In our cognition, marriage is a lifelong thing, after two people who love each other get married, they will surely share the same bed **** pillow, no matter at what age, couples should sleep together, have a dependence on each other. When you go to bed at night, it is the closest time for couples to distance themselves from each other, and it is also the best time for couples to express their feelings, chatting before going to bed, talking about their hearts, if couples are sleeping in separate rooms after the feelings which are still so good? It is said that husband and wife two people can be together, are in a previous life to repair the fate, since together, we must choose each other to trust each other, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, together with hand in hand to walk through the rest of life.
Young, always stick together two people, experienced the life of the wood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar, tea, marriage exposed a variety of problems, to the middle age, couples will slowly fade, and even to the point of sleeping in separate rooms, today our topic is: to the middle age, why most couples will sleep in separate rooms? This man told the truth.
1, Mr. Liu 47 years old
My wife and I met on a blind date, after meeting on a blind date, we chose to come together, at that time, we don't care about love, just older, at the urging of his parents to get married, there is no basis for feelings before marriage, are slowly cultivated after marriage. Married life is very plain, my wife and I each have a job, busy working during the day, after work, I will go to pick up my wife to go home together, at that time, we can not afford to buy a car, I am riding a bicycle to pick up my wife.
Passing through the market, my wife and I went to buy food, each other's tastes, buy each other like to eat dishes, after returning home, I give my wife to help wash dishes, she cooks, after dinner, we clean up the home health, I and my wife's feelings are day to day, get along with a long time, our feelings are also getting better and better, when we were young, we always want to get tired of being together.
With the birth of two daughters, my wife and I have to face a variety of family chores, the family added two new members, the need for a large amount of expenses, I in addition to the daytime work, the evening will do part-time work, I am busy making money to support the family, his wife at home to take care of the two daughters, worrying about the big and small things at home.
Today, my wife and I have entered middle age, my daughter has grown up and is studying abroad, so there are only two people left in the house, my wife and I. My wife's health is not good, and the quality of her sleep has become very light. After I reached middle age, my body has been blossomed, every night sleep will not only snore, but also grinding teeth, my wife and I sleep together, always easy to wake up, and then a sleepless night, looking at my wife's lack of spirit, I am very heartbroken, I took the initiative to put forward with my wife to sleep in a separate room, my wife feels that sleeping in a separate room will affect our feelings, so I do not agree.
I then said to my wife: wife, you do not sleep well, I will be heartbroken, and we have been married for more than 20 years, will it still be because of the separation of rooms, resulting in the breakdown of our relationship? Finally, my wife agreed to sleep in a separate room with me. At first, my wife did not sleep with me, I still feel uncomfortable, after the separation of rooms, my wife's sleep quality improved significantly, the spirit is also very good, I also slowly get used to a person to sleep.
While we do not sleep together at night, but during the day we still often chat, go to the market to buy food together, after dinner, go to the square dance together, to the middle age, our conjugal love is still very good.
Conclusion: every couple in the middle age, after entering the middle age, encounter things will not be as young as reckless, and do not know how to consider the problem, the love of middle-aged couples know more for each other, for the sake of the big picture, rather than a one-dimensional only to take into account their own feelings.