovers in the world could be married; but there are bloody clouds everywhere, and the streets are full of ferocious wolves and evil dogs, so how many families can be satisfied? Jiangzhou Sima sympathized with the pipa girl's sufferings and wet his green shirt with tears, I can't learn from that kind of saints with high thinking and forget about feelings. The old saying goes: "A loving person honors his own old man, and thus honors the old man of others, and loves his own son and daughter, and thus loves the son and daughter of others".
I expand on my love for you to help the world to love those they love, so I dare to die before you and not care about you. If you can sympathize with this feeling of mine, after weeping, you should also take the people of the world as those whom you miss, and you should also be happy to sacrifice the welfare of my life and your life for the permanent happiness of the people of the world.
Do not be sad! Do you remember? One night, four or five years ago, I used to say to you, "Instead of letting me die first, let you die first." You were angry when you first heard this, and then after I explained it politely, you had nothing to say in reply, though you did not say that my words were right.
I meant to say that with your thin body, you must not be able to withstand the grief of losing me, and that I could not bear it in my heart to die first and leave the pain to you, so I preferred to hope that you would die first, and let me bear the grief. Alas! Who knew that I would die before you after all? I really can't forget you! Memories of the back streets of our home, enter the front door, through the corridor, through the front and back halls, and turn three or four turns, there is a small hall, there is a room next to the small hall, that is where I live with you ****.
Just married three or four months, just in time for the fifteenth day of the winter moon around the window of the sparse branches of the plum sieve down the shadow of the moon to cover the reflection; good me and you and side by side, hand in hand, whispering, what do not talk about? What feelings do not confide? To the present.
3. What are the verses that express "thank you to your wife"1, Jiangchengzi - yimao first month 20th night to remember the dream
Song Dynasty: Su Shi
ten years of life and death two blank, do not think about it, since it is unforgettable. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good look at it, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to find it. The first time I saw you, I didn't know you were there, but you were there.
The night came to a dream and suddenly returned home, a small window, is combing makeup. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
Translation: two people a life and death, separated by ten years, miss each other but very confused, can not see each other. I don't want to let myself think about it, but I can hardly forget it. His wife's lonely grave is thousands of miles away, and there is no place to talk to her about the desolate sorrow in his heart. Even if we meet, we shouldn't recognize each other, because I'm running around, dusty face, sideburns like frost.
The night suddenly returned home in a vague dream, only to see his wife is in front of a small window to the mirror combing. The two looked at each other, a thousand words do not know where to start, only relative to the speechless tears fall thousand lines. I think that the bright moon shining, long with a small pine tree on the hill, is the wife and the wife of the pain in the heart of the place.
2, Raccoon Lake sand - who read the west wind alone cool
Qing Dynasty: Nalan Seide
Who read the west wind alone cool, Xiaoxiao yellow leaves closed rusty window, contemplation of the past to stand in the waning sun.
The first time I saw this is when I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid.
Translation: The autumn wind blows cold, lonely feelings who miss? The first thing you need to do is to look at the yellow leaves that cover the window, and then stand under the setting sun and look back at the past.
Drinking a nap, spring is long, the boudoir betting on the race, the lapel full of tea, the usual past events of the past, has not been able to aspire to.
3, Cai Sang Zi - at that time wrong
Qing Dynasty: Nalan Seide
And now only to say that at that time wrong, the mind is confused. The red tears are hanging down, full of spring breeze, a hundred things are not.
I know that there is no plan to come after this, and I am forced to say that I am happy.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the same position as me.
Translation: I now know that I was wrong, the heart is desolate and confused, tears fall silently, full of eyes to see is the spring breeze, things are not in the past.
Later, I realized that this is no way, reluctantly said that there will be a future, like this parting, the pear blossom fell finished, the moon is already in the western part of the sky.
4. Five Songs of Separate Thoughts - Four
Tang Dynasty: Yuan Zhen
Once the sea is hard to water, in addition to the Wushan is not a cloud.
I am too lazy to look back at the flowers, and I am half in love with my husband and half in love with my wife.
Translation: Having been to the vicinity of the sea, the water elsewhere is not enough to take care of; besides Wushan, the clouds elsewhere are not called clouds.
The reason for this is half because of the monastic's indolence, and half because of the you that I once possessed.
5. Butterfly Lovers' Flower - Hard work is most pitiful to the moon in the sky
Qing Dynasty: Nalan Seide
Hard work is most pitiful to the moon in the sky, a former like a ring, former all become penannular. If it is like the moon wheel is bright and clean, I will not give up the snow and ice for the heat of the Secretary.
No that the fate of the world is easily extinguished, the swallow is still, soft pedal curtain hook said. The first time I saw this is when I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid.
Translation: The hardest and most compassionate is the bright moon in the sky, it is only one night in January is a full moon like a jade ring, the other times are like incomplete jade jade penannular. If I could be as bright as the moon wheel for life, I would give up my own coolness like ice and snow to heat up for you.
Helplessly is the person's earthly destiny easy to end, swallows are still the same, light step on the curtain hook. I am in the fall, facing your grave, singing a song, however, the sadness did not cut down in the slightest. How I wish I could have frolicked in the grass with you like the butterflies in double flight in spring.
