"You have to remember that in our industry, you need to be particular, and what you don't need is to make do."
This is Teacher Zhao Lirong, who is already dying, giving "Qian Son" Gong Hanlin's last piece of advice,
It was such a simple piece of advice that became Gong Hanlin's persistence in the rest of his life.
Ten years after teacher Zhao Lirong left, Gong Hanlin officially announced his withdrawal. During the Spring Festival Gala, he no longer appeared in sketches.
However, when he returned to life, he often lived a very worried life.
What he was worried about was not the loss of his career, but his son’s marriage and The birth of grandchildren.
Gong Hanlin was born in 1957 in Shenyang and is a national first-class actor.
He was born into an opera family. His parents are both Henan Bangzi actors.
Count All in all, Gong Hanlin should be called the "second generation star",
But at that time, "actors" didn't seem to be very respected,
so his parents never took the initiative to give in. Gong Hanlin came into contact with opera.
His parents are well-known in the local area and often perform in various places.
The little Gong Hanlin sometimes goes to various places with his parents to "camp out",
Most of the time, Gong Hanlin stayed at home alone,
Every time his parents left him a lot of money before leaving, so that Gong Hanlin would not go hungry because of lack of money,
But Gong Hanlin's body shape since childhood was like that of a person who has not had enough to eat all year round, as thin as a stick.
This made Gong Hanlin often bullied by older children,
During school days, Gong Hanlin would be surrounded by these people every time on the way home from school.
After some "threats", all the money on Gong Hanlin's body was searched.
Gong Hanlin was outnumbered and weak, and with thin arms and legs, he couldn't resist at all.
Being wanted more often, leaving school became Gong Hanlin's biggest fear,
After school every day, he needed to think in advance which way would be safer to take today.
Later, even when he was not in school, Gong Hanlin was unwilling to go out to play.
With nothing to do at home, Gong Hanlin began to think about the operas sung by his parents.
Slowly, he learned it well.
The only pity was that Gong Hanlin was short of breath and could not breathe. Too weak to sing opera,
This relieved his parents who did not want him to be exposed to opera.
However, no one thought that Gong Hanlin would be so persistent in learning opera.
In college, Gong Hanlin became a student at Shenyang University, majoring in philosophy, and had nothing to do with opera.
Just when Gong Hanlin’s parents breathed a sigh of relief again,
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Gong Hanlin joined the folk art club. Fortunately, there were more people studying cross talk in this folk art club.
Gong Hanlin could only learn cross talk with everyone.
Four years His college career passed in the blink of an eye. After graduation, Gong Hanlin became a teacher in a certain school.
He was unwilling to give up his favorite folk art.
He did not work for long. When the time came, he resigned from his job as a teacher without telling his parents.
He turned around and joined the Shenyang Folk Art Troupe. Regardless of his parents' dissatisfaction, he plunged into the ocean of folk art.
In the folk art troupe, Gong Hanlin is like an inconspicuous little grain of sand on a beach.
No one pays attention to him, and no key tasks are given to him.
But Gong Hanlin was happy to work there, selling tickets, running the venue, raising the curtain, serving tea and water and handing out books.
As long as he can be used, he can be seen everywhere.
Gong Hanlin did not expect that his behavior would have been noticed by another person.
This person was Gong Hanlin’s wife Jin Zhu.
Jin Zhu joined the folk art troupe at the same time as Gong Hanlin.
At just one glance, he was attracted by Gong Hanlin, who was full of energy and enthusiasm.
Jin Zhu was not that twisted type. A coy person should let the other person know if he likes her.
When Gong Hanlin was thinking about whether this girl also had a crush on him,
Jin Zhu had already taken the initiative and asked her. He expressed his feelings, and the two simply held each other's hands.
In 1983, Gong Hanlin and Jin Zhu got married.
At that time, Gong Hanlin could say She had nothing and her pocket was cleaner than her face.
Jin Zhu didn’t care. In her mind, just falling in love was enough.
Gong Hanlin’s parents also brought back a daughter-in-law because of their son.
Their dissatisfaction with him privately engaging in folk arts subsided.
In the same year, Jin Zhu gave birth to the child of two people's love, named Gong Tiankuo.
After that, Gong Hanlin developed smoothly without the obstruction of his parents in his career.
