Today's society calls women Half the Sky, and in our lives, we often hear Half the Sky say that they are too tired, and women with children are even more difficult to go home to take care of their children after a busy day at work. So, will young women after 80s choose to start their own business or have children first? With this topic reporter interviewed some women in Yinchuan City.
■For the health of future generations, we should have children at a young age
Liu Juan, just graduated from the university, introduced by her family to meet her current husband, although her husband's age is older than their own six or seven years, but at that time, his work is more stable, and do things very carefully, and after much consideration Liu Juan married him. After marriage, I also wanted to have a career before having a child, but my husband advised me to have a child first, my in-laws are still young and can help us bring up our children, and it's not too late to work after giving birth to a child. Liu Juan listened to her husband and started working after giving birth to her child in the second year of her marriage. Now the child is 5 years old, and she has found a relatively stable job.
For a young woman to start a business or to have a child first, Liu Juan has her own opinion that there is a lot of pressure of competition in the society nowadays, and it is only allowed to have a child, and the child born at the best time of one's health is the most healthy: we have to work for a long time in our life, but the golden age of having a child is very limited in one's life. If you wait until your work is going well and then have a child, your health will not be good, and if there is anything wrong with your child, it will be too late to regret it! After all, the child is the continuation of one's life. And career, even if temporarily lost can be created again.
■ For the cause of the temporary birth
In fact, it is not want to give birth to, just immature conditions. Living in Yinchuan City, Xixia District **** enjoy the district of Li Xia, 30 years old, has been married for four years, the couple are more like children, but both sides of the work have just entered the right track, they want to wait for the cause of the stability of some of the children. Now it is very difficult to find a job, in order to be able to keep your current job, you have to work hard ah!
The two had no choice but to put off their plans to have children, but their parents disagreed with them. Every time their parents mentioned this on the phone, the two had to cope with it by going faster. Fear of parental rounds of education, the two are now afraid to take the initiative to give their parents to the phone, the holiday home is also can be avoided.
Li Xia said, around many students and their own, in order to career had to temporarily give up the plan to have children.
■ Doctor: the best fertile period is 2535 years old
The gynecologist of Yinchuan Maternal and Child Health Hospital told reporters that the best age for married women to conceive is 2535 years old, because this period of time the body is the most robust, the most energetic, the formation of the embryo and the growth and development of the fetus is very favorable. Women who give birth after this age are not easy to recover, and women who give birth above 35 years old are called advanced maternal age, compared with the age of childbearing, advanced maternal age to bear more risks, the later the delivery time, the more likely to give birth to deformed children. At the same time, women's uterine contractility and vaginal extension are also poorer as they age, making them prone to hemorrhage and obstructed labor. In addition, older women may face complications from pregnancy.