One of the greatest bravery in life is the ability to maintain trust and love after experiencing deception and hurt.
Don't think there is better behind, because what we have now is the best; don't think you can marry later, love is not waiting for the age of; don't give up because the distance is too far, love can be with you on the train; don't give up because the other side is not rich, as long as it is not incompetent, and encourage each other to make you rich; don't give up because of the opposition of outsiders, happiness is by their own heart to feel. It is by their own heart to feel.
There is no unfinished story in this world, only the undead heart. In the two people's emotional game, the last heart may not be the winner; and the last dead heart, is bound to be the loser.
Hunger, can keep a clear head.
This is the first time I've ever seen a man with a heart of gold in his mouth.
Close your eyes, clean up your heart, and let the past go.
I'm afraid of the old heart, not afraid of the long road.
Life is more than a struggle.
As long as the heart is still not willing, it is not time to give up.
Many things, see open is good; see not open, and ultimately to get through. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the stuff that you've done.
Don't envy me, I've experienced, I'm sure, know the inside story, no one in 10,000 people are willing to go through the same experience to adhere to and bear.
The first sign of maturity is to learn to reduce the illusion but retain hope, treat the present still look forward to the future. A better future will come because you use every perfect today to pile up.
Everyone who is really strong has to spend a period of time with no help, no support. Everything is held up by yourself, and all the emotions are known only to you. But as long as you grit your teeth and get through it, everything is different.
Life is like a stage, not to curtain, never know how wonderful they are.
Which stage of life, we should like that period of time, to complete that stage of the duties to be accomplished, along with the life of the line, not obsessed with the past, not feverishly looking forward to the future, life is so good. Regardless of the struggles and challenges we are experiencing, we may only have one choice: to be happy and believe in the future, despite the pain.
The thing that doesn't work, don't buy it even if it's cheap; don't rely on it even if you don't love it, even if you're lonely.
At the tipping point of life and death, you will realize that any overtime, too much pressure on yourself, the need to buy a house and a car, these are all floating clouds. If you have time, stay with your children, buy a pair of shoes for your parents with the money you spent on the car, and don't try so hard to get a big house. When you're with someone you love, a snail's pace is still warm.
Starting from today, smile every day, the world is nothing but life and death.
If a woman becomes a yellow face too soon, her husband must not be a good man who is gentle and considerate; if a woman becomes a shrew soon after marriage, her husband is definitely not a big man who is a man of the world.
Love if a party set up a defense, and then how hard it is separated by a wall.
If the wind and rain can not escape, can not hide, then the straight face of the encounter, with strength and will to fight against the difficulties. We have no reason to complain, the future will gradually become clear. The road will not only be muddy, walk through, will usher in the sunshine. All the growth and experience is a kind of happy pain, motivate yourself to face the challenge bravely, let it become the proudest chapter of life.
Life is like a novel that can't turn over the ending
Life is like a novel that can't turn over the ending
1, everything can't have a fluke mentality, there is no empty fall pie in the sky, said far, is white, said white, is nonsense. I have also been y confused about this, always thought that there is no outside world and can be all Xiao Xiao sprinkle, holding the fantasy, holding the providence, return to it, my fruit. Now that I think about it, it is really ridiculous to the extreme. God's will is not to be violated, but not through their own efforts, God's will, it will never be in your favor. And you, there is no talk of providence, or, your final result, is a kind of providence.
2, quietly listening to the tune when you will find a lack of listening, because the tune lack of text, like people lose their soul, is a kind of lonely beauty. The tune plus the words will let people enter the dream world they understand to enjoy and appreciate. That's why the tune and the words add up to perfection. Because it's called a song.
3, often people will have such a problem, I live in the end what is for? In fact, this question is very simple, live is to live, there is no purpose at all. Of course, you want your living to get a better experience or more beautiful, you should try to do something or enjoy what, of course, we are thinking about these things when we are already living.
4. Insisting on what is right and reasonable will, of course, make one successful, but if one insists on what is wrong and misguided and doesn't know it or doesn't change it, it will only make one lose one's name. King Zhou's pleasure, fish and flesh of the people, Qin Ershi's tyranny, tyranny is fiercer than a tiger, the people will be planted in deep water, and finally only fall into the country's collapse of the end of the body.
5, the family's tedious let my character is always difficult for others to read my own, and there will be no one really understand myself. I am very confused, I do not know how this will go on. I'm used to myself, used to numbness, used to degradation, used to self-indulgence, used to a lonely life.
