This can be harmful to the child, the mother brushed up the jitterbug to endless, almost can not stop. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a cell phone, and you'll be able to do that.
It is the nature of children to love to play, and it has become a habit for them to look at their cell phones every day.
There is a saying that is so right, to harm a child, give him a cell phone.
The child's cell phone to see a long time, eyesight is not good, kindergarten on the beginning of the children with glasses is increasing, but parents do not take it seriously.
The child is intoxicated in the cell phone, do not quarrel, the child is happy, parents are more happy, so the mother sits here to brush Jieyin, the child to do there to play with the phone.
The child light eating does not exercise, began to grow fat, around the fat pier more and more, the more immobile the more do not want to move, into a vicious circle. Today many children a little exercise, began to shout tired. On to middle school high school military training, there are some children stand for a long time on the ground fainted, which is caused by the lack of exercise.
The child playing, began to play games, the child was originally very fast results, because read to play games, the results began to fall, parents realized that they made a serious mistake, but to change the child's bad habits is too late, the child is obsessed with, like detoxification general feelings.
So the child a mess, the mother took the phone to the child is not a good performance. It is best to control yourself in front of the child, do not brush the jitterbug. Mom can take the child to read books, do games, engage in exercise. The outside world is wonderful, take the child to travel to increase insight.
Do yourself a favor, in front of the children, the mother must put down the phone, do not brush the jitterbugs, not to mention the children can not take the phone to the children, so that all the harm and no good.
This is not a question of whether it is good or not, I think the people who asked the question know it is bad. I think the deeper meaning is how to change.
First the first question. Mom often brushes the jitterbug without regard to the child. What to do?
Now under the epidemic, kindergartens are not open. The burden of watching the children is all on the parents. Especially young moms. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and you'll be able to do it all at once. Usually like to brush a jitterbug, see new things. There is nothing wrong with that. But the child is constantly crying the most convenient way is to hand the phone to the child, simple and effective. But this is too harmful to the child's physical and mental growth. I'm afraid to calm down and think about it. The danger to the eyes, the addictive nature of the cell phone. Have parents ever considered? If you have thought about it, you will not easily give the cell phone to the child. Just like children do not eat snacks.
The second question is what do adults do when their children cry?
Anyone who has raised a child knows that. There is a reason why a child cries. Either they are hungry, sleepy, or they have to pee. Excluding these problems. The child is to be accompanied. There's a word for it. It's called playmates. It's best when children play with each other. A couple of kids from the neighborhood play together. Conditions don't allow for that, but of course you have to have the adults themselves. We suggest that you buy a talking robot toy. It can tell stories, sing and dance. Parents can also. Play with the children and make some toys. It's best to videotape it with a video camera. My child is in his second year of junior high school. Thinking back on how my child grew up that year. There are still some regrets. Too little companionship. And now these young parents, please cherish the good moments with your kids growing up! Otherwise you will regret.
The children have grown up friends, there is time to do some of the previous child's development of the video it. Watching the video of your child's previous, unconsciously, the sour feeling comes to your heart.
Not good, long time one is to the child's eyes caused by the damage, the second is easy to be addicted to addiction, especially the game, so that parents are the child's first teacher, must pay attention to ah,
Definitely not good, on the physical and mental health of small children is particularly harmful.
It is best not to, parents have time to play with her, or focus her attention elsewhere, such as teaching children to learn to draw, sing children's songs, write numbers, tell stories, etc., in this case, the child from the learning a lot of knowledge
This can only be harmful to the child. Now the short video platform really blossomed, a hundred schools of thought, this is a good phenomenon, we through the short video platform to open the eyes, learn a lot of knowledge. As the old saying goes: it is better to read a thousand books than to travel a thousand miles, and it is better to travel a thousand miles than to read countless people. Now the short video platform provides both traveling thousands of miles and reading countless people. However, if there are good ones, there will be bad ones. Some bloggers, for the sake of traffic and attracting eyeballs, make short videos that violate social morality, while some videos are not nutritious just for a laugh. The human brain loves sensory stimulation that is light and pleasant, and if you watch more of these types of videos, your thinking and contemplation will decline, and you will be resistant to your studies and work. Adults have trouble controlling themselves, let alone children. Nowadays, what children lack is not information, but the company of their parents. As long as parents put down their cell phones for two hours to read with their children, exercise, or chat, the children will be happy.