In 1988, Gong Hanlin became a student of Tang Jiezhong and began to study cross talk professionally.
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Mr. Yang Zhizhong felt that Gong Hanlin should not be trapped in this small area of ????his hometown,
He often told Gong Hanlin to think about going out often,
In the same year, Gong Hanlin Then he embarked on the road of development in Beijing.
In Beijing, Gong Hanlin not only came into contact with cross talk, but also developed well in the direction of sketches, film and television dramas.
Mr. Tang Jiezhong even worked for Gong Hanlin behind his back. He escorted us and everything was smooth sailing.
In 1990, Gong Hanlin officially appeared in front of the national audience, starring in the sketch "Playing Mahjong" in the Spring Festival Gala.
Then for 4 or 5 consecutive years, Gong Hanlin has been on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala. on, bringing laughter to the audience,
Unfortunately, in these years, Gong Hanlin did not directly become famous, but only accumulated a small amount of fame.
What really made Gong Hanlin famous It was on the Spring Festival Gala in 1995.
This year’s Spring Festival Gala was "Packaging Like This" performed with teacher Zhao Lirong.
In it, "Fourteen or Fifty-Six Flowers Bloom in Spring, Ah" Watch the valley show on June 6, watch the six-nine heads in spring..."
Even if you only watch it once, you can remember it firmly in your heart.
In fact, before this sketch came on stage, the sketch they rehearsed was "Mother's Heart".
This sketch was rejected by the director during the rehearsal.
They even wanted to replace Gong Hanlin, but Teacher Zhao Lirong immediately said, "If we replace him, I won't act anymore."
Later, Teacher Zhao Lirong and the directing team promised to produce a better work,
So there was a classic sketch like "Packaged Like This".
The most classic skit "Adventures at Work" by Gong Hanlin and Zhao Lirong in 1996 is wonderfully presented.
One sentence: "One hundred and eighty cups of palace jade liquor. How about this wine?" Listen to me blowing for you..."
Even today, I still remember it deeply.
This time, not only Teacher Zhao Lirong, but also Gong Hanlin became popular across the country.
In the following years, Teacher Zhao Lirong and Gong Hanlin have been working together.
Gong Hanlin is also treated as a "son" by teacher Zhao Lirong.
In front of the audience, the two of them are also "mother and son CP" that everyone likes.
However, God seems to be unable to see the beauty of others.
In 1999, during the Spring Festival Gala rehearsal, teacher Zhao Lirong coughed up blood and was rushed to the hospital.
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After examination, we learned that Teacher Zhao Lirong had advanced lung cancer and there was no possibility of cure.
Everyone couldn’t believe it, but Teacher Zhao Lirong smiled bitterly.
He comforted them: "It's nothing, they will leave in the end, sooner or later."
In this year's Spring Festival Gala, Teacher Zhao Lirong performed the last performance of her life, "Veteran Takes the Action".
In the most beautiful summer of the millennium, Teacher Zhao Lirong closed her eyes forever.
Before leaving, she called her godson Gong Hanlin to her side:
"Child, you have to remember that in our industry, you need to be particular about it, and what you don't want is compromise."
At the memorial service for Teacher Zhao Lirong, Gong Hanlin was filled with grief and almost cried until he fainted.
But he kept the words of his "mother" Teacher Zhao Lirong deeply in his heart.
In the following ten years, Gong Hanlin tried his best to create the best works and the best works. Performance, sent to the audience,
In 2010, Gong Hanlin also completed his last skit in the Spring Festival Gala, "Beautiful Embarrassment",
From then on, he was almost completely associated with the Spring Festival Gala and with the Spring Festival Gala. Skit farewell.
After putting down his sketches, Gong Hanlin gradually lost a lot of work and only occasionally appeared in movies and TV dramas.
He focused more on his family and life.
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Gong Hanlin’s wife has always grown up with him,
In the previous Spring Festival Gala stages, Jin Zhu also joined,
And Gong Hanlin’s son Gong Tiankuo seems to have inherited the genes of his parents.
At the tender age of 4, he was already on stage performing sketches.
When he was in high school, Gong Tiankuo was sent to study abroad by Gong Hanlin and his wife. ,
He also directly stayed in a school in the United States to study directing when he was in college.