6, living in reality, I should have learned the reality, reality is not going to change everything, in fact, is to change the reality together. When one day, I can no longer remember the pain of lovesickness, I no longer expect myself to be happy, but also do not live up to a life of living.
7, life is like a novel that can not turn over the ending, the next moment, never know what will happen.
8, happy people are flesh and blood, love and justice. You can live in a snail's pace and eat a nest, but you will never harbor a fire. He should be a simple-minded, simple life. The unfortunate man who supports himself with a high shelf of desires and extravagance will die of exhaustion on the half-shelf. Guard the poverty, guard the simplicity, you can guard the joy, happiness can not block.
9, often chanting wisps of dust heart thin, look at the broken sky geese word cold, there is no kind of thoughts in the world can not hurt feelings? In this life, whether we will encounter a roundabout hijacking, a moment of gaze, an attachment, a fate encounter, from a certain moment of moving to open the incision, the heart of the equipment simply do not break, with the way of thoughts cutting themselves, can only fall a sadness, in the quiet of the silent dissipation.
10, what is the highest state of love? Not what you die, is habit. A woman accustomed to a man's snoring, from adaptation to habit, and then not his snoring can not sleep, this is love; a man accustomed to a woman's capriciousness and pampering, and even irrationality, this is love; a person will be another person to change, to accommodate, this is love. For lovers, how much tolerance, how much love.
11, feelings is a questionnaire without an answer, the bitter pursuit does not make life more complete, perhaps leaving a little regret, with a lingering love, with a touch of sadness, will make this answer more timeless, but also more long-lasting.
A short mood to say feeling life inspirational You will never know how strong you really are
1. Dignity this kind of thing, you have to have the strength to defend, otherwise, it is a dead face to live with the crime.
2. Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stops on the road, it is difficult for anyone to accompany the end of the journey.
3. The more I grow up, the more I feel than to tell my grievances and discontent, silence is the best.
4. Sometimes alienation is not hate, but too much like and helpless, I do not want to hold expectations waiting for the fall, had to pretend to be generous to go first.
5. Life is not your mom, it will not spoil you, how to cry, dry your tears stand up and continue to run.
6. Bad luck is not terrible, terrible is that you still believe in this sentence.
7. You will never know how strong you are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.
8. When you are in constant trouble, it means you need to go out and see the world. Look at different landscapes, contact with different people and things, you know, your worries are you think too much.
9. The heart is small, all the small things are big; the heart is big, all the big things are small; look down on the vicissitudes of the world, the heart is safe and sound.
10. Don't argue with important people about unimportant things.
11. When you put the most difficult to get through those things, probably you will become another person.
12. If someone is affecting your emotions, your focus should be on controlling your own emotions, not on the person who is affecting your emotions.
13. Before can not sleep is simply sleep more, now can not sleep because of the environment, because of people, because of things, because of trouble.
14. Fear of what will come to mind, believe what will be heard, let us fear, not the outside world, but our hearts.
15. Don't become a supporting role because of the twists and turns of life, and don't become an audience because of the ups and downs of the story.
16. If really bitter, you have time to shout tired. If the real miserable, you have time to feel ashamed. Because the bear is not enough, so you have time to complain. There is always too much helplessness and regret, because this is life.
17. You are not in a good mood to come back to me, I buy cigarettes, wine I out, I find places, you remember to come back to me.
18. People ah, is nothing to want to have what, what do not cherish what, lose what to understand what, understand what can not be retrieved what.
19. It is not that someone makes me worry, but I take someone's words and behavior to worry about themselves.
20. It's okay, everyone will probably experience some emotional collapse or extreme moments, will be good, will get through.
21. In all the relationships you want to cherish, it's good to have a clear conscience.
22. There is no need to take it seriously, in addition to marrying you, say like you and miss you are false.
23. hard mouth in the end what is the concept of it, probably you say you want to go, in fact, my tears are going to fall down, but still say hurry up and roll it.
24. Don't take yourself too seriously, in fact, many people don't need you.
25. I'm afraid of this day after day of companionship, full of wholeheartedly pay, or will lose to a thing called freshness, you say ridiculous not laughable.
26. Sometimes your forgiveness and tolerance, but the other side of the reason for repeated indulgence.
27. When you need me, I am. I can't find you when I need you. Maybe what I want, what you give, are not the same.
28. Any one thing, as long as the heart is willing, always can become simple.
29. The flowers on the balcony withered, go to the nearby hill to pick some more beautiful. Frequently go to the theater does not operate, go home and nestled in the sofa to watch the favorite old movies. If the person who has always been around you has left, you should leave the past behind and study and work hard to earn a good living. Let yourself happy in millions of ways, why dying in the old memories refused to put, people will grow, once regarded as precious things will slowly become careless, just like you, nothing is missing you can not.