This is very bad, here I want to criticize the mother, since when the mother of this role should be responsible for this responsibility, this reflects the mother's irresponsible, but also let the baby to develop very bad bad habits. 1, the mother do not day and night in the heart of the thought of the phone, the phone is certainly fun, but the majority of people are due to the cell phone, the game and ignored the beauty of the surroundings. 2, the baby noisy, do not give the baby to the phone. 3, the baby is not a good idea, but the baby is not a good idea. The baby is noisy, do not give the baby to play with the phone, the baby is too small to contact the phone is not a good thing, the baby is noisy, the baby parents can play with the baby together for a while, play with blocks, puzzles and other toys are very good, this kind of toys can increase the baby's fun can also develop the baby's intellect, maybe the next spaceship will come from your baby (here to make a joke)
Not good,
Why do moms look at their phones and brush their phones every day?
How many times a day? How many times a day do you do it? How many hours do you do it?
How old is your child? Why is he so noisy? If you show him your cell phone, will he stop arguing?
We can try to expand on this question:
Q1:The only source of income for a single mom is to watch her phone and swipe on Jitterbug, and while she's working, the child makes a lot of noise. The mom has to find a way to quiet the child for a while first, and that way is to show him her phone. When the work is over, the single mom still needs to cook her child three meals a day, tutor him in his homework, spend at least two hours a day with him in outdoor activities, as well as provide the financial support needed to grow her child on her own.
Under this question, the questioner asks if it's okay for the mom to show her child her cell phone when she's busy.
The answer is: it's perfectly fine!
Q2:A dual-income family, in order to be able to guarantee a better childhood for their children, the mom sacrificed her career plan and turned to part-time work at home with more freedom and lower income. Due to the pressure of life, mom has to take on more work to ensure the quality of life at home. She has to run the household during the day, work as she sees fit, and cope with the various needs of her children. When her husband comes home from work, mom hopes that he can help out a little and give her a break. But while she was looking at her phone and swiping on Jitterbug, her husband played King of Glory, and her kids were clamoring to play, so she sighed and handed her phone to her kids. In exchange for a moment of peace!
At this time, the husband asked a question, the mother looks at the phone every day to brush the Jieyin, and the child gives him the phone when he makes a noise, is this good?
The answer is: not good, but maybe she has tried her best. The most meaty milkmaid can't afford to carry so many piggybacks.
Q3:300,000 dowry, finally married back to a daughter-in-law, said not much affection, after the marriage has a child. The daughter-in-law does not do housework, lazy, like to watch the phone brush Jieyin, the child noisy to him to see the phone, anyway, as long as she does not make noise, doing things completely no parenting bottom line.
If someone asks: Is this good?
The answer is: very bad! Having a child should be something that both people are ready to do, real name against having a child in order to pass on the family name, the burden of the child's quality of life is not only money, but also the behavior of both parents. Even if the father works very hard to bring up the child, if the mother has been things a deliciously lazy, look at the phone to brush the jitterbug, not the image of production, the formation of the child's world view of life is also a large number of negative impact. Not only looking at the phone to hurt eyesight, damage to the brain problem, there is a longer term for the personality, character impact.
In this case, it is recommended that the couple have a good talk, not just about the mother's behavior, make a "good" or "bad" definition, but should stand in the interests of the whole family, talk about the future and family planning.
This is definitely not good! There must be a reason why the child is crying. On the one hand, the body may not feel well, the second is the desire is not achieved, the third may want to parents accompanied. If this time regardless of the three seven twenty-one to throw a cell phone to fool around to solve the problem, this is the parents of children irresponsible, the growth of the child is not good. It is possible that the child will develop a dependence on the phone, in case of "addiction", then it is not good to quit.