Young, and who are all brothers, as long as a little friendship, on people's hearts and lungs; young time to fall in love, can not wait to stick together every day, every moment are not separated, if the other side with their own a little distant, is not in good feelings, fast break up. People to the middle age, ate a loss, fooled, experienced a lot of things, but also see through a lot of people, more see through the relationship between people, regardless of affinity, people to the middle age, the relationship is good, but also do not go too close!
Couples can go through 50 years old, that is decades of wind and rain. Two people may have long been no mystery, each other towards the ordinary. But also try to give each other more space.
Couples to 50 years old, you can cultivate some **** the same hobbies, but their favorite things do not impose on each other. Do not interfere with each other's behavior, do not do things that are sorry for the couple's feelings, is the best couple!
The way of husband and wife is a study, learn a lifetime of love, learn not a lifetime of pain and suffering. Even if it is again the love of the couple should be a little their own little secret, because some things to say out is not much sense, it is better to stay in their hearts.
Particularly the kind of hobbies on the big difference between the couple, more do not force each other to like and their favorite hobbies, each other independent and comfortable, is the most comfortable way to get along.
The two of them commute to and from work, each attends his own party on weekends, and in the evening she dances her square dance, he goes to play his chess, or goes to his son's house for a few days, so this is the perfect state.
And between the children, to maintain a "bowl of soup" distance
Nowadays, many middle-aged people's thinking is also becoming more and more enlightened, there are a lot of them are not forced to live with their sons, daughters-in-law and their own, after all, the young people's lifestyle and the middle-aged people are not quite the same, in order to minimize unnecessary trouble, and the son, the daughter-in-law and their own. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
If the son, daughter-in-law need their help, they can immediately go over to make a bowl of soup; if the son, daughter-in-law themselves live well, they do not often go; if the old couple need help, the son, daughter-in-law can also be in time to arrive, so that the relationship is most comfortable, the two sides can also realize the mutual care.
Between and relatives, to have a respectful heart
Even if said to be relatives, but we all have their own home, each person most likely to want their own home cheap and strive. If you are poor, no one will ask you, but if you are rich, you will have distant relatives. Whether poor or rich, relatives to help you is sentiment, not to help you is this, this is like a tiger to add wings often, a little bit of snow in the charcoal.
For relatives, can not virtue kidnapping, with the name of relatives to force another party to do something for you, others do not have such a duty. For relatives of the family, do not interfere, do not help make the primary decision, often, you when other people such as relatives basically, but they have you as outsiders, and even think you are a dog with a rat. Relatives of the two people, know the limits, know how to get in and out, not virtue kidnapping, the relationship can be long-lasting.
But if there is that kind of too snobbish, too calculating relatives, it is best to stay away from it, the New Year's walk around once on the line, usually less contact as well!
And between friends, to be sincere
Friends are in addition to relatives, and we have the closest relationship with the people. The favor must help, but for those you helped him, he did not appreciate the friend, there is no next time to help. And the kind of friend who only thinks of you when he needs you, don't.
Partner to the middle age, putty a little less, "love" is not in the verbal say so simple, accompanied by the longest love confession.
Middle-aged partner, and then love, will also leave personal space, let TA do their own love to do things, leave personal space does not mean that do not trust, on the contrary, is the performance of mutual trust. The same partner, you can accompany the two, used to not the same partner, and do not be TA, which is also the same love performance.