67-year-old lady dancing square dance video

Why did the old man say: Never help his daughter with the baby? Which grandmothers' suggestions are very reasonable? The competition in the contemporary information age is very fierce, and many young couples will return to work soon after giving birth. In order to relieve his work pressure, the old people at home first rushed to the city from remote rural areas to help him take care of his children. They will find that the old people have become the backbone of taking care of their children in big cities. Originally, the old man was kind enough to help, but in the process of taking care of the baby, many problems were formed, which made them very contradictory. Should they help take care of the children? Listen to the warnings of these four grandmothers, which is quite reasonable!

Li Nainai: Even if I kiss my daughter again, I still want to remind everyone not to help her baby. Since my granddaughter was born, I went to the city to help the young couple take care of the baby, but the two generations have different parenting concepts. My daughter often complains that I am wrong to do this and that. Anyway, it's because of the children's three-day quarrel. Frankly speaking, what my daughter said sometimes makes me feel chilling. I really have difficulties. I really want to go back to my hometown I am very happy with my wife every day.

Grandma Zhang: I am 67 years old. I wanted to dance square dance with my lover every day to enjoy my old age. After all, I have worked hard for my children all my life. However, my daughter and her mother-in-law had a conflict, and the usual work pressure made me very upset. Finally, I went to the place where she worked to help with the baby. In addition to doing housework every day, I have to send my children to and from school. Sometimes because I didn't take good care of my baby, my daughter began to accuse me when I was in a hurry and felt that I didn't care. When I heard this, my heart was really cold and I felt like an aunt.

Grandma Wang: My daughter told me on the phone that she was too busy at work to take care of the newborn and asked me to help her. I don't think it's easy for children nowadays. In the past, bringing a baby can also help them relieve some stress. However, in the past, I found that some personal behaviors of my daughter's son-in-law made me very unhappy. Every day when I come back from work, I will lie on the sofa or play with my mobile phone by the bed, or watch TV dramas, as if the children were not born to them. Because of this, I have quarreled with them several times, and I feel that they are really shirking their responsibilities.

Grandma Liu: If I were ten years younger, it would be absolutely no problem to take care of the children. But now I am old and my health is getting worse every day. Taking care of the baby is really a very energy-consuming thing. You should take care of the child when he is crying, urinating and hungry. If something is not done well, the daughter may talk endlessly. Therefore, when you are old, don't give yourself such difficulties. Usually eating and drinking in the sea and dancing in the square dance are quite relaxing, and the mood is ok.