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In "Seeds of Love", Huizai and I fell in love, and they stayed together for a long time before they finally came together. First, Ann's parents don't agree with them. Her mother said that Huizai's mother didn't like cleanliness, and the house was dirty, while An Tiansheng's cleanliness addiction liked to keep the house in order. Based on this, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will definitely be tense in the future. One loves cleanliness and the other is sloppy, so they are not the same person.
Later, Huizai's family disagreed with their relationship because An An was admitted to a college. Huizai is a book, right? They say that colleges and universities are rubbish schools and are not worthy of his son.
In this way, the two people lost contact and thought that the end of fate had come to an end, but who knows that a few years later, Huizai contacted An An again. One was unmarried and the other was single, so they came together again. Huizai was in Fujian and An 'an was in Guangdong. After they got in touch, Huizai came to Guangdong. A year later, they got married. Before getting married, Ann finally knew that everything her mother said was right. In the days before the wedding, Ann went to Lacrimosa every day and even thought about running away from her marriage. They had a lot of quarrels just to buy gold and silver jewelry for their wedding. Huizai's parents are so frugal that they don't even want to spend a penny more on their son's marriage. Ann's family is also very open-minded. They don't want a bride price, but they want to buy something decent for my daughter. Huizai's family disagreed and told others that Ann's mother was not good. The old couple are old, but their brains are still bright. Before the wedding, they scrambled to get a marriage certificate. If you get a marriage certificate, you are one of our own, and you are afraid that others will not leave. I won't spend any more money anyway.
I regretted it in peacetime. I didn't listen to the old man and suffered. This hasn't entered their house yet. In this way, I had a wedding. How will I live in the future?
They have been separated from the old man since they got married. Anyway, the young couple are also working outside all the year round, and they will go back for the Chinese New Year at most.
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After the marriage, the old couple began to urge Ansheng to have a child. All kinds of urging have no effect. Let relatives at home rush her. Ann is always indifferent because I don't know how long this wedding reception will last. Even if a child is born, who will bring it, the mother-in-law will definitely not be able to bring it. At that time, it will make trouble and make others laugh.
But for a woman, the best time is only a few years. Seeing that Ann will be 30 years old, she will become an older woman in a few years. Over the years, I have been wandering outside, with no house, no car and no savings. I have been tired of this hard life in recent years, and because I am married and have no children, I am too old to find a job. So the young couple discussed that it was time to have a baby.
Ann is very strong. She has been working hard. From pregnancy to delivery, even if it rains heavily, An An has never taken a day off.
Huizai is a busy salesman. She travels for nearly 28 days, 30 days a month.
So Ann always takes care of herself after pregnancy. She gets up at 5 am to make breakfast and lunch, then goes to work by bus after breakfast and goes to work at 9 am. If she is late, her salary will be deducted, so she has to get up early.
There are many meetings in private enterprises, sometimes from 9: 00 to 10. Ann is hungry, dragging her tired body, and has to cook when she gets home.
There was no early pregnancy reaction in the first three months, and Ann proudly told her mother that it would be good if there was no reaction. But in the fourth month, the reaction came, and sometimes I couldn't wait to spit out the bitter water.
But even though she worked so hard, Ann never had negative emotions, because she knew that her bad emotions would have an impact on pregnant children.
From pregnancy to now, Ann has gone for prenatal examination alone. Whenever I see other pregnant women have husbands or family members to accompany me to do prenatal check-ups, Ann is a little lost, but she is not so melodramatic. In this way, it's almost seven months, and my stomach is getting bigger every day. The weather in the south is getting hotter and hotter. Ann is afraid of heat and has a big belly. This is really painful. Plus Huizai is away for a long time, and a pregnant woman takes care of herself. If anything happens, it will be bad. Ann's mother is in poor health and needs to take care of her nephew, so she can't leave at all. So in desperation, I had to ask my mother-in-law to come and take care of Ann. If I had known what would happen later, Ann would have been more willing to take care of herself, or if she really couldn't, it would be better to find an aunt to take care of her than her mother-in-law.
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My mother-in-law and father-in-law came to Guangdong to take care of Ann. Why did they let her father-in-law come with them? Because my family knows that my mother-in-law is difficult to get along with, eccentric, with a broken mouth and doesn't like cleanliness. Huizai is not at home, my father-in-law is here, and there is one more person. If there is any contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it will be fine to mediate.
Many things, without personal experience, will not know the deep feelings.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are much more difficult to get along with than expected, and we must strive for everything. Father-in-law and mother-in-law sing the same play. Only a few days later, Ann felt that life was very sad. She was supposed to help take care of herself, but she became very anxious.
When my mother-in-law cooks, there are often bugs in the dishes, or the dishes are not cleaned and hairy. After washing vegetables, you should wash your chopsticks with water. This chopstick is used for eating immediately. Never wipe the table after dinner, but mop the floor with fish washing water. I don't flush in the toilet. I asked why not, saying it was to save water.
My father-in-law is also a virtue. He watches TV with his mobile phone all day long, and doesn't sleep after 1 1 at night. His voice is on outside, which is very noisy. Let me wear earplugs and say that wearing ears is uncomfortable.
