An old couple have been together for many years. Once passion has long been replaced by daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. Without the affection between the flowers and the moon, the once love has become a kind of affection after years of precipitation. Affection is the further sublimation of love, so we should cherish and care for each other more.
The old couple pursued a company that never gave up. If you are well, it will be sunny. If you don't leave me, they will never give up. Both sides should understand each other and tolerate each other, don't pursue that romantic feeling too much, and learn to seek happiness in a dull life and refine love in a dull life. Two people can cultivate the same hobbies, seek the joy of life and ignite the passion of life. They are an old couple, so it's better not to.
The old couple are tired, and both sides should maintain them. Usually, they can go for a walk in the park and go to the movies together. On holidays, they can give gifts to each other, find their long-lost passion and keep their love fresh.
A hundred years of boat crossing, a thousand years of pillow sleeping. The old couple have been through thick and thin for decades, and it's normal for anyone not to stumble and occasionally fight. As for how to make life more passionate and colorful, I have summarized eight points for your reference, hoping to help you:
1, spend more time with each other and care more.
Companionship is the longest confession, the most concerned and the warmest language. Because the child has been away from home for many years, the two can be said to be dependent on each other. They can go for a walk together in the morning, find a small restaurant for breakfast after the walk, and hug each other and say good night when they sleep at night. If the other person itches, you should take the initiative to tickle him or her. If the other person is sick, you should take the initiative to give him or her water to take medicine. As long as you do these little things well in your life, the other person will definitely give you feedback.
2, nothing to go out and have a look
They take time to look at the outside world, look for familiar feelings in unfamiliar environments, and take some photos of each other on the trip, which can be sent to children or basked in a circle of friends.
3. Memories of a happy time together
When two people are bored, it is best to recall some happy things in the past intentionally or unintentionally. Sometimes, if you say the same thing ten thousand times, the other person won't bother you.
4. Mutual tolerance and understanding
The older people get, the more tolerant and understanding they should be. Don't complain even if the other person has done something wrong, but learn to laugh it off.
5. Have something to say.
Nowadays, many couples find it difficult to communicate. For example, a woman says, "I bought you a dress." The man said, "You can buy it. You can return it. I don't want it! " For another example, the man said, "Let's go out for dinner." The woman replied, "How much money do you have?" Who lives in a restaurant every day?
In normal life, many couples don't pay attention to their way of speaking and tone, which makes each other unhappy.
6. Don't be too demanding.
There is nothing wrong with demanding high quality of life, but don't be too demanding. At this age, you can make do with it. The more you ask, the more disappointed you will be.
7. Cultivate your hobbies
Cultivate more hobbies, such as planting flowers, raising grass and reading. As long as the heart is full, life will be interesting.
8. Seek happiness in life.
There is happiness everywhere in life. We should learn to find happiness. Don't stare at something all day. If you find fault, the other party will be unhappy and you will be angry. Of course, life is tasteless!
After 8 o'clock, as long as you do well, happiness and happiness will always accompany you!
I want to live forever when I get old. When you get older, talk about passion. As long as there is no danger.
If you are old, not sick and have sound limbs, you are lucky.
It is normal for young couples to be companions and have a confidante around them.
A couple, who have been running in for a lifetime, have almost worn out their temper and personality.
When I was young, I had a bad temper and did many unreasonable things. Now that I am old, it's time to stop.
If we continue to make trouble, it will come to no good end. People get old and weak, and they get angry. If there is only one person left, they will be really miserable.
People often say that filial piety is not as good as dew husband and wife. Children are good, and they are two generations. You can't just stay here.
Husband and wife are different, fighting and getting angry is also eating the same pot and living under the same roof.
As the saying goes, husband and wife have the same skills as forest birds, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately. This is a young couple.
Once the husband and wife are old, they can fly if they can, fly if they want, fly if they can't, have nowhere to go and no one wants them, and can only be together for a long time.
When people are old, they lose their passion when they reach a certain age. If you want to have passion, you can find some yellow videos and you will have passion.
I haven't heard of it. When people get old, they look for passion. When they are old, they take good care of their bodies and exercise. If they weren't sick, they wouldn't go to the hospital or be hospitalized, and they would be very happy.
When you get old, you will know that it is hot and cold. Pay attention to what you eat and don't get sick. If you are ill, your life will be in danger.
People are old and healthy, don't drag down their children and spend their old age quietly.
Passionate couples should be few, and many couples have no feelings at all, so there is no passion! There are many couples who just make do for their children!
My parents-in-law are a typical example. I used to make do with it. I slept in separate beds in my 50 s, and I didn't communicate much when I was young, let alone now!
Almost all the dishes are cooked separately except in one pot! Money is stored separately, clothes and quilts are washed separately!
There is almost no communication at ordinary times, and we will talk unless there is something to discuss, but the tone and way of speaking are not very friendly and the speech is very blunt. I've seen them do this many times!
Many times when we are away, they start quarreling. Every time they quarrel, my father-in-law will call us and say what's wrong with my mother-in-law!
In fact, many times the quarrel is caused by my father-in-law, because he really has no feelings for his mother-in-law, and his attitude towards her mother-in-law is too indifferent! The only reason to make do is children! These grandfathers said it once before!
In real life, there are many people like grandfather. In order to get married and have children as soon as possible, many couples got married hastily without knowing it!
It's not that they are incompetent, but that two people who don't know each other live together, many of whom have different personalities or different living habits!