30. Often caution themselves not to hang on to a tree, as a result, lost in the woods.
31. I never hold a grudge, usually have a grudge on the spot I reported.
32. I wanted to give the world a warm embrace, but ushered in all sides of the unexpected slap.
33. Life is so long, but also only in the mouth of others in the story of a.
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34. Life's most regrettable, no more than, easily give up should not give up, stubbornly adhere to the should not adhere to.
35. Don't tell others that you have had a hard time today, and don't say anything to others, because it's useless to say.
36. Life is like riding a bicycle, only to keep moving forward, in order to maintain balance.
37. Two people because happy together called like, if not happy still want to be together is love.
38. Politeness and education is not just a dry and thin polite, and push themselves to others thoughtful and understanding. This test is not only emotional intelligence, and your kindness.
39. The world is so imperfect, you want to get something will have to lose something.
40. People always cherish the unobtainable, and forget what they have.
The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I can do this, but I'm not sure if I can do it. But in a particularly relaxed environment, and can not really feel the beauty of life and the value of life, just as many people work because of the busy and tired, always thinking of early retirement, you can take a good rest. But when they retire, they don't spend a lot of free time, and often want to find something to do.
In fact, many of the people who are particularly idle after retirement do not feel the ease and joy of life. In fact, nothing can be taken to extremes. Excessive busyness and fatigue can make a person's body and mind fail; excessive leisure and relaxation can also make a person's body and mind decline.
After retirement, when we feel that there is nothing to do, it is also the beginning of our aging. Because a person is like a non-stop running machine, normal operation, it will be very flexible, very balanced, but if you let it stop, or even a long time of idleness, it will rust, and even can no longer start.
Middle-aged and elderly people should pay special attention to: work can be retired, but life can not be retired, and should find more suitable for their own way of life, to enjoy the best time of life. Retirement life is really their own, the middle-aged and elderly people should actively find their new position, to start a new life journey. As long as the middle-aged and elderly people themselves do not stop the wonderful journey of life, then they will never feel that life stops.
Another spring to play a role
Retirement is the second spring of life, which is also the old steed in the stable, a spring to play a role. Retirement does not mean that the glory of life is gone. Many old people are using their own words and deeds to the sunset is infinitely good, dusk is more beautiful to do the best interpretation. Cao Cao given by the old steed in the stable still aspires to thousands of miles, the martyr in his twilight years, the heart of the strong, can be called China's ancient history of the old and strong a model. Many retired elderly people in the body allows, give full play to their strengths, once again into the social work, not only the old, enrich their retirement life, but also serve the country.
In the knowledge-based economy and the concept of knowledge-based home today, the world's top 500 companies are very focused on hiring a variety of expertise in the middle-aged and elderly. In China, middle-aged and elderly talent has attracted widespread attention, and the market for middle-aged and elderly talent is booming. The role played by the elderly in society, Gorky once said: the death of a middle-aged and elderly people, equal to the collapse of an expo library.
Ancient Roman writer Cicero in his masterpiece ((on the middle-aged and elderly) in the list of the four major causes of unhappiness of the elderly, the first is the middle-aged and elderly people to withdraw from the cause of his long-term engagement. Once quit their long-term career, the heart will be a huge sense of loss, thus destroying their own vitality. Therefore, the middle-aged and the elderly can give play to their spare time according to their own conditions.
If you're a wordsmith, you can still bring up your pen; if you're an agricultural researcher, you can still deal with plant-related things; if you're a doctor, you can also study medicine and save lives.
In a sense, after retirement, your career world will be broader, and life will not come to an end.
After retirement
Walking in the streets and alleys near the market, you can often see an old man riding a tricycle to collect rags, the old man was the deputy director of the Dalian Building Materials Factory, retired after the feeling of idleness, would like to do something to let everyone get the benefit of the matter. His house is very close to the market, so he took the initiative to come to the warehouse rented by the tenants of the market and cleaned it for free. The big food market to give him wages, but he did not want, the security guards will pack out the paper shells, scrap iron and other rags to him, so that he can go to sell some money. Since then, his rag collection career began. His reputation is good, people also have the ability to gradually, collect rags business is doing better and better, and became a community in the famous king of the rags.
