More importantly, the distance between family members has increased, more than they receive less care, but also slowly began to worry about the family, whether the mother is still dancing every day, whether the father is on time every day to and from work, the dog is not someone regularly go to skate, their sister is not has slowly grown up. If you think of this, in fact, you will find that you are no longer the kind of small children, although some psychological reluctance, but still growing, which is also a complex mood.
Instead of customer service this feeling, it is better to learn to accept this feeling. The mood of leaving home is everyone in the growth of the inevitable will face, leaving home on behalf of self-reliance, leaving home on behalf of the responsibility, although it is said that the modern society so that the exchange of communication has become smooth, you can call, video, send voice, but the space on the sense of distance will still produce estrangement. If the conditions are good, nowadays it is also very convenient to meet, buy a plane ticket, or a high-speed rail ticket, home seems to be right in front of you, but also very far away.
Another perspective, to be able to leave home is also an honor, is the affirmation of their own, is the parents degree of their own trust, although a bit of a last resort, but will always be within the heart of the feeling of slowly protecting others, my ability is still very limited, just left home to stand on their own, but the future of life, I am no longer the one who is being protected, I can also gradually protect my family. The first step of the current knowledge, the road behind is still very long, to the school has entered half of the society, I will begin to grow their own ability, in order to one day in the future will be able to protect them as their families to protect themselves.
The pain of growing up is always so bitter, it is because our hearts are not strong enough, looking at the mother reluctant to send off, there will always be a kind of not taste in the chest surging. If you want to cry then cry out, and then stride forward, and then give them a hug, head without turning back to the cool leave the door, in front of their face can be happy, turn your head can only cry, to give yourself a gas, pumped up. School no longer has mom's delicious food, but there is a wider sky to exert oneself.
Even to the school, there will be so one or two days not too smooth, homesickness and loved ones, but do not have to blame yourself, the more you miss that the deeper the ties, the same people at home every day will look at the weather forecast of your location, remind you to add clothes and drink hot water. With the passage of time, along with the busy study, slowly will get through this period. The pain is only temporary, and you have to believe that better things await you in the future.
Spend more time with your friends, try to make up for the distress caused by your family's absence, talk to your classmates more, do more things, take care of yourself, eat well, exercise well, and try not to let them worry.
It is not easy to be away from home, and I believe that after this period of customer service, there will be a greater psychological growth.