First, because kindness is always used, because kindness is always used, and people's true feelings are always deceived, so the trust between people may be played with. These days, there are many good people, but sometimes they are taken advantage of and gradually look down upon them. Good people are no longer so kind, and they will not be too enthusiastic and enthusiastic when they meet some things.
Second, people are chilling because they have expectations, because they have expectations. Think about it, don't you? If there is no great expectation, how can it be chilling? You are very kind, and you expect to get some kind returns for your efforts. If there is no return, you will be chilling. However, nothing in this world is taken for granted. To paraphrase a line from the TV series "The Queen of the Palace": It is my duty to help you, not to help you. ? People who are kind to you are out of love, not obligation. If we can understand this, life will be much happier.
If we can avoid violent ecstasy, there will be no sadness. Japanese writer Osamu Dazai once said this in Disqualification on Earth. If we can avoid violent ecstasy, there will be no sadness? This is also the case. The higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, and the easier it is to make people feel chilling. If you can see through the joys and sorrows and keep a calm heart, you won't be so easily chilled.
Of course, keeping a calm mind is not to let yourself lose your original innocence. If others take advantage of their sincerity, try to release their bad emotions and don't let themselves suffer. It doesn't matter if you don't love others, love yourself. Dear friends, don't be happy about things, don't be sad for yourself, understand? Or if you have any experience to share, you can leave a message below.