Think too much, maybe my parents have thought about it, but I have never thought about it. Why should I think about it? I don't even know if I'm going to have children in the future, so I'll just think about it for now for my future daughter's mom.
If I give birth to a daughter in the future, and she's still pretty, she'll be married off in her twenties. What would I do, what would I do? I'm not going to go on with my life, I can't just cry and scream and not let her get married. Although sometimes this mother may be a little childish, may sometimes need her coaxing, may sometimes have to snatch snacks with her to eat. But I know what's important and what's not, and a girl can't be a mother. Sooner or later, she's going to marry someone else, and there's no stopping her.
If I had only one daughter and no son, I would think that marrying her off and seeing her happy would be my greatest happiness. This way I also feel that I have sort of nothing important to do in my life, after all, I don't have much to pursue.
If she gets married and if her family is happy, I want to go traveling. Let go of all the stress and burden before, either alone or with my husband. I wouldn't mind being the light bulb if my daughter is willing to take me with her if she's traveling on her honeymoon. Anyway, it's my daughter and son-in-law who have what's going on, so it saves them a bit of trouble and they don't have to worry so much.
Then after two years, I may have to hold granddaughter, in my daughter's pregnancy, I must supervise her husband and her mother-in-law to her good, after all, I experienced what it is like to be pregnant, this time the woman is very fragile. I wouldn't take care of her myself so that her mother-in-law would have nothing to do and wouldn't know how to value her. I think I'm such an enlightened, great mom.
Of course, those are just my imagination, the reality is definitely not that good. I also imagined what my parents would do when I got married in the future. I think they will still live a peaceful life, there may be happiness, but there is also a lot of reluctance, so I won't marry far away, so I can go home on vacation. So in the future I think my vacation time is probably back to my mother's home, as for their own home, well, every day back, there is nothing fun.
When my parents are still enjoying themselves, I'd like to spend more time with them, otherwise I'll be too late to regret it when they're old. Our family is in the rural countryside and they prefer it there too. So I won't force them to go and live wherever they like. And they can also grow a little bit of their own small vegetables and live an idyllic life. Every time they go back, get the reserve food ready for them.
However, parents are worried ah, so do children or more sympathetic parents.