I like this passage on the internet: I would rather be lonely than against my will. I would rather regret than make do with it. Who can enter my heart, I will be king. Those who don't enter my heart are too lazy to elaborate. The past is dark, the color is clear and bright. After years of sorrow and joy, it is as clean as a mirror and as quiet as washing. ? Yes, a person who has experienced many ups and downs in the world will gradually understand that there are some things that he would rather be lonely than do against his will. Especially those aged from one to sixty should avoid joining these four circles against their will, so as not to fall into a bleak situation at night.
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The first circle: the circle selling health care products.
By the time we were 60, we had retired. At this age, we have become very concerned about maintenance and our health. This is of course a very good phenomenon. At the age of 60, as long as people keep exercising and keep healthy, the quality of life in their later years should be very guaranteed. However, when people are old, we should also pay attention to some circles selling health care products around us. In such a circle, some people will promote some health care products to each other under the slogan of health preservation, and they will talk about the efficacy of health care products. In fact, such a circle is just a sales circle with health care as the gimmick. Once we fall into it, it is inevitable that money will be trapped, but it is difficult to achieve the effect of health care. Therefore, we must remember that when the so-called retirement circle sells health care products, we would rather be lonely than dragged down by old friends around us, and join such a circle against our will to avoid being hollowed out and falling into a bleak old age, and we will definitely regret it.
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The second circle: on the seniority circle.
At the age of sixty, we are old people. Although we can't bear to part with it, people will grow old gradually. This is the law of life, and this is the life code that human society cannot decipher. We'd better accept it. When you are 60, don't think that you have just retired, your aura has not faded, and you still have some good contacts. People around you still have to respect us for three points, so you feel that you deserve some honors and benefits. As a result, we formed an alliance with some retired people with certain status around us, scolding the young people around us at will, and even maliciously attacking them.
Such behavior is actually an act of relying on the old to sell the old, and such people will inevitably encounter the resentment of young people. And then what? The waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves before? Really powerful people are often young people who grow up gradually. Once we offend them by seniority, they will have a position in the future, and they will fight us back and even put us in an embattled situation. At that time, no one cares, no one communicates, and our old age will be lonely and desolate. Therefore, when people reach the age of 60, if someone around them forms a circle of seniority and pulls us in, we should pay attention. We would rather choose loneliness than participate against our will, so as not to fall into the trap of leaning on the old and selling the old, be rejected by people and be besieged on all sides, thus making our evening scene bleak.
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The third circle: for the old disrespectful circle.
By the time we were 60, we had been married to our lover for decades. At this time, how much should we understand? Young couples always come together? The true meaning of "love" is to accompany your lover and help each other all your life. If at this age, someone around you is bragging? It's hard to buy a thousand dollars, and you have a good old age? Slogan, formed the so-called? Happy circle? If you want to use this circle to get a chance to participate in some ambiguous activities, then you should be on your guard. At this time, if these people want to attract our participation, they must know how to refuse decisively, because of this? Don't respect the elderly? Circles will inevitably ruin our reputation, bring great trouble to our family, and some even make our family fall into a state of dispersion and collapse. At that time, our lovers will leave, our families will abandon us, our old age will be neglected, and the bleak evening scene will be self-destructive. So, when people reach the age of 60, what will happen if someone pulls us into this participation? Don't respect the elderly? In our circle, we would rather be lonely than participate against our will to avoid us falling into a bleak situation in the evening.
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The fourth circle: the circle of reckless investment.
When people reach the age of 60, they should know how to leave the necessary pension for themselves. If we retire at the age of 60 and still have some savings, then we must know how to take good care of it ourselves and not give it all to our children or even some distant relatives. Because people are old, they need money for food, clothing, housing and medical expenses. If we don't keep some money for ourselves, it will be embarrassing to ask our children or a relative for the money when we get some diseases or need some expenses. At the same time, we should remember that at this age, if some relatives and friends around us form some so-called investment circles and encourage us to join them, then we should be vigilant. On the one hand, our energy can't stand the toss. On the other hand, we often don't know the details of these so-called investments. If we are cheated, we will have nothing. In old age, if you are penniless, you will inevitably fall into a bleak situation at dusk. Therefore, when a person reaches 60, if there are some circles around him who invest indiscriminately, then even the best friends should know how to choose loneliness instead of joining against their will.