Now it seems that the entertainment circle couples are divided between them has been very normal.
A lot of couples because of a variety of reasons for the emotional breakdown.
Even the end of many marriages is due to the betrayal of one of the parties to the marriage.
With each family turning over, there are fewer and fewer couples who are always in love.
And among them, the couple Tong Dawei Guanyue stands out.
Two couples who have been married for 15 years and have 3 lovely children.
After so many years of marriage, the two are still in love and have never had a scandal.
When the two first met, Guanyue was just a freshman.
Tong Dawei chased after three years, and finally won the beauty.
But after that, Tong Dawei proposed a breakup, and after the breakup, he begged for forgiveness.
Almost lost the love of his life, Tong Dawei and Guanyue's love have experienced what twists and turns?
01.
In 1979, Tong Dawei was born in Fushun, Liaoning.
His father was a policeman and his mother worked in the city library.
There is also an older sister up there called Tong Ling.
Tong's birth brought a lot of laughter to the family.
As the youngest child, he was doted on by the whole family.
His father, who is a police officer, is the person Tong and his sister admire most.
They both feel that their police father, who rides a motorcycle to work every day, is the most handsome policeman in the world.
Only regrettably, when Tong Dawei was 6 years old, all the wonderful happiness was shattered.
One day in May 1985, dad went out to work on his motorcycle as usual.
On the way to his official duties, he unfortunately collided with a truck.
Although he saved his life because of timely treatment, his brain nerve was severely damaged, making him a vegetable.
The accident happened so suddenly that mom didn't dare to let her son and daughter know.
She went to the hospital to take care of her husband and asked the child's maternal grandmother to take care of them for a while.
The grandma told a well-intentioned lie: "They have gone on a business trip and will not be back until some time later, so you will stay at the grandma's house first."
Sisters and brothers in the grandma's home for half a year.
The father's condition has not improved for such a long time.
The mother knew that it was impossible to hide the truth, so she told Tong Dawei and his sister.
In the hospital, the siblings finally met their father, who had been away for half a year.
But he has long since lost his imposing image.
Pale, thin, and with countless catheters inserted into his body.
Tong and his sister grew up in that moment.
The siblings began to help their mom share the housework and do all the things they could.
When Tong Dawei wasn't as tall as the stove, he stepped on a small bench to help his mom chop vegetables.
Someone advised his mom to remarry, but she refused with tears in her eyes.
"As long as Lao Tong is still one day, I will guard this family one day, and will never let the family fall apart."
She gritted her teeth and tenaciously held up the whole family.
02.
After graduating from junior high school, Tong did not continue to high school, but chose a two-year secondary school.
After school, he also went to various places to work part-time to subsidize his family.
When he was in the second year of junior college, a theater group came to their school to shoot a movie, taking scenes while looking for some mass actors.
For this kind of thing, Tong was originally not interested.
But when he heard that "acting" pays, he couldn't wait to sign up.
There were a lot of people who signed up, but they quickly lost interest.
Only Tong Dawei followed the crew every day in his spare time, just for the 20 yuan payment.
Originally just to make money, Tong Dawei gradually became interested in acting.
After discussing with his mother, Tong Dawei embarked on the road of art.
At that time, the Shanghai Theater Academy came to Dalian to enroll students, and Tong Dawei went to Dalian alone to take the exam.
In the physical examination, the other exams with the basis of the choice of dance a class of performance.
Tong Dawei stiffly did a set of radio gymnastics.
Well, in the other exams, Tong Dawei managed to get through with his experience of running the show.
In the end, Tong Dawei was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy with the second place in his major.
Because he was an acting student, he had a lot of chances to take movies and advertisements.
So Tong Dawei began to travel to various theaters to hone his acting skills and to make money.
Although almost all of them are small roles, but a little goes a long way, and Tong Dawei is improving a little bit.
And by this time, his income had become more stable, and he didn't ask for money from his family during his freshman year.
In his sophomore year, Tong was able to call home.
In 2001, Tong Dawei was shooting a movie in Beijing.
In his spare time, he ran to the Beijing Film Academy to play with his buddies.
This friend was an assistant teacher in the acting department of Beijing Film Academy, and when Tong Dawei came to Beijing Film Academy, he was giving lessons to the students.
Included in this group of students was Guan Yue, the love of Tong Dawei's life.
03.
The first time Tong Dawei saw Guanyue, it happened to be during her performance.
A beam of light hit her body, leaving her covered in radiance.
At that moment, Tong Dawei thought of the words in Jade Goddess of Mercy and felt love at first sight.
He felt that the girl in front of him was like a fairy descending to earth.
Most importantly, when Tong Dawei looked at the girl, the girl had also been looking in his direction.
He was excited and jumping inside, is it that this girl thinks she is also quite handsome?
Unfortunately, this is a beautiful "misunderstanding".
The reality is that Guan Yuet was more than 400 degrees nearsighted, and she didn't wear glasses during the show.
So she couldn't see anything at all, and the so-called "deep gaze" between the two was just Tong Dawei's narcissism.
This "misunderstanding" was not explained to Tong Da Wei.
At that time, he was thinking about how to get a beautiful woman.
Good buddy is Guanyue their teaching assistant, Tong Dawei quickly know the girl's name.
When it's not working, he comes to see them rehearsing.
It's just a shame that Guanyue didn't like how Tong Dawei was acting at the time.
"We especially don't like people watching us rehearse, and he comes every time, and we hate this guy."
Someone who has nothing better to do than come and watch the girls rehearse leaves Guan Yue with the impression that this person must be particularly philandering.
