When I was 30, my husband and I divorced. We didn't have children, which was the main trigger for the divorce. After the divorce, I finally saw the true face of men, decided, never again to provoke men. However, not yet out of a year, my life, was a 23-year-old boy, changed.
The boy, although 23 years old, but, but few mature. In the company, he did a good job, experienced, speak and do people, steady and charming. As a supervisor, I was y attracted to this boy. We are privately known as brother and sister. With more and more, we even unconsciously fell in love with each other.
After all, I have experienced a man, the understanding of men, can be said to be thorough, their every move, any intention, I know as well. However, this boy, not pretense, real and trustworthy. Completely different from my ex-husband who did things in a veiled manner. His feelings for me, I can also y realize. That night, he held my hand, and I could feel that he was trembling. This made my heart flutter. I said, I am ten years older than him, in the future, when I am fifty, he is still young, do you regret? He said firmly, no regret. He was curious about women, and I, as a woman in my thirties, was at the age of a wolf. In this way, we each took what we wanted and quickly fell in love. At this time, I realized that although he was in the company during the day, calm and steady, sensible and intelligent. However, at night, when the two of us are alone, he is like a child, to me as a sister-level girlfriend, very dependent. Even snuggled into my arms and let me hold him. This was a complete reversal of what I imagined love to be. What I wanted was to find someone I could rely on, to snuggle in a man's arms, and now it was someone else's to rely on. On top of that, he's an inexperienced boy with no experience in the affairs of men and women, and it's entirely me who's teaching him what to do, which makes me very uncomfortable. This is such a big difference compared to my ex-husband.
Nonetheless, he knows how to love me, never makes me angry, and also, understands me and knows how to respect me. This makes me happy. Now, we want to talk about marriage. But I am a little hesitant, even I myself, do not know, their own this step, go is right or wrong?
Emotional Q&A:
Sister-brother love, this situation is very common. You are 33 years old and you are very lucky to still be able to find a boy like this. Many divorced women, after thirty years old, it is difficult to find a man around thirty years old, most of them will find a divorced man after forty years old, so, cherish this boy, if you have true love, everything is not a problem. If you're not good at what you do, you can teach him, slowly guide, any skill, is a gradual familiarization process. I don't think age is always a distance, it's the luckiest thing to find someone who loves you and is comfortable with you and doesn't put any burden or pressure on each other! So don't let your happiness slip through your fingers for reasons that don't matter! Share this with your friends!