My fan and I told her love story: the ex sent a message to her, she did not care. Because in the beginning is the former do not want her ah, even if she so love him, so good to him. The reason for the breakup was because her boyfriend hated her for her low income, and she was earning 2,000+ per month, and his boyfriend was earning about 6,000 per month.
After a period of time, her ex-boyfriend came back to her, with the intention of getting back together, and was rejected by her, he still went to find a woman who can earn more money, and earn tens of thousands of dollars a month. Why did he come back to his ex-girlfriend? Imagine the following three reasons:
1. He took a pay cut
2. Those who earn as much as or even more than him are looking for boyfriends who earn more than 1w+ per month
3. The fight is still with this female friend
But no matter what, this girl is not going to get back together with her ex. Isn't she like a puppy dog that was thrown away, and the owner thought she wasn't classy enough to show her nobility and threw her away. It wasn't until the owner realized he couldn't afford a famous dog and remembered the gentle puppy that he came back for her. She didn't want it. "Why did you come back for me when you mercilessly discarded me in the first place?" Get lost.
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It's not just me, the fan, who is disliked by her boyfriend because of her low income, but there are quite a few of them in life.
There was once a question on the microblog: girls, why do you have to work hard? An answer is this, her cousin was ex-boyfriend smacked low income, work is not popular, and eventually broke up, her cousin from the kettle, the courage to straight "money", a year later, income doubled several times, the ex-boyfriend begged to get back together, was her ruthless refusal.
In my hometown there is a professor of economics. He was married twice. The reason for the divorce with his ex-wife is because the former husband has always disliked him for not having a high birth, education is not as high as his daughter, muttering all day long. After the divorce, he was also hanging on the beam, chiseling and borrowing light, and finally got a doctorate and became a professor of economics. The former old man also has the intention of composite, was rejected by him, and then married a wife like a flower, had a pair of children.
Many people say that women in this society are realistic, in fact, men and the elderly are also realistic, find a partner to weigh clearly, how much income, how the family, can not help his career development.
So, girls with low incomes are very likely to be disliked by their boyfriends.
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So how much does a girl earn per month to not be disliked by her boyfriend?
There is no answer to this, nor is there a fixed number.
The point is, girls, you are satisfied with your monthly salary has been 2000 +?
This question, I also asked my fans, she also admitted that, although her boyfriend because of her low income away from her to make her very sad, but on the other hand, her boyfriend also gave her a wake-up call: she did have to start struggling, a monthly salary of 2,000 + in this society, this era is indeed too low.
In this winter, a piece of clothing less than five or six hundred, often thousands of dollars in the era, in the era of tens of thousands of square meters of house prices, in the era of the rent of a few thousand a month, 2000 + monthly salary can do? Nothing can be done.
What makes people grow and make people soar is often not happiness, but pain and humiliation. So this sister's desire in 2017 is to earn lots and lots of money, and the motivation is to earn lots and lots of money.
In fact, how much a girl's income will not let the boys dislike another way to say it can be, that is, what a woman's life becomes, will not let the boys dislike.
When I grew up, when I experienced more things, I understand a truth: the more money people, the better the quality of life, the more attention to their personal image, the more love to learn.
When you don't go to fight, don't go to study, don't go to improve yourself, what makes you earn more money? When you earn more money, you will go to wear the ground goods, eat roadside stalls? When you have money, you will find, eat eat roadside stalls, wear wear stall goods, that is called a unique enjoyment rather than the normal life; you will find that your contact with the world is wider, know more and more high level people, your thoughts, your view of things, you do things in a very different way than before.
More horrible than the difference in income is the difference in progress, is that two people have been completely in two worlds, completely two different classes of people, the gap and the difference is getting bigger and bigger. You can't even do a PPT well, but he already speaks fluent English; you play cards after work, he went to a business summit after work. When you one day find that you and he have nothing to say, you will realize the sense of crisis. Maybe, in the process, he has long been more and more dislike you.
Baidu know someone asked, their monthly salary of 3000, should find how much monthly salary boyfriend. Some people answer 6000, some answer 5000, some answer 10000.
But in fact, this girl should ask themselves, you will always be 3000 a lifetime? The first thing you need to do is to ask yourself if you are going to be able to get the best out of your life. You are worth 3,000, do you have confidence in yourself? What is your attitude towards work? You have the confidence to get a higher income?
If your answer is, a girl to find a monthly salary of two or three thousand work on the line, on the small class, with children, enjoy, money are men to earn, then this question or do not ask. You should be looking for a person who has the same attitude towards life as you do, who drinks and plays cards after work, and who dances and meets sisters after work. The two of you will not sit together at the desk reading and drinking tea and studying the latest published books.
More important than to find a person who earns more than you is to find a person who has the same attitude towards life as you do, and the same desperation as you do, or you want to go to change, you want to become different from what you are now, then find a person who can make you progress.
If one wants to move forward and one wants to stay in place, or even go backward, there is bound to be a problem.
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A lot of people talk about one thing, career women and family women.
It is difficult for women to family and career at the same time to take care of, in the workplace reigned supreme, it will not be a good wife and mother; at home is a good wife and mother, in the company will not call the shots. After all, after marriage, women take care of the family a little more, the birth of children is also women, if the male income is not high, will be very insecure.
This statement has some truth. Women's careers and families are indeed difficult all. Although there are a few women who have done it.
But still, as mentioned above, what level you are, you may encounter what kind of people. If you ask the male income is very high, your income can not be too bad; you ask the boyfriend is a high rich handsome, you at least must be a white and beauty.
And some men say, can not marry a woman whose income is too high, too strong, too much pressure, that can only lol, such a man can fight to get a higher income, why to say so sour words?
And those who excessively suspected that his girlfriend's income is too low, in fact, they are not good to go, in fact, very selfish and self-interested, there is no sense of responsibility;
If the woman is also sitting and waiting every day, dreaming of rich husbands to marry their own, but also to save it, you think you're Guan Zhiling, that Guan Zhiling has not been true love, is not it?
In the end, ah, or their own efforts, back to a thousand steps, you have a high income, if there is no boyfriend, you can also live a very good, is not it?