In 2009, Gong Tiankuo officially graduated from college and returned directly to China to develop his career.
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Based on his professional skills, he chose a job as a behind-the-scenes director.
After work, he often participated in the filming of some film and television dramas.
For several years During his time, he appeared in many film and television dramas such as "Iron Brothers".
Although he is not a very outstanding one among these second-generation stars, he is still pretty good.
At the end of 2012, Gong Tiankuo met his happiness, Huang Yihui.
The two met in "The Decision Before Dawn". After a long period of contact, they fell in love because of the drama.
Huang Yihui was born in 1991 from Shandong. He is about 1.7 meters tall and six years younger than Gong Tiankuo.
Although he has a face that is unique to Shandong, his personality is very different. A lady,
and the relationship between the two was only officially confirmed after the play ended.
Gong Hanlin is also one of the starring actors in this drama.
When he learned that his son had "abducted" another actress back home, he was extremely happy.
At this time, Gong Tiankuo was already 27 years old, and Gong Hanlin had long been worried about his son's marriage.
When his son got his girlfriend back, Gong Hanlin's first thought was to get married quickly.
After returning to Beijing, Gong Hanlin couldn’t wait to ask his son to invite people home for dinner.
Perhaps Gong Hanlin and his wife Jin Zhu were really too anxious, so they just started talking at the dinner table. Bai De urged marriage.
Gong Hanlin said: "Now I don't have much ambition. I just hope that you will get married as soon as possible. Once I get married, I will be at ease."
His wife Jin Zhu echoed from the side: "Yes, get married as soon as possible, and hurry up to have a child. While I am still young, I can help you take care of more."
What Gong Hanlin and his wife said , not only made Huang Yihui embarrassed to say it,
Even Gong Tiankuo frowned. Gong Tiankuo actually did not want to get married so early.
At the age of 27, in the entertainment industry Under such circumstances, it is not too late to get married.
So Gong Tiankuo retorted to his parents:
"Mom and Dad, why are you so anxious? Xiaohui and I can take more pictures." "If you think about it in a few years, then consider getting married."
Gong Hanlin didn't know how many years his son was talking about,
But he knew that even in one or two years, there would be some. A lot of things happened,
If time goes by, and the sweet period of love is over, there may be no more years to think about getting married.
Gong Hanlin is worried, seeing that his son is unwilling to listen to him , turned around and asked Huang Yihui: "Xiaohui, what do you think?"
Huang Yihui naturally agreed with Gong Tiankuo, "Listen to him."
Gong Hanlin's blood pressure rose instantly , looking at his son's "heartbroken" expression.
After sending Huang Yihui away, Jin Zhu expressed her thoughts to Gong Hanlin.
She felt that the young couple had just fallen in love, and they were too hasty in urging marriage, so they should be slow. Take your time,
Gong Hanlin thought for a while and thought it made sense. The two of them said together, "Take your time."
Later, whenever he had time, Gong Hanlin asked Gong Tiankuo to take Huang Yihui with him. Come to your home as a guest,
The whole family drinks tea and chats together, and sometimes makes dumplings and cooks some delicious food.
When relatives and friends have happy events at home, Gong Hanlin will Bring his son and future daughter-in-law to the wedding together,
Let them experience the happiness after marriage,
If Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui are free, Gong Hanlin will also book travel tickets in advance ,
Let two people go out and have some fun.
A year later, Gong Hanlin brought up the matter of marriage again,
Only this time he was not so straightforward, but called Huang Yihui’s parents,
He said to Huang Yihui: "Xiaohui, it's been a long time. Can I meet your parents?"
Huang Yihui could hear what Gong Hanlin meant and did not refuse.
Subsequently, Gong Hanlin personally called the Huang family's parents and invited them to come to Beijing as guests.
The enthusiasm that the Huang family’s parents experienced after arriving can be said to be the highest treatment of the Gong family.
Gong Hanlin and his wife personally cooked and entertained, and took the Huang family’s parents to travel around Beijing. Attractions.
After the Huang family's parents returned, they began to persuade their daughter:
"Tiankuo's family atmosphere is very good, and there are no celebrity pretensions. Do you want to consider getting married?"
Although they would give a few suggestions about their daughter's marriage, they would mostly let her make her own decision.