An old couple, the general passion has faded. We are surrounded by daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. What is the monthly deposit? In fact, plain is the most real, can withstand the baptism of plain years, but also an ordinary greatness! Isn't it a kind of happiness to contribute to the family every day, be accompanied by your lover every day, and be happy and healthy every day? As for the passion of husband and wife, that is a matter for young people! Although the passion of the old couple's life has faded, but do the following, the days can be full of flavor and prosperity!
1, I can give my lover a little smile every day. Some people may say, what's the use of laughing? Can you eat and drink? I would say that a smile is a useless gift. Some things that you think are useless are actually very useful. For example: air, air can't be eaten, drunk or used as money, but how long can air stay? Smile is the same, it looks useless, but it is actually very useful! Laughing like a beautiful flower can please people, laughing like warm sunshine can warm people's feelings, and smiling is the best gift without spending money! Smiling often between old couples can improve the temperature of feelings! Relieve tense contradictions. Smile is like the spring breeze in interpersonal relationship, which moistens things silently, thus watering the flowers of love!
2. Learn the appropriate Playboy. The "playboy" here refers to the effort to do things. Do things that care about each other, such as how to care about each other, how to be considerate of each other, and how to take care of each other when you are sick. For example, if the other person needs help at home, especially the in-laws (father-in-law, mother-in-law), they will do their best to help without hesitation, and the other person will be moved, which is very helpful for the warming of feelings! Learn to take time to improve yourself. I remember there is a line in the movie "Golden Powder Family" that says well: "Different people can't get together"! I'm talking about fitting. Yes! So the gap between the two sides should not be too big. Therefore, improve your cultural knowledge, improve your appearance and temperament, and improve your literati's ability to handle affairs …
3, learn to empathize and learn to communicate on an equal footing. There is no love and hate for no reason in the world. If you learn to put yourself in each other's shoes, you may be more tolerant. We shouldn't take it for granted that the other party has paid for ourselves. We should be grateful to him (her), know how to appreciate and know how to repay.
There is a saying in Nalan Xingde, "If life is just like first sight, why draw a fan in the autumn wind?" Yes, I was able to meet love because I met beauty! Therefore, love needs good feelings, good mood, good behavior, good looks, good temperament, and more importantly, good mentality! Let's be together with beauty, let love bloom beautiful flowers, and the old couple can spend the full moon together, live a perfect life together!
Although the passionate days of the old couple have passed, we should create passion, discover passion, feel passion, and use passion to promote the continuation of our future life.
First, make the image young and full of passion.
Although she is an old couple, she should also pursue fashion in dressing, and dress appropriately, generously and beautifully. Husband and wife can look at each other and dress as young and beautiful as possible. You can wear colorful clothes, bright red and green, and you can surprise each other with eyebrows and lipstick. While I feel young and beautiful, my long-lost passion will come back. In particular, we should contact young people more, experience their youthful breath and burning passion, and make ourselves full of passion.
Second, find the passion of life.
Between the old couple, we must say more words of mutual praise and encouragement, which will increase the intimacy between husband and wife and make it easier to generate passion. For example, you are dressed beautifully today. You look young in this dress. You are not old enough to wait. You can also do some physical contact, occasionally pat your shoulders and hug each other. You can also look back on the romantic moments when you were young, have passion and look forward to life. You can also tell each other an interesting story, sing a song and so on.
Third, generate passion in mutual assistance.
For example, the old couple * * * go shopping in the market, buy vegetables, * * * choose and taste vegetables and fruits, and * * * bargain together. They are often teased by some phenomena, and their passion immediately fills their whole body, and their interest in life increases greatly. Even you can't help humming, and the happiness of life arises spontaneously.
Fourth, always create passion.
Just as lovers entertain themselves, they often look for creative passion and romance. The old couple can go to the square dance together, enjoy the sky and the moon together and enjoy the flowers and scenery together. One is to experience and feel the beauty of nature, and the other is to create passion from it. If you make life full of passion, you will laugh at life and be grateful to society, and you will create a passionate old age.
In short, an old couple should have passion, create passion, find passion and feel passion in their later years. Let colorful life be full of passion. Will make our future life full of fun and happiness.
An old man and his wife have always been with him. They have loved the sunset all their lives.
Hunger produces food and clothing, adversity produces hope, distance produces passion, and fatigue comes from fatigue. The cold war is also a personality and a good way to separate! Who will take the initiative to curry favor with you first?
In rural areas, the old couple grow vegetable gardens, raise a few chickens and feed two sheep. In mountainous areas, they can also raise a donkey and get a car. When going there, the donkey pulls the cart by himself, and the traffic police don't refuel or check all kinds of evidence. In the city, the couple went to the park to dance square dance after dinner, and raised a few pots of flowers and fish at home to enrich their old age!
"Little couple and old partner", after decades of mutual care, love gradually turned into family affection.
The child ran away from home when he grew up. When he really relaxed, he felt that life was dull and he could hear his heartbeat quietly. In fact, the tasteless life has nothing to do with the people you accompany, but you have no motivation to pursue life.
You may have enough food and clothing, a spacious room and enough savings, but look at your mental deficiency. How long have you not studied, cared about state affairs, talked with your wife, imagined the future and recalled the past? You can visit relatives and friends together, get together with friends and go shopping together. You will soon remember the past and cherish the peace and comfort of the present.
Change your lifestyle appropriately, create a little romance at the right time, add some spices to your life, and you will soon find that the passion of life is still there and everything is not far away.