Many people met him and asked the same question: from a business leader to now collect rags, don't you think it's worth it? He smiled and replied: At the beginning, I really can not wear face, once in the collection of rags, just saw a former worker, he asked me what I was doing, I was red, afraid of being looked down upon by others. Now I want to understand, no matter what work, as long as the people are good, as long as they are happy on the line.
The stage is in your own heart
Use your own script to perform on the stage
Society is a big stage, everyone is an actor on the stage, and the actors will not just play a role in their lives, how to play each role successfully, mainly depends on the actors for the role of the correct understanding of the change and accurate grasp. Retirement is an important turning point in life, a major life event that everyone faces today or tomorrow.
In the post-retirement stage, middle-aged and elderly people may often feel that society assigns them a role with no script or lines, and what to say on stage and how to perform, all rely on their own self-editing and self-guidance, and whether they are directing the tragedy or comedy of life in fact, it is all up to us to choose.
When other old people in the park to walk, chat and play cards, Quanzhou City, Fujian Province, there is a more than 70-year-old teacher Lin holding the hand of the pen, began to write a word by word to act out the script of the stage of life.
In 1998, after retiring, Mr. Lin's family moved from Zhangzhou, Fujian Province to Quanzhou. In the new environment, Mr. Lin found that the old people around him hardly had any recreational activities, and the most they did was to play mahjong together. Mr. Lin loved to read books and newspapers, so he had an idea: to write a magazine for the elderly, a magazine for the middle-aged and the elderly that is both entertaining and practical.
So from 1999, he began to subscribe to newspapers and magazines such as the Straits Metropolis Daily and Quanzhou Evening News, and excerpted useful information.
In 2002, Mr. Lin systematically organized the materials he had accumulated over the years, updated some outdated information, and abbreviated the original longer information.
Now, Mr. Lin has organized more than 300 pieces of information with more than 600,000 words, covering a wide range of topics such as demographics, economy, living standards, science and technology, knowledge of life, and health care.
On a stage where there is also no life script, why are some actors good and some mediocre? The key lies in the fact that good actors have their own life goals and are constantly and actively practicing them, so only those who have no life goals do not know where their future lies.
Middle-aged and elderly people should have their own ideals and ambitions, hobbies and pursuits after retirement. Because a person with spiritual pursuit can truly enjoy the happiness and joy of life.
In the post-retirement stage, the middle-aged and elderly people may wish to reposition themselves, find a suitable role for themselves, to play their potential, to complete a high level, high quality, win the crowd's favor of a good show.
Find their role
Sun and moon like a shuttle, time like an arrow, whether you like it or not, retirement is the way to go.
Nowadays, the middle-aged and the elderly have long ceased to be satisfied with the merits, food and clothing, but the obsessive pursuit of retirement, old age. So how to actively find a new position in life after retirement, so that the sunset red through the late life?
1. values to be re-established
A person's life is a series of decisions interwoven into the process, the key lies in how to choose. When faced with many things, goals and actions to choose, often face a dilemma, choice and decision depends entirely on personal values. Therefore, in order to arrange a good post-retirement life, the first thing to re-establish their values, because values affect behavior, due to changes in social roles, the value orientation of the elderly after retirement will also change.
2. Accurately assess yourself
You can accurately assess yourself according to your personal physical condition, thinking ability, mental state, and so on, and reasonably position yourself to have some struggles, but never try to be strong.
3. Maintain a childlike mind
With a childlike mind, you will be smiling and happy, and then prompted the central nervous system in a good state, the body's biological clock to normal operation, to promote the secretion of the endocrine system and the regulation, to avoid mental tension, anxiety brought about by the adverse stimuli, but also to enhance the body's ability to resist disease.
4. Determine their own role
Some elderly people believe that they have been busy all their lives, it is difficult to raise their children to adulthood, career success, so you can unload the heavy burden, idle at home; some of the elderly think that when they are young, in order to work for the family and the work, hard to work, busy all day long for other people, as for their own interests, preferences, had to be put to one side, the choice of the retired to develop their own hobby, to meet the needs of the elderly and the elderly. After retirement, they choose to develop their hobbies as they wish, to satisfy themselves and realize themselves; some elderly people are full of energy and have a skill, so they do not stay at home, but return to the community, seek new positions, and give full play to their old age; some elderly people have a strong desire for knowledge, and enter the University of the Elderly and the Chinese University of the Elderly to continue to recharge their batteries after retirement. At present, the society has also appeared in the retirement work agency, the elderly can make full use of, from which to find suitable for their own work.