4. Literary Compliments on WivesI can only think of those that compliment a beautiful woman. As for complimenting your wife, let's replace it with complimenting a beautiful person
As for complimenting a beautiful person, of course, the most classic one is the one from Cao Zhi's "The Fugue of the God of Luo":
". Her form is also as graceful as a stunning flower, as graceful as a swimming dragon, as glorious as an autumn chrysanthemum, as gorgeous as a spring pine. As if Ruoxi if the light clouds of the moon, floating in the air as if the flow of the wind back to the snow. Looking from afar, bright as the sun rises in the morning sun; forced to check, burning as lotus flowers out of the clear water. The flora and fiber are in the right place, and the length of the flora is in line with the degree, the shoulder is like a chiseled body, and the waist is like an approximate veil. She has a beautiful neck and neckline, and her white quality is exposed, and she has no extra fragrance, and she can't protect herself from the lead. Cloud buns, slender eyebrows, Dan lips, white teeth, fresh inside. Bright eyes, good favor, dimple auxiliary to the right, the magnificent posture, the instrument of quiet body leisure. Soft feelings, charming in the language. The strange clothes are worldly, and the bone image should be pictured. She is dressed in a beautiful robe, and has a jade jade jewels. Wearing jewelry of gold and jade, adorned with pearls to shine. The wife's foot is in a faraway place, the train of her silk is in a mist, and the fragrance of the orchid is in the air, and she stumbles over the mountains."
5. Literary praise for the wifeShen Fu's Six Memoirs of a Floating Life should have a lot of Description of Yuniang
such as ----
is the middle of the winter, the value of his cousin sister out of the cabinet, and Yu with his mother to. Yun and Yu with the same teeth and long Yu October, since childhood sister and brother call, so still call it Shu sister. At that time, but see the room full of fresh clothes, atrophy only body plain, only new its shoes only. See its embroidery is exquisite, asked for their own work, and then realized that its wisdom is not only in the pen and ink. The shape of its shoulders and long neck, thin without bones, eyebrows curved eyes, looking at the fly, only two teeth slightly exposed; does not seem to be a good phase. A kind of lingering attitude, people's will also eliminate. So look at the poetry manuscript, there is only a joint, or three or four lines, more than not into a piece of the person, inquired about the reason, laughed and said: "no teacher work, I hope to get a confidant can teacher knock into the ear." I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this. ......
6. What are the verses that express "thank you to your wife"1, Jiangchengzi - bmao the 20th day of the first month of the night to remember the dream Song Dynasty: Su Shi ten years of life and death, not to think about it, since it is difficult to forget.
There is no place to talk about the sadness of a thousand miles of lonely graves.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the same boat as me, and I've never seen her before.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the world for a long time, and I've never seen her in the world for more than a year. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
I think it's a good idea to have a breakthrough, but I think it's a good idea to have a breakthrough, and I think it's a good idea to have a breakthrough.
The two of them have been separated for ten years, and they miss each other, but they are so confused that they can't see each other.
I don't want to let myself think about it, but I can hardly forget it. His wife's lonely grave is thousands of miles away, and there is no place to talk to her about the desolate sadness in his heart.
Even if we meet, we should not recognize, because I run around, dusty face, sideburns like frost. At night, I suddenly returned home in a vague dream, only to see my wife in front of a small window to the mirror to make up.
The two looked at each other, a thousand words do not know where to start, only relative to the speechless tears fall thousands of lines. I think that the bright moon shining, long with a small pine tree on the hill, is the wife and the wife of the pain in the heart of the place.
2, Raccoon Brook Sand - who reads the west wind alone cool Qing Dynasty: Nalan Seide Who reads the west wind alone cool, Xiao Xiao yellow leaves closed rusty window, contemplating the past to stand in the waning sun. The first time I saw it, I was so happy to see it, and I was so happy to see it, and I was so happy to see it.
Translation: The autumn wind is blowing cold, lonely feelings who miss? The first thing you need to do is to look at the yellow leaves that cover the windows, and stand under the setting sun, and remember the past. Wine nap, spring scenery is long, boudoir betting on the race, lapel full of tea, the usual past events of the past, has not been able to aspire to.
3, Cai Sang Zi - at that time wrong Qing Dynasty: Nalan Seide And now only to say that at that time wrong, the mind is confused. The red tears are hanging down, and the eyes are full of the spring breeze.
I know that there is no plan to come after this, and I am forced to say that I am happy.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the same position as me.
Translation: I now know that I was wrong, the heart of the desolate confusion, tears fall silently, full of eyes to see is the spring breeze, things are not in the past. Later, I realized that this is no way, reluctantly said that there will be a future, like this parting, the pear blossoms fell finished, the moon is already in the west of the sky.
4, Five Songs of Departure from Thoughts - its four Tang Dynasty: Yuan Zhen Once the sea is difficult to water, except for the witch mountain is not cloud. The first is about the fact that the first time I was in the country, I was in the country, and the second time I was in the country, I was in the country.
Translation: Having been to the sea, the water elsewhere is not enough to take care of; apart from Wushan, the clouds elsewhere are not called clouds. The reason for this is half because of the monastic's indolence, and half because of the you that I once possessed.
5, Butterfly Lovers - hard most pity the moon in the sky Qing Dynasty: Nalan Seide hard most pity the moon in the sky, a former such as the ring, the former are into penannular. If it is like the moon wheel that is bright and clean, I will not give up the snow and ice for the heat of the Secretary.
No that the fate of the world is easily extinguished, the swallow is still, soft pedal curtain hook said. The first time I saw this is when I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid.
Translation: The hardest and most compassionate is the bright moon in the sky, it is only one night in January is a full moon like a jade ring, the other times are like incomplete jade jade penannular. If I could be as bright as the moon wheel for life, I would give up my own coolness like ice and snow to heat up for you.
Helplessly is the person's earthly destiny easy to end, swallows are still the same, light step on the curtain hook. I was in the fall, facing your grave, singing a song, however, the sadness did not cut in the slightest.
How I wish I could play with you in the grass like the butterflies that fly in pairs in spring.