Small surprises can only play a short-term role, but the long-term stability of the relationship is unsustainable.
Taking care of him, the housework at home is contracted, and finally it is found that these can't enter a man's heart.
Especially when we meet a good man, or when we look up to a man, all this seems too superficial and too basic.
So what should a woman do to win a man's heart? In fact, it is good to learn to do the following 6 points, so hurry and have a look!
1, willing to spend money for themselves and create their own external image.
Whether you admit it or not, externality is the most important competitiveness that women need to maintain in marriage.
Men's initial preference for women is not because of her inner beauty, but because of her external image, which brings him good feelings. If a woman has no external beauty, she has no chance to show her inner beauty.
Say nothing: temperament cannot be achieved by dressing up. That was after 50 years old. Before the age of 50, we must strive to be beautiful.
You may not look beautiful, but you must have good taste in it and be willing to spend money on yourself.
2, dependent and independent, have their own opinions.
Most men hope that their partners can rely on themselves, throw a charm from time to time and satisfy the desire of male chauvinism. Especially when two people are jealous of each other, girls' moderate coquetry and praise will make boys feel full of responsibility and courage. But under the great realistic pressure, boys also want to hope that girls can have the ability to live independently.
A woman with independent thoughts will not listen to the wind or rain, but will just drift with the flow. She has her own thoughts and cognition. An independent woman will not regard a man as her only reliance, but will work hard for what she wants. Men will appreciate such a woman and want to be close to such a woman. There is no Xia Yingchun, and there is no Zhong Wuyan.
A woman who can combine the advantages of Xia Yingchun and Zhong Wuyan may be the ultimate dream of boys.
3, straightforward personality, like to call a spade a spade
A woman with a straightforward personality is generous and unpretentious. Speak freely when you have something on your mind, instead of hiding it for others to guess. She will know when to say and when not to say according to the occasion and time, unlike some people who mistake meanness and meanness for their own nature.
A woman with straightforward personality is more attractive to men, because when she gets along with her, there will be no pressure and psychological burden, and she is not afraid to offend her if she makes a mistake.
4. Simple but not stupid
As the saying goes, men of all ages like the naive feeling of 18-year-old girls, which always makes boys feel the beauty of their first love.
Simplicity often means keeping a positive attitude towards some dark sides of society, not paying too much attention to reality and material things, and believing in beautiful things such as love.
Adult life itself is more complicated, and there are inevitably some intrigues. They naturally hope to have a warm harbor like family, face a simple person and enjoy pure happiness.
However, simplicity does not mean stupidity. Simple can, but basic emotional intelligence and IQ are still needed. After all, only the overbearing presidents in romantic novels like silly days.
5, generous and reasonable, give men enough face in front of outsiders.
The biggest feature of a sensible woman is that she is not unreasonable, which is also a more important point that men like. Some women love to work, get angry when they reply to messages late, embarrass men in front of friends, and always ask men to take her as the center and turn around her. And a reasonable woman will not lose her temper at will, nor will she disrespect men. She keeps her balance very accurately.
6, optimistic and cheerful attitude.
Women with bad attitudes tend to get old, don't they? Take it by force? Some friends. People who like to complain and feel sorry for themselves all day are unwilling to get close to such people. People with bad mentality are also sensitive, and a casual word or look from others can control her emotions. So it's hard for men to like a woman with a bad attitude.