Tang poetry enriches life
Mr. Zhang took care of his granddaughter after retirement. Taking care of her granddaughter is both a labor of love and a pleasure. The grandchildren talk and laugh, and every day after nap time is the time for the grandchildren to visit the bookstore. In order to cultivate the child's interest in reading, Ms. Zhang specially applied for a library card, and at first, she mainly borrowed some colorful and fresh reading materials such as "The Blue Cat's Three Thousand Questions about Naughty", "Wanderings of Sanmao", "Bedtime Stories" and other children's books, and then she bought back a few Tang poems to teach her granddaughter to learn how to memorize them. Learning to memorize, unknowingly, Ms. Zhang has developed a strong interest in Tang poetry. After memorizing the Tang poems at home, she went to the bookstore to copy different versions of popular Tang poems that were easy to learn and memorize.
Sometimes when she walks under the shade of the roadside, sometimes when she goes to the park to see the flowers, and sometimes when she walks along the river, she will recite a few Tang poems out loud, which not only makes her sing, but also deepens her impression of the Tang poems, and sometimes she also holds poetry contests at home, and competes with her partner to write poems, not to publish, but to practice her brain, and also to make the retirement life in her old age more colorful and colorful. The company's website has been updated with the latest information about the company's website, and the company's website has been updated with the latest information about the company's website and the company's website.
The staff asked the old man, "Do you want to enroll your child?
The old man replied: No, I want to learn by myself!
The staff was curious to ask: How old are you today?
The old man smiled and said: 781
The staff said: you are so old, if you want to master English, I am afraid it will take three years.
The old man said seriously: do you think if I don't learn, I will be 75 years old in three years?
After retirement, some people always think of learning something and doing something, but they always think it is too late and they don't have time, so they give up their ideas. In fact, learning is a person's life's work. As the saying goes, everything is difficult at the beginning, and when you really take the first step, everything will fall into place.
Reading can increase knowledge, cultivate temperament, and find spiritual support. Read a good book, you can appreciate the deep meaning of the book, it is wonderful. Reading can cause the mind **** Ming, is a three-dimensional sound and feelings of aesthetic enjoyment.
The Ming Dynasty genius Yuan Hongdao said, the human condition must be sent, and then be able to enjoy, so some people to game as a send, some people to technology as a send, some people to text as a send. This is by personal preferences and conditions. Cultural activities such as reading, writing, painting, fishing, dancing and music, planting flowers, raising birds and other cultural activities are valued life, make a difference in hobbies and interests, from different perspectives reflect the value of life, so that the middle-aged and elderly people live a more fulfilling and more beautiful.
Life can be more beautiful
Some of the middle-aged and elderly people after retirement always shut themselves at home, in fact, the middle-aged and elderly people can try to contact with people of similar age, will find that communication with others is a very pleasant thing. In fact, out of their own to themselves around the circle is not difficult, as long as the following three aspects to do, middle-aged and elderly people will soon have a lot of friends, will be the interpretation of the elderly life more beautiful.
First, to do something. There are many forms and contents of the old to do something, can be different from person to person.
The old farmers can develop the courtyard economy, cultivate forests; old workers to teach technology, can be for the establishment of township enterprises; the old experts with their strengths to accept the rehiring is a kind of as; the old plant manager, manager to play the role of business leaders of the staff, consultants is a kind of as; retired scholars writing books is a kind of as; the middle-aged and old people in charge of the household for their children and grandchildren to support their children in their respective positions to struggle, is also a meaningful behavior. The first is a meaningful behavior.
Secondly, learning is the ivy that enriches the life of the elderly. Old and good learning, will make the middle-aged and the elderly heart bright, open the door to loneliness, so that the spirit can pass to the community, to the world. Reading books and newspapers at home, watching TV, listening to the radio, browsing various news and information on the Internet is a common way of learning. It can open the window to the society, enable people to travel the world without going out of the house, know all kinds of changes and assertions in history and society, and observe the rapid changes in modern politics, economy, science and culture every day. Going to a school for the middle-aged and the elderly is a very good way of learning.
Also, joy is a new song that stirs the hearts of the middle-aged and the elderly. Middle-aged and elderly people for career, family struggle for a lifetime, often busy with labor, work, and little time to learn the way of joy. When people get old, they should open up the source of joy. As the saying goes: smile, ten years less. Life is movement, not only to have sports on the movement, but also to make the spirit of the movement of joy. Old and happy, in order to make the life of the middle-aged and old people have value. There are many ways to have fun in old age. Nowadays, there are many activity rooms and activity stations for the elderly in the community, which are good places for the elderly to learn and have fun, and can help them break the loneliness of their lives and make them younger at heart.