As a child, finding out that your dad cheated on you does make you feel pretty bad. It's not like there's no such thing in my friends' families, but once it happens to my closest relatives, I still can't accept it.
This time I don't know what to do, I'm really torn, I want to poke holes in it, but I'm afraid of hurting the family, I want to pretend I don't know anything about it, I can't do it in my heart, I can't do it as if it's not happening.
This time might as well not do anything.
If you have time, stay at home with your parents, eat together, take a walk, go out and travel together, sunshine happiness. Create more opportunities for your parents to be together and make more happy memories in your own home.
You said that you found the father cheated, I do not know whether it is empty or justified, in these sensitive matters, do not wrong a good man oh. There is time to find the father to drink tea, running, side by side, "that whoever's father, I really did not expect to actually derailed, poor him, do not know who to follow in the future." As fathers and mothers, they walk the road after all, a lot more than us, but also naturally know how to deal with some things is to minimize the damage. Don't wait until the damage is done and then come back to undo it, it's already too late.
If it is true that derailment, the victim must also be your mother, derailment of the word, a middle-aged woman, people to the middle age, would have been also sad and sad age, if you really have to face the separation of the family, both physically and psychologically, it is a matter of adding insult to injury.
Help her to do more of what she loves, and let her know that now she can spend more time and energy on herself instead of taking care of you and your dad most of the time. Go get a facial, buy some clothes, square dance, etc. and get involved in activities where there are lots of people.
More importantly, let her know and feel that without her husband, there is still a sweet and lovely baby like you. Without a home, there are still many things she likes to do, she can do.
Parents between them, as the next generation of us, or less involved in the good, as long as they know you love them, the rest let them make their own decisions.
Even if they really want to divorce, it is their own choice, if two people are really unhappy, barely finished the first half of life, the second half of life is still so long, guarding the name of the home is also meaningless. Of course it's not always as bad as you think, the family has weathered the storm for so many years, and it's not that easy to break up.
The feelings between parents are not something that we, the next generation, can intervene and understand. Do a good job children can only regulate their own emotions and their own emotional outlook, take care of the injured, but also do not because of the parents of the thing and anti-love.
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