My mother also always urged me to have a second child, saying that what just cared about the birth of a good, so many people at home, how do not need to come to me personally on the hand, just adhere to the pain of that a little bit, the baby out of all things ......
But do not lie to the ghost of a good, right!
Look at it, look at the current status of the family, everyone is avoiding me and the child to avoid far away, but also want to lie to me to continue to be born ......
The first to avoid is the mother-in-law adults, hey, remember the last time I told her to change shifts with my mother, usually not even a smile, she was happy to be sung three days in a row and then The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that!
Also always do not recognize the unwillingness to take children, since coming to my home from morning to night without a good gas to our mother and father, either wrestling inexplicably angry, is no reason to reprimand the baby. In this weird atmosphere, the family who if you smile a little look very silly.
Now my mother-in-law and father-in-law are comfortably recuperating in their hometown, and they don't mind this or that anymore, and the man doesn't have any resentment towards our mother and father.
Then avoided is the man of the house, commonly known as the child's father. He really is occupying a name, do not do the right thing. Work for ten years are leisurely not to make progress, do not seek progress, mixed with the old qualifications at a young age in the unit over the state of old age.
The work is not aggressive, go home and look at the phone, muddled for many years. As a result, now more than thirty years old and suddenly conscience, said in tears that I was "waking up the dreamer", have to go out and make a breakthrough can not, not to fight a little is not life ......
And the reason why the man went away is very great, not only for their own career, but also for the reason of the man's life, the man's life. Not only for their own career, but also for the family, "hard work I one, happy the whole family"! If it is not years of workplace peers, but also really can be cheated by him.
Don't I know how comfortable it is for a person to work outside the home? In the case of families with children, a full night's sleep is a luxury, and I get excited every time I travel because I get to sleep for a while again!
The child has not yet been separated from the room, not to mention that when I was a child, I often cried at night, but now the night to put the urine, turn over and cover the quilt is enough for you to wake up a few times. The child is around, want to go to sleep first is impossible, at least have to tell a story, not to mention the little guy is very naughty, a moment to sit on your stomach, a moment to let you pretend to be a big horse ......
This is a comparison, the business trip is simply the beauty of the job! After work with a group of coworkers and friends to eat a nightcap, the weekend stroll around the beautiful scenery, eat and drink, no worries!
My buddy's comment on this is much more succinct, "Thirty-something years old and you're still on the road," he said.
Unfortunately, the man's mind is made up, his heart is determined not to waver, who persuade him with who anxious, as if the diamond-encrusted good life has been in front of the corner of the beckoning to him like!
"Do not go out will certainly regret", not only verbally, there are a variety of circle of friends vote, determined to break out of a son of the ugly cents and daughters will come back!
As if he has no home, no wife and children in general!
The last one to hide is my old lady, the old man also accompanied my children for six years, has long been a problem to pursue their own full later life, to complete the dream of the university, literary dream, square dance dream ......
"I can not spend all the time in your mother and his wife ah! ! You have resigned, I should also live my own life to go!" This part of my mother's speech is almost rubbing my ears out.
Now my mom every day K song K high skin, I said to come to us to cook ah, although I resigned also need to work at home ah, every day there are valuable six or seven hours to cook and wash the dishes, this kind of day to experience enough, if every day to spend so much time in the home hygiene chores, I'm really not used to it, and also too wasteful, is not it?
Hey, what did the old man say? "
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in a house, and I've never seen a woman in a house.
Ha ha! It also sounds very reasonable, I was persuaded ...... Well ......
So now it is really alone!
I may have been a little too aggressive too, I had a parent-teacher conference for my kid over the weekend until 9:30pm, before picking him up from the neighbor's house, and by the time I finally took care of him and put him to bed, my head was hurting - if I took in too much information that day, my head would hurt, so rest and work must be balanced - after the kid went to bed, I got a few more client issues to deal with and went to bed until midnight.
You think that's the end of it?
The child tossed and turned at night and slept uneasily, I would get up to open the window, get up to close the window, trying to make the state of the air comfortable, a moment to tell him to get up to pee, a moment to have nightmares and cry and then I rushed to shoot ......
The next day, at six o'clock, I got up to give the child to make a hearty breakfast, at seven o'clock to give him the The underwear blow-drying, called up to eat a meal dressed handsome sent to school, they even can't eat and go to fetch to the child customized lunch break quilt, come back just in time to pick up the baby at noon, and then ......
Hey, sometimes I feel like I'm forcing myself to be too tight, why bother? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that!
Just want to slacken off, the result is again to the parent-teacher conference to play enough chicken blood, secretly vowed to be a good mother, shining the way of the child's growth ...... to be a role model for the struggle, the efforts of the original, to drive the progress of the copy!
I have nowhere to hide, because I am a mom, and I did not want to hide, because I am a mom!
The instinct of being a mother is to take care of your children, and even if you are alone, you must have the ability to provide for yourself and your children! Even if all my family members run away and retreat, I must carry my child on my back and continue to fight with life!
Mom finally complained to me, saying that you two really can ah, no one is willing to serve you. The first time I saw this was when I was a kid, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid.
The elderly to pursue the elderly sunset red, middle-aged people still want to go crazy to break into the world, we can leave the child to escape, as the child's mother, I just can not do pat the ass and walk away.
And you willfully leave us, and then justifiably accuse me and the baby of being a burden to everyone? You blame me for not taking care of my baby as if I didn't work my ass off to earn a living, and now you're blaming me for staying home and not working as if someone else is taking care of my baby if I go to work.
So in your eyes, I'm not doing anything right when I'm a mom, and the whole family can still raise their finger and criticize me for being so lazy that I don't even want to have a second child at any time!
Why?
I will never take the initiative to have a second child again! However, in case a baby with a deep destiny chooses me, I will never back down and will be strong enough to take on the responsibility of being a mom!
People are forced to a certain point, can only rely on instinct to live ...... who let me be a mom?
Dear baby, please rest assured that mom's personal progress, and take good care of you, will never conflict, and I will not allow the two to conflict, you will always be more important than anything else!