No relationship is in the pain of forgetting to dissipate.
This is a situation where you are in too deep and you can't pull yourself out.
If you want to keep yourself from being so miserable, you need to find your own hobbies, consume your own energy and divert your attention. I offer the following suggestions
1- Find a gym and work on your body.
2- Like to travel, go on a trip and see the broadness of nature.
3- Find someone who likes you and try to be loved.
4- Get to know other people of the opposite sex, and improve your ability to get along and talk with them.
5-Encounter the one you like, be brave to pursue.
6-Live well and work well.
16 years, and his girlfriend is ready to get engaged to get married, but just a few days before the engagement, she told me that she fell in love with someone else, so I do not look for her, and I know who that person is, I also know that when we fell in love with her often sneak and chat with this person, and once again accidentally saw the name is very ambiguous, but I thought, I'll always be good to you will be able to sensitize you right, and once you get married, perhaps will break it, but I did not expect such a result, I did not know how, simply can not control their own, only one idea in mind, I can not lose her, I can not lose her, so directly resigned from the job, returned to the house, rushed to catch a plane over the night, but came over to wait for just a more brutal fact, came to her home, open the door at that moment, she was stunned, and I was stunned because the house there is a person, that is the man, the man, the man, the man, the woman, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man, the man. There is another person in the house, that is, the man, I have seen his picture, the atmosphere is very awkward, behind as a man, I fell to my knees and cried and begged her not to leave me, but the reality is brutal, I rented a house near her home, lived in half a year, every night, will torment themselves out of their minds, can not see her, you have to go to her home near the house and wait for her to turn off the lights at home to sleep in order to leave, I feel like I am crazy, every day! is hungry can not go to eat something, eat and go to find no one on the mountain, to the depths, many times want to jump, but also slit his wrists, as a man, how many undignified things because of the desire to salvage have done, and then 17 years in February, I slowly come to my senses, I will think of my family, want to think of my parents, want to think of my friends, I know I can't die, can't be degraded again, if in so down, the pain will not be me alone, but a family, a group of people because I am suffering, so I left, began to integrate into the new environment, frustration makes people grow, I also know, people must be strong, not strong, you can not get anything, can not be retained, the back of the experience of falling in love, but no longer have that kind of feeling, people in difficult times, really should think about their parents, friends, loved ones, and more and more people! Chat, go to more lively places, see more, talk more, eyes wide open, the heart is also open. Must realize the reality of the cruelty, you only strong, in order to get and keep what they want, otherwise always just people under the people.
To say a thing about me, four years ago, engaged to be married, followed by the fiancé went to Japan, a year after the New Year back to my house, brought a few things, eat a piece of dinner out to play. Keep asking after the marriage where you are, how much dowry, how much your family dowry, he had to go to Japan for three or four years, the tone and behavior feel problematic, I took the initiative to withdraw from the marriage, the whole heart is numb, afraid of parents worry, has been pretending to be all sorts of happy, heartless, the night the door is closed on the beginning of the cry, with the quilt over his head, there is no sound of that kind of crying, almost a month or so feeling is the walking dead, and then go out by themselves, travel, sign up for studies, and then go to Japan. Then they go out Travel, enroll to learn calligraphy, the qualification, two whole years to calmly say this thing, anyway, my experience is that the heart must be broad, do not drill bull's-eye, really can not think, do not think, go to see talk shows, go out shopping, go to see the movie, do not torture yourself, you have to jump out to see this thing, if it is someone else will do, do not force themselves, how to own
I feel like I can't get out of here, and I don't think I'll be able to unless I die.
For going to my mother's home, I have a special headache, every time is hard, put down the dignity, to say a little bit is even face don't, if there is a choice, I can choose to go to death, but also do not want to go to see the face of their face, I've seen enough, and I've had enough
My mom is still there, I had to put down the dignity, had to go to my mom, but to go to bear the pressure and complain that I should not be able to I don't know why our relationship has come to this point where we have become enemies. In their eyes it's all my fault, they are good at everything, in my mom's eyes I should please my brother and sister-in-law at all times, everything should be for their sake.
And ignore my existence, to know that I am also a person, I also have my dignity, I also want to face, I also want to live with the same people, also want to be respected by others, I do people's principles, and even do people's bottom line have been trampled by them, no longer up. I live so tired, not with people tired, the heart is more tired, I just do not understand why they are people, and I am not people, is it that they are the life of the parents to raise, and I am the stone popped out of the cracks?
