1, emotional disorder
The bad environment of family background, the tense relationship between family members and the lack of communication and understanding between them easily lead to individual emotional disorders. When children grow up, if they don't get the attention and care of their families, it may lead to emotional problems such as loneliness, insecurity and helplessness.
2. Sick personality
The unstable family environment and the lack of understanding and respect among family members can easily lead to individual personality disorder. When children grow up, if family members often attack and fight with each other, children will learn to solve problems by attacking and fighting. This form of personality often affects one's work and social skills, leading to setbacks and failures in social and work.
3. Self-denial
The bad environment of family background and the lack of understanding and support among family members easily lead to individual self-denial. When children grow up, if they don't get encouragement and support from their families, they will doubt and deny their abilities and values. This kind of self-denial often affects one's self-confidence and self-esteem, leading to setbacks and failures in social and work.
Ways to get out of the morbid family model;
Let yourself grow up first, then treat your parents. Know your family background, know your own problems, and try to make yourself mature. The method is also very simple. Leave your family for a while and live alone. Have their own stable source of income, be able to take care of their own food, clothing, housing and transportation, and take care of their emotions.
Then try to make friends, know more people, know more people of the opposite sex, and establish close relationships. When you can establish a stable intimate relationship, your mind is basically mature. Go home again, have in-depth communication with parents, point out their problems, and then grow up together. Because only those who accept the family will become truly powerful.