What can be done to help those children in your class who are called "gifts from heaven"?
1, empty encouragement and praise is useless, the child needs to be specific and subtle, dripping water penetrates the stone counseling, in the process of progress through the accumulation of confidence. Mr. Wei said: We often can only change attitudes by changing behaviors, rather than changing behaviors by changing attitudes.
2, although this part of the child has made progress, but he still will not find confidence in it, the real confidence of the child is to make the child proud of something. That is the child's laurels.
3. What are the laurels? For example, drawing is brilliant, sports is particularly good, eloquent, can host, good writing, etc., as long as the mention of this field or something, the child is super confident, face full of radiance.
4, do not deprive the child of love, will let the child in the frustration of thinking that they are not useless.
5. There is no such thing as a child who can't do anything, and our mission is to keep the curriculum rich and to give children a constant stage.
6. Do teachers need a laurel? In fact, each stage of life may have a different laurel, we can't look forward to the future days with the past laurel. Mr. Wei said: But perhaps, in the end, we will arrive at a state where we do not need any laurels to bear witness to our lives, so that we can become uncrowned kings who can delve into any unfamiliar territory and dare to take any necessary risks .
? But the child can't do it yet, he needs a crown of laurels until the day he will fly free.
? I think of my little cousin, who has been training in jazz dance since she was a little girl, even in the last semester of her secondary school exams, and has continued to go to training. Her grades are not particularly top-notch, but she is especially confident. As long as she dances, she is the dazzling protagonist. I think this state is particularly good, dance is a crown in her life. Several times in the square dance place, because she joined, immediately became her main field, she is confident and generous. In high school, her grades fell a bit, but in the dance club, she is the protagonist of the crowd. A friend circle a treasure mother sunshine her daughter's dynamic, this daughter is very well raised, very meat, but dance, the whole body cells are mobilized, very good at infecting people. I y feel, head wearing laurel child, life must not be bad.
Among the students who just graduated, there is a girl who has a very good temperament, and her grades are actually very poor, and she often fails in chemistry, but she has been working hard. Unlike other children, this child has a sense of pride in her bones and is very confident. I was back to know, she painted very good, often to the class work, but also very enthusiastic service students, so it is the class of the little goddess, right?
Often we will be surprised by the music and art teacher's circle of friends, because in their dynamics, they will often mention some of the very like very good children, and these children are sometimes the headache of the main teachers of the children. In fact, we should be happy, so that we have the opportunity to praise the child, the child will also be more serious about learning because of our praise or attention, right?
On the contrary, our teachers themselves, all the way, why not rely on such and such laurels to come. When we stand to the teacher's podium, the podium is our stage, on this stage there are so many so many excellent, you may be very insignificant, then, we also need to create their own laurels, so that our life has more possibilities, there is more sunshine, in order to let the children's face light, first of all, the teachers themselves have to be radiant, the heart is strong enough.