After hearing what her parents said, Huang Yihui felt that she might be able to make a good decision. Grasp this relationship,
After that, Huang Yihui would bring some small gifts every time he went to the Gong family,
Sometimes he would also take over the housework from Jin Zhu Live, which makes Gong Hanlin and his wife more and more satisfied with it.
In 2014, Gong Hanlin, who couldn't wait any longer, once again launched an attack on his son Gong Tiankuo to urge marriage.
Gong Tiankuo originally planned to go in one ear and out the other, but Gong Hanlin too Through persistence,
and Jin Zhu carried out "mental attacks" one by one,
Gong Tiankuo finally couldn't bear the torture and relaxed. Gong Hanlin and his wife were very excited,
As soon as 2015 passed, Gong Hanlin and his wife began to prepare for their son's marriage in full swing.
The house was also decorated according to Gong Tiankuo's preferences.
In mid-2015, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui finally walked into the wedding together.
Just when Gong Tiankuo thought that his ears were finally clean,
Gong Hanlin started another wave of urging to have a baby.
Only one month after getting married, Gong Hanlin started to have children one after another.
The young couple wanted to develop their careers while they were young.
Gong Hanlin said: "How can that be done? It is just right for Xiaohui to have children at this age. If it is a few years later, the risk of having children will be too high."
Jin Zhu followed her husband's words again :
"Yes, if you don't give birth at this time, even if your career is successful in a few years, it will be meaningless. There is no conflict between the two."
At first, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui also Just like when I got married, I refused to let go.
In the end, I couldn't bear the double "attack" from Gong Hanlin and his wife, so I agreed to have a baby early.
In the same year, Huang Yihui became pregnant.
Gong Hanlin and his wife, whose dream came true, happily took care of Huang Yihui, who was pregnant.
Jin Zhu not only took care of her personally, but also often reminded Huang Yihui of the important things to do during pregnancy. What should you pay attention to?
At this time, Huang Yihui was like a giant panda, being held by his family.
In 2016, Gong Hanlin became a grandfather as he wished, and Huang Yihui returned to work after a good rest.
In order to take care of their little granddaughter, Gong Hanlin and his wife reduced their work a lot,
In addition, they will also help take care of the household chores of their son and daughter-in-law.
Gong Hanlin and his wife do not feel tired at all, but feel very happy.
During the Chinese New Year, Gong Hanlin packs three red envelopes every year, one for his granddaughter, son and daughter-in-law.
But Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui only enjoyed this quiet life for two years.
Gong Hanlin started giving birth again. In those years, the country allowed the second child.
This is exactly what Gong Hanlin wants. One child is too lonely, but two are just right.
Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui were still as before, unwilling at first, not even wanting to talk to each other to have a baby. old father.
As the pressure increased, Gong Tiankuo had an idea in his heart.
He always thought that his father interfered too much and he was always depressed now.
In order to avoid the pressure of his parents to give birth, Gong Tiankuo reduced the number of visits to his parents.
Sometimes he only went once for a long time, so Gong Hanlin found Huang Yihui in person.
Gradually, the father and son almost became estranged because of this incident.
Perhaps they sensed something. After this, Gong Hanlin and his wife no longer mentioned having children. As for the matter of the fetus,
As for Gong Tiankuo, whenever his parents mentioned it, he would immediately interrupt it.
Gong Hanlin was so anxious that he began to suffer from insomnia and hair loss.
When Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui came to visit their parents, they were frightened by Gong Hanlin's haggard appearance.
Gong Tiankuo shut his mouth when he heard his mother say that they were worried about not having a second child and couldn't sleep.
After returning home, Gong Tiankuo and his wife talked about the matter.
The young couple debated for a while and finally decided to give birth.
In 2019, Gong Hanlin once again got his wish and hugged his little granddaughter.
Gong Hanlin looked at his two little granddaughters with a smile on his face.
This After that, Gong Hanlin reduced his working hours even more and devoted himself to staying with his little granddaughters and accompanying them as they grew up.
Now Gong Hanlin is 64 years old. He has no regrets in his career and his family is happy.
His son Gong Tiankuo’s career is also developing steadily, and his daughter-in-law is more focused on family. Family oriented.