Tong Da Wei begged her friend to help her ask Guan Yue to come out to sing and eat with her.
At that time, Guan Yue was also just a freshman, for the assistant coach's request, and did not dare not go.
Guan Yue timidly went to the appointment, well Tong Dawei did not do anything excessive.
That is, show a little singing voice, or take the initiative to buy dinner.
After gradually getting acquainted, Tong Da Wei summoned up the courage to express his feelings.
Then Guanyue rejected it unceremoniously.
04.
Tong Dawei was a repeat loser, but each of his confessions was rejected by Guanyue.
But in the meantime, Guan Yue has changed her attitude towards him.
She learned that Tong Dawei is not the playboy he was in his first impression, but a very infatuated person.
Guan Yue has always been insecure and did not dare to fall into a relationship easily.
Tong Dawei never gave up and chased her for three years before and after.
On Guanyue's birthday, Tong Dawei put a lot of effort into organizing a birthday party for her.
Guanyue was finally touched by Tong Dawei and agreed to this confession.
But Guan Yue also put forward her own conditions: "Then I have to manage you, can you?"
Tong Dawei said on the spot, "I'm especially willing to let you manage me!"
Tong Dawei's three years of hard chasing feelings is finally a blossom.
By this time, he was already a little famous and won many awards.
His romance with Guan Yue is also finally on track, and the double happiness makes Tong Dawei excited.
But because of the special nature of the actor, Tong Dawei has not dared to expose and Guanyue's romance.
After this, his career progressed better and better.
In 2006, a movie called "Struggle" ushered in the peak of Tong Dawei's career.
The impact of fame and fortune made Tong Dawei forget a lot of the original heart.
Originally, he often joked with Guanyue that "let's get married", but he began to hesitate about marriage.
"If I get married, will a lot of people stay away from me?"
Despite this concern, he began to swell and float inside, proud and complacent.
05.
During that time, he was impatient with everyone and everything.
Especially his family and his girlfriend Guanyue, who often quarreled over trivial matters.
Once Guan Yue and her friends went out to sing and have fun, ready to call on Tong Dawei.
The result of the phone call Tong Dawei very impatiently said he did not want to go.
Later, after a big fight, Guan Yue calmed down first.
She found Tong Dawei and said, "Either we all just calm down for a month."
Tong Dawei casually agreed.
A month later, he found Guan Yue, and surprisingly, instead of calming down and apologizing, he just broke up.
Guan Yue was heartbroken, but this incomprehensible behavior of Tong Dawei had broken her heart.
She did not dwell on it and left decisively.
After losing Guanyue, Tong Dawei suddenly woke up.
He found that everything in the world has lost its color and he has no interest in everything.
He finally realizes that he can't live without Guanyue.
For a month and a half, Tong was in tears all day.
Tong tried everything, he realized how he could not get out.
Less than half a year after the breakup, Tong Dawei found Guanyue begging to get back together.
Such a frivolous breakup and get back together, how can Guan Yue, a northeastern girl from Jilin, agree.
She simply deleted Tong Dawei's contact information, no longer pick up his phone, and no longer meet with him.
Tong Dawei had to play a roundabout tactic and found Guan Yue's best friend Dong Xuan.
At that time, Dong Xuan and Guan Yue happened to be shooting a movie together.
Tong Dawei got rid of Dong Xuan to give Guanyue various gifts.
It was only after Dong Xuan's matchmaking that Guanyue agreed to meet up with Tong Dawei.
But it was just a meeting, and Guan Yue didn't give Tong Dawei a good face.
06.
A plan did not work, Tong Dawei can only find another way.
He knows that Guanyue's idol is Alan Leong, so he tried to find a way to ask Alan Leong and his wife to have dinner together.
He also told Guanyue that it was Alan Leong who invited them both to dinner.
Guan Yue received the invitation and went to the dinner in order to meet her idol.
At the dinner table, Tong Dawei shamelessly introduced Guan Yue as his girlfriend, and the dinner date was to propose to her.
Guan Yue didn't deny it outright; in fact, she agreed to come to dinner together, not simply to meet her idol.
It was just a step she gave herself, and in fact, she wondered what Tong Dawei would do.
Leung Ka Fai also helpfully praised Tong Dawei for being nice.
Guan Yue decided to give Tong Dawei another chance after a lot of mental struggle.
Tong Dawei also vowed that there would be no more things like before.
In August 2007, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue got married with a license.
In April 2008, Tong Dawei held a grand wedding for Guanyue.
The wedding venue was the Sofitel Beijing Wanda Plaza, and Tong Dawei spent a fortune.
He also got famous director Zhao Baogang as the witness of the wedding.
At the wedding, Tong Dawei seriously announced:
"I confirm that this is the only wedding in my life."
This is his promise to Guanyue and his apology to his wife.
The year of the marriage the eldest daughter was born.
After marriage, the two **** to have three children, two daughters and a son, a family of five happy.
After marriage, the couple did not never quarrel, but they agreed to quarrel never overnight.
Any problem must be made clear before going to bed that night.
Now Tong and Guanyue have been together for 15 years.
No matter before or after the marriage, Tong Dawei and Guanyue did not have any gossip, which in today's entertainment circle, is really rare.
Some people say that marriage is the grave of love.
But that's only because marriage buries the unrealistic fantasies of the love period, or simply with the other half is not suitable.
For the right person, marriage is by no means the grave of love, but the continued sublimation of love.
The marriage of Tong Dawei and Guanyue is a good example of this.
I wish Tong Dawei Guanyue a family of five can always love and happiness.