Several practical problems in choosing soldiers:
1. Most soldiers are stationed in difficult places;
2. Understand the concept of poor soldiers and have no money. No car or house;
3. When you marry a soldier, you will be separated in two places. You have to bear all the burdens by yourself. After getting married, you still live alone.
4. The vast majority of soldiers are facing a second employment. At that time, they are no longer young and have few choices.
Conclusion: Choosing a soldier means you are destined to wait and care for a long time; it is equivalent to choosing to be strong and lonely.
As a soldier's wife, I know that the envious looks on him because of his uniform cannot drive away the loneliness of walking alone, and I also know that the feeling of being loved only by a soldier's wife can't be driven away. The satisfaction of being respected by others cannot stop a person from suffering from family responsibilities and work pressure;
Only when you are a soldier’s wife do you know how to endure loneliness, because they don’t have too much time to spend with you. You are warm and affectionate;
As a soldier’s wife, you have to develop the habit of going shopping alone. Even if you end up with big and small bags hanging all over your shoulders and arms, you still have to treat it as a weight loss exercise. Do it yourself, because they will not show up at the door of the shopping mall when you need help and labor the most;
Being a soldier’s wife, of course, you must be able to endure the pain of lovesickness and waiting, because they Not only will he appear in front of you at the right time when you miss him and give you a long-awaited hug, but he will also let you see through Qiushui's watch, and will not let you go even in your dreams. In that dream, he will return. and leaving will make you shed tears on your pillow without knowing it;
Being a soldier’s wife requires the courage to savor a plain life and the determination to resist the temptation of profit. They cannot give you a luxurious one. home, because they are poor;
As a soldier’s wife, you have to retain the strength to seek medical advice alone when you are sick, and you have to develop the habit of living alone, and it is best to still You must be able to find your own fun;
As a military wife, you have to cope with the embarrassment and loneliness when other people are in pairs at friends gatherings and you are alone;
As a military wife, you still need to be able to calmly and proudly say that your husband has made another threesome when your friend is talking happily about how her husband has made hundreds of thousands more or helped her buy a diamond ring of several carats. Waiting for success, completely ignoring their looks of surprise, disdain, or secret envy.