In fact, love can't deceive people. If you don't love, there are always traces to be found. If you really love a man, you can feel his full love effortlessly, but if you don't love a man, even if you say Qian Qian a million times? Love you? , will still be betrayed by his every move.
Therefore, if you don't want to be cheated, women should learn to tell the truth or hypocrisy of men. If a man reveals any of the following three points, then you should be careful, because the man who loves you deeply doesn't really love you.
0 1 easily promised, but all of them? Bad check?
Many times, what you hear may be an illusion, and only what you see with your own eyes or what you really feel is true.
Men who pretend to love you, they are used to saying sweet words, and even give you a picture of your future life from time to time. However, for him, having said that, it seems to be equivalent to? Did you do it? He will never work hard for your future, and as for cash, it is far away.
Even small things in daily life, such as taking you to an expensive but romantic western food, or taking you to a long-awaited concert in a distant place, when you are counting the days and counting when it will be realized, he has long forgotten what he said, and it is even more impossible to fulfill these promises.
She was like this when she was young. Because her parents are in business, she never worries about money, but her boyfriend's family is average. She was immersed in love and threatened not to care whether her boyfriend was rich or poor. Anyway, she decided to go on with him.
And in order to show that he really loves growing up, his boyfriend didn't date her for her at all? Rich second generation? In fact, he vowed to make himself equal to Mix economically through his own efforts and try his best to marry Mix in a glamorous way.
Therefore, he vowed to start his own business after saving enough money. However, if he is brave and resourceful, he has never acted. He still eats and drinks in the company and always plays games in his spare time. The future he said will be realized in the next life.
Not only that, many times, he made an appointment with Faxiao to go somewhere to play, but on weekends, he always stood Faxiao up, either forgot or went out to play with his brother.
At first, when I was young, I always did it for my boyfriend. Bad check? Find the reason, he is too tired, he is still planning, and so on. Gradually, she began to be disappointed, although her boyfriend kept saying? Love her? But his actions made her feel no love at all, and some of them were just perfunctory. She understood. What does this mean? Can't leave her? This man just pretends to love her.
Do you want money or not? No money?
Once a woman is in love, she will hate talking about money and think it is vulgar. However, in a relationship, money is also one of the best proofs of love.
A man who loves you, even if he is not rich or even poor, will be willing to spend money for you within his ability, even if it is just to buy a snack you like or a dress you are reluctant to buy. A man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you very much, and a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.
Every time they go out, go to the movies or eat, they go Dutch. If it is Valentine's Day, they will also give gifts to each other, and the value of gifts is similar. At first glance, it seems reasonable. After all, women nowadays are also very independent. Before marriage, they don't want to rely entirely on men and spend their money. Looks like they can fix things.
But think about it, this is too clear. It can be clearly divided before marriage, but it can't exceed a certain range, and for men, they still have to pay more economically. At least when they see their favorite dolls and food, they should not hesitate to buy them to surprise their girlfriends, but their boyfriends have never made them for her.
Once, my girlfriend accidentally said that she wanted to buy a pair of Bluetooth headsets, but she couldn't bear it because it was a bit expensive. My boyfriend heard this and encouraged her to buy it if she liked it. Don't wronged yourself. She spoke very well, but soon after, her boyfriend gave her a new mobile phone, but she never mentioned her headphones again. Her girlfriend was a little worried.
Indeed, in a relationship, a man who loves you is willing to spend 99 yuan for you even if he has only 100 yuan in his hand, while a man who pretends to love you is unwilling to spend money for you even if his pockets are bulging.
03 making out outside, at home? Cold violence?
There is a kind of man, if you two are together outside, he will always be a gentleman and affectionate, and will be caring and attentive to you, but he is afraid of losing you. However, once he returns to your den, he will perform from time to time? Cold violence? Yes
He turned a blind eye to your tenderness, with a cold attitude and ignored you.
It's actually quite simple. He appeared in front of people just to win a good reputation for himself and highlight himself? Good people? That image, as well as blame and indifference, is his true face. Perhaps this indifference is also directed at you.
Such a man must love you in Shijiazhuang. The reason why he didn't leave you must have other purposes, perhaps because? Just right? Maybe it's because your Excellence can satisfy his vanity.
Just like my cousin, she is determined to marry her ex-husband. Her family has no opinion of her ex-husband, because we really can't see his love for her, but her cousin is so excellent and her family's economy is so good that whenever she goes out, her ex-husband's friends look envious.
In short, they got married, but surprisingly, less than a year after marriage, my cousin filed for divorce. At first, she was desperate for this man and even said that she was really wrong.
It turns out that this man has been taking care of his cousin when he is outside. Once his cousin took him to a reunion, and the classmates at the same table envied her and thought that she had found a considerate and impeccable man. Even at the dinner table, the man peeled shrimp for her.
But only my cousin knows the truth. Once he gets home, the man will be shut up in the study and do his own thing. He has almost no communication with his cousin. At first, my cousin tried to find the warm feeling before marriage, but she gradually found that no matter how hard she tried, her ex-husband always looked cold. At this point, she realized that this man was just? Pretend? Just love her.
Because I can't stand the house being like a big freezer. I can't stand this, okay? Cold violence? My cousin filed for divorce in desperation.
It is absolutely impossible to imagine a man who really loves you. There is only one reason why he is so. Who is he? Pretend? Love you, he lied to you, even lied to himself.
04
Love a person, it is useless to rely on words alone, but it depends on long years and actions to express it.
In fact, whether a man loves himself or not, every woman has an answer in her heart, but some choose to face it bravely and some choose to deceive themselves.
Choosing a brave person will surely reap true love and happiness, while those who deceive themselves will only bear the consequences for life.
If you are a smart woman, please put it down after seeing one of the above three performances, because this is to be kind to yourself, and love yourself is more important than anything else.