Because her own mother helps her to take care of the baby, it will be easier to express her emotions unscrupulously and say whatever she has in her heart. Even when her mother exposes her shortcomings, her daughter will say her mother mercilessly, which makes it easier for her to refute after a long time, so it is inevitable to say something that hurts the other party when she refutes. Because the daughter and mother are related by blood, the quarrel is straightforward and will not be merciful to each other.
2. The son-in-law doesn't know how to be grateful
Sometimes the son-in-law thinks it's no big deal for grandma to take care of her children, and it's natural for mom to take care of her daughter, so she won't look at it with gratitude, and sometimes she will have conflicts with her son-in-law on some trivial matters, which is also a bad phenomenon, so grandma needs to be cautious when taking care of her children.
3. Children have a bad memory
Grandma will do her best to take care of her grandson, but sometimes, when the child grows up and becomes more sensible, the family will instill in the child the concept that "grandparents are their home", which will make the child closer to grandparents and gradually alienate her, and will also make her feel chilling, so the child will not remember her kindness.
What should the old man do with the baby?
When the elderly help themselves to take care of their babies, young people should know how to be grateful to the elderly and understand their hard work. Everything for the elderly is for future generations to live a happy life. Sometimes communication and communication may not be very harmonious, but as a younger generation, we should uphold a grateful heart and master the ways and means of communicating with the elderly, so as not to let our parents break their hearts.
If parents can take care of the baby by themselves, try to take care of the baby by themselves and don't disturb the elderly, because it is better for the baby to be with parents than with the elderly. He can enhance the parent-child relationship with the baby and accompany the child to grow up. Why not?