It's really hard to be a man.

I have been taught to be a man since I was a child, and now I know that being a man is really not easy.

I used to be young and simple. I think being a man is nothing more than kindness, sincerity and practicality. ...

But when I really walked out of society, I suddenly realized how simple and ignorant I used to be.

Maybe people should learn to be more open-minded and free-spirited, but when I am open-minded and free-spirited, it brings more troubles to myself. Things after things, feelings after feelings, seem attractive, but when you are involved in these things, it is difficult to get rid of them.

A friend said, it seems that I have a good relationship with a partner. I said, is there? I seem to be on good terms with everyone. The friend replied, yes, you are very good with everyone and you can talk to everyone.

But in fact, I am not easy to get along with people. Maybe I'm just good with people. This kind of getting along is just harmless, not intimate. But people around me think that I am very good with my friends, and sometimes I get closer to someone, or I think I am very good with this person after more exchanges.

Maybe everyone's psychology is understandable, and I'm not saying how bad it is. I just feel that sometimes what everyone sees is only the surface, and it is so rare to really see the truth through the phenomenon.

I am not writing this article to say that I have seen through a lot, but I am just feeling, feeling the relationship between people, feeling the essence of things, feeling whether it is true or not. ...