Sometimes I feel that God is really too unfair to me. What did I do wrong to be punished like this? I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong, but I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong.
Everyone has a line of tears, drink the cold water, brewed into hot tears, all the heartache, aggression, pain, sadness converge there. All the feelings are not any reason to speak, love on love, do not love is not love, there are not so many reasons and if, the world's most distant distance is not born in death, but in the world of love, a still love, when the other side is the whole world, while the other does not love, left the world of her heart, sadness is inevitable.
How to get out of the days of pain?
1. Self-soothing, there are people in life is to meet, meet the wrong person to say goodbye to the wrong, his appearance is just to let you grow in love, so now is the time to say goodbye, to learn to be a little more elegant, .
2. Self-affirmation, fate came without failing him, and later did not apologize to him, which is a respect for your love? You are not sorry, not ever owed, so no regrets.
3. Be quiet and listen to your heart, feel the beauty of life, adjust your life state.
4. Enrich yourself and encourage yourself, you can listen to music to relax, you can go to sing, you can go to your favorite place to walk around, read more books, let yourself become better, you will become more confident.
Eighty percent of the diseases are from sadness, sadness, depression, anger. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. No matter what kind of pain has become the past, the past let it go. You still have the present and the future, for your family and health, you should be brave to stand up.
More square dancing outside, with neighbors and friends to live a collective life, and choose to forget the past. Because people live in the body, health is the most important, angry on the sick, why give yourself to find a disease, looking for crime, looking for money suffered.
In fact, the scriptures cure the heart disease. I'm in the most painful time, look at the scripture, the heart of a moment on the pain, I do not know other people do not work?
In fact, understand the awesome relationship believe that you will be able to come out, because angry and sick is very scary, do not change the mentality will be worse and worse, will be a vicious circle. Remember which fall which get up. I am the small strong that can not be defeated! Be brave and walk out of your nightmare and let the sunshine fill your heart, come on!
⊙2018.12.27
The heart is broken through, this heart may be dying, people often say: "dead heart have, live there is no point?" It seems that this friend is living a really painful.
The heart is wounded into this state, the best way to heal. The best way to do this is to say: one forgets, two opens, three creates.
A forget, is to forget all the sadness, no longer think about it, the past let it pass. When you think about it every time, it is a process of uncovering scars, just healed wounds are uncovered again, get is deeper pain.
Second open, the pain of the heart is actually controlled by negative emotions, to cast these negative energies, we have to open the heart, so that the sun shines into your heart that is covered by the shadow of pain, dispersing the shadow of the negative emotions.
The third creation, to create positive energy, and positive energy from those sunshine, nutritious, beneficial to nourish the heart and nourish the people of the gas, known as nourishing qi, respectively, is the good qi, the beauty of the gas, the grandeur of the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the British, the elegance of the gas, the wisdom of the gas, the courage, the sharpness of the gas, the backbone of the gas, the spirit, and so on, these qi gathered into the nourishing qi field, like a spring breeze, when the spring breeze blowing into your heart, the spring breeze blowing again and again, will bring about the heart of the vitality of the life.
Thank you, Shun Song An Kang!
Ichiyi, "Raising the Aura"
First of all, give yourself time to stay with the pain, feel and experience the feeling, since you can't drive away the pain, why do you have to drive away, isn't it just one more pain to drive away?
Secondly, give yourself a care, this process is very painful, others can not understand and respect, and can not give you enough needs and warmth, why go outside to find? The first is that the first time I saw the movie, I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie.
Third, give yourself a space, stay with yourself, do not need others to disturb, others can not fully accept and hold you so heavy emotional entanglements, otherwise, let others bear the burden for no reason, is not another "debt of the heart", empathy, and you are in the heart of the peace.
If you encounter such a problem, you have to work hard and bravely from the shadow of the past to hurt the pain to come out of the courage. Always live in the past, will always be painful. Suggestions, 1 a change of mind, a different mood to face themselves to face the world. 2 go out for a walk, sunshine, fresh air. 3 more sports sports, jogging, etc. 4 more to participate in some of the positive energy of the love of meaningful activities. 5 find a reliable trust of friends, people chatting to dissolve the pain, if you have been or are experiencing such pain, want to go out, then you can pay attention to me. I will do my best to help you find your true self again. Finally, I want to say to you, in fact, this world does have true love exists, you will also meet.