A netizen question: married twenty-eight years, his wife cheated me thirteen years, I now what to do? This netizen's encounter is indeed very sympathetic, I hope the following methods can help you out of the conflict and pain:One, you can directly divorce your wife, the future life is easy; two, if you think the cost of divorce is too great, you may choose to turn a blind eye to her; three, will be your pain and aggression out, so that she make up for as much as possible you. Let's discuss this topic in more detail below.
First of all, no one can accept that his wife deceived him, let alone for thirteen years. So you can just divorce her, which will make your life easier in the future. According to you, you've been married for twenty-eight years, and now you're at least in your fifties, your kids are older and even have a family, so you don't have any ties anymore, and a divorce would be the best way for you to get relief. You won't have to be depressed about it for the rest of your life.
Secondly, if you feel that divorce is not good for you, or that it is too costly, then you may want to turn your back on her thereafter. At this age, you must have retired, then you can go out every day to walk, square dancing, chess, live a free retirement life, and she can live in two rooms, usually out of sight out of mind. Boredom you can also go online to pass the time, usually more to participate in the community organization of the elderly activities to regulate their own emotions.
Thirdly, you can also vent your pain and aggression by telling your friends, family and children that your wife cheated on you, so that they can criticize her for you, and then let her make it up to you as much as possible in the future. For example, in the future, cooking and doing housework all let her do, you are happy to be a hands-off, and then she must give you to write a guarantee, in the future, you must be single-minded to you, or she will be out of the house.
In short, the past has happened, you should not be angry, the key to see how the future over.