Everyone has his own opinion about feelings, and men and women have different attitudes towards feelings.
Men may not understand why women's hearts are divided into likes and loves. In fact, this is because their hearts need the care of their loved ones, which stems from their extreme lack of security.
In a woman's mind, she will think that the object of love is unique, and the objects she likes are countless.
Many of us know that there can only be one person in love. Maybe people who give themselves a little benefit will think that this person is very nice and likes each other, but this love can't be used for love.
The road to love is very long, and there will be countless setbacks in the process of two people joining hands. If you just like to maintain the relationship between two people, it may be difficult.
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If you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you need to stick to your initial heart in love and devote yourself wholeheartedly to the feelings you are experiencing.
I once had a college classmate, Wang Jun. He is a handsome man. There are many suitors around him, but every time he has a relationship, the two will be separated soon after they are together.
He said that he didn't understand what women really wanted, and he liked each other very much, but he couldn't stand the control of each other and wouldn't let him get in touch with friends of the opposite sex around him, but they just had legal contacts.
Some things a woman does in her feelings may just want to make up for the vacancy in her heart and let the other person only love herself.
Love is easy to explain, but with her, there is only each other in her eyes and heart, which is what women need.
Love means that I only like you, but love means that I have seen all your dark side, and I still choose to love you.
How many people will be surprised at the first sight of each other's looks or other things when they get along, and thus have a good impression on this person, which is called liking.
Love is getting along for a long time. I have seen all your shortcomings and faults, but I will still choose to stand firm with you. I will choose to help you correct it, not abandon you. This is love.
What women need is love, because there may be many people who like them. They know that only by loving this relationship can they not maintain it, so they need to find a man who can love themselves.
Maybe when a woman cries, you give her a piece of paper, and she may like you because of this paper, but that doesn't mean she will fall in love with you.
Women are sometimes very rational emotionally. They know what kind of partner they need. If you don't really love her, she will notice.
If you pursue a woman with short-term enthusiasm, they may choose to refuse. After all, everyone's energy is limited and no one will waste their feelings.
Take your feelings seriously. If you decide to start, don't be half-hearted in this relationship. Sometimes, once you decide to take that step, it's hard to go back.
Men need to understand that women have a clear distinction between love and liking. If you can't tell the difference between the two, you'd better not start, because it will hurt the feelings of two people.
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Wang Jun thinks that women's bondage to him is a kind of torture, because he doesn't distinguish between love and liking between men and women, and he doesn't realize that women use such behavior to attract each other's attention because they lack enough sense of security.
In this world, we should find someone unique to us, not a sudden heart, so that we can be together regardless of the consequences.
Sometimes people are impulsive, and people who have a little affection will bravely pursue each other, but they don't know whether they love or like each other. We must be clear: "There are boundaries between love and liking."
There is a big difference between love and liking. What is needed in love is love, not like. Women will be very sensitive to this and need men's special attention.
And every one of us should. Since we have decided to start a relationship, we should make continuous efforts in this relationship to make our love life better.