Older people, it is best not to marry for the second time, because it is too difficult to get through what do you think?

"Sunset red" is a word that describes the old age of 60 years old and above, this age group of the elderly due to widowhood or divorce and other reasons, a lot of elderly people single, so this age of the elderly, if remarriage is really so difficult to get through? I think this view is not correct. Elderly people want to have a happy old age, not children filial piety, life can be satisfied with affluence, loneliness and loneliness is the most difficult for the elderly. That many people say the elderly remarried unhappy reasons which are?

Why do many think it is best for the elderly not to find an old partner? In fact, the biggest reason comes from their respective children, because the children have become a family, so if their parents to find an old partner, you have to and a strange old man (old lady) called mom (dad), from the psychological acceptance, and because of the conditions of their respective families, living habits, etc., will inevitably cause a lot of contradictions, coupled with the distribution of property and other issues, most of the children strongly opposed to the parents remarried, so the Many older people's second marriage is not happy, is the children's lack of support.

Junior husband and wife in the old age, the elderly looking for an older partner is more because of psychological loneliness, want to find someone to accompany themselves, may not be so much in the selection of the time to consider, hastily looking for an older partner together, only to find their respective shortcomings, especially you will also take the original half of the other half of the comparison, more and more to find that its imperfections, which in turn caused the marriage of the unhappiness. Because it is a reorganization of the family, the two families' habits, values and so on are completely different, unlike the young people can grind each other, the elderly time is already not much, in the grinding for a few years to find even more inappropriate, the health is not good, then, I do not think that did not wait for the end of the grinding and then sent away. So it's really not easy for older people to get married for the second time.

Why do I still support the second marriage of the elderly? Previously, children are the biggest obstacle to parents remarriage, with the current ideological change, many children appreciate the parents' pain, more and more children support parents remarriage, after all, children are now under pressure, can not be accompanied by the old man at all times, if there is an old companion to be able to take care of their parents, happy life in their old age a few more years, is the children's greatest wish.

Of course, the elderly and then find another half of the time must be bright eyes, more understanding of each other, the children also want to put the gate, especially the other side of the root, otherwise not only is not to find happiness for the elderly, but instead is to find a disaster for the elderly, Hangzhou, was split up Ms. Lai is a warning. Remarriage to consider a lot of issues, property is one aspect of the children's views should be listened to, for the two elderly is not simply a license to live together, the need for the two families *** with efforts to create a happy old people living environment in their twilight years.

Conclusion: Why do many older people feel that it is best not to remarry, because life becomes much more complicated after remarriage. When people get old, they really just want a good quiet life, and sometimes remarriage brings too many complicated relationships and too much anguish. Many old people remarry actually just want to find an old partner to eat three meals a day with them. Imagine always and the reality is not, some older people remarried encountered a liar, was cheated savings was cheated house, and finally could not divorce, some older people remarried not only to support the old partner, but also to support the old partner's children, a person old but also to support the remarried partner's whole family, this day is particularly difficult. So many older people are not willing to remarry, they think people are old, it is better to live alone, because remarriage is too difficult.