Ann was almost on the verge of collapse and complained to Huizai. Huizai told his mother to clean up, and his mother cried. She said something hard and cried.
Ann can't stand it. She said let them go home. I can look after myself. Huizai was stubborn and saidno. I wasn't at home. They all went back. I don't trust you alone.
The accumulation of the body and the troubles in the heart are intertwined, which makes An An physically and mentally exhausted.
In-laws still go their own way. A big bucket of children's clothes just washed by the washing machine, Ann said, was taken to the roof to dry and soon dried. Mother-in-law immediately said, you come, you carry, it's too heavy for me to carry. With tears in her eyes, Ann lifted a bucket of clothes to the roof to dry.
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In a blink of an eye, the Dragon Boat Festival arrived, and I had three days off. Ann is resting at home, and Huizai is back. Ann wants to eat zongzi, and Huizai bought ingredients to wrap zongzi. Speaking of making zongzi, Ann really can't. With such a big belly, she is going to have a baby. Her caring mother-in-law won't let Ann do it, but this mother-in-law won't. She said that she had suffered a lot during that time, and now it tickles to see Ann's life getting better.
Mother-in-law was very angry, saying that Ann made a table of glutinous rice instead of dumplings. Ann jokingly said, mom, it's because I don't have a schoolbag. Do you have any opinions? My mother-in-law said angrily, someone will always do it and someone will always finish it! This sentence almost pissed Ann off. On the other hand, Hui Zai, yes, is Ann's husband, and there is no response.
Man, if you can't shelter a woman from the wind and rain, what can he do?
The due date is June 8, but there is still no movement on this day. However, the fetal heart rate is abnormal. After repeated fetal heart monitoring, it was still abnormal, and the doctor immediately issued a notice of hospitalization. Ann went to the hospital alone, not knowing that the situation would be so serious. Seeing the notice of hospitalization issued by the doctor, he cried and called Xiao Hui: "The doctor said that the situation is very eye-catching. If you want to be hospitalized quickly, you may have to have a caesarean section." In the afternoon, Huizai hurried back from other places and went through the hospitalization procedure. When monitoring the fetal heart before caesarean section, he found that the fetal heart was normal, and several inspections were normal. The doctor said nothing. Go home first. If anything happens, come to the hospital immediately.
I thought I would be hospitalized today, but now it is a good thing to travel home for a long time. After all, nothing is ready today.
Climb the stairs desperately when I get home, trying to give birth naturally. I heard that it doesn't hurt so much if the stairs are about to open.
Three days after the due date, one night, just after Ann came down, she felt a warm current coming out and wet her pajamas. An An wakes Huizi aside: The amniotic fluid is broken and it's going to be born!
Huizai woke up her mother-in-law, picked up her bag, helped Ann and walked down the stairs. I haven't been here for a long time, so I have to find a bus stop outside the village to take a taxi. It takes 20 minutes to walk there, and I walk slowly and calmly. Luckily, I got on a taxi at the bus stop soon. When I got to the hospital, I registered and slept in peace. It's already past 2 am. There are so many people in the hospital that there are no beds, so we have to live in the corridor. There is no air conditioning in the corridor, only two fans are squeaking, and the wind is very light. An An is covered in sweat. Huizai found a hospital publicity page to show Fan An 'an. My mother-in-law is still sitting on one side. Ann asked Huizai to find an empty bed for her mother-in-law.
The contractions started at 3 am, which were not so obvious at first. The doctor asked if it was painless. Ann said don't fight. Listen, it's not good for children, and there will be sequelae. Later, the contractions were obvious, and Ann felt very uncomfortable. The doctor checked it and asked if it was painless. Ann said she would fight. But the anesthesiologist is off duty and can't make a phone call until he goes to work at seven in the morning. In this way, Ann groaned in pain in her hospital bed. A few times during the period, An An was in pain and a little crazy. She wanted to swear, but she held back. Later, if she swore at this time, would Huizi and her mother-in-law just leave her in the hospital?
Finally, at 7 o'clock, Ann's life-saving straw came, but the doctor had to hold an early meeting to make rounds until 9 o'clock.
An An almost cried, which attracted other accompanying people to watch.
Finally, the pain stopped, but it still hurts after playing. The doctor said the anesthetic didn't take effect so quickly. In the intensive care unit, An An had to pull out the fetal heart several times in pain, which was already very painful. Seeing her hungry with such a belt tied to her body is even more distraught.
The nurse said, miss, you came to have a baby, not to enjoy it. Please bear it!
Then the anesthetic finally worked, and it didn't hurt so much. After a sleep in peace, she was awakened by the doctor in her sleep, and the palace mouth was fully open. Go to the delivery room I thought it would be easy to have a baby under anesthesia. There is another episode.
I have been in the delivery room for 4 hours, but I haven't given birth yet. The fetal heart rate is very low, below 80. The doctor said that the situation was very serious. Huizai signed the notice in a hurry, and many doctors rushed in at once. In a panic, a doctor said to Ann: Don't be afraid, we are all here to save you and the children. I don't know what the result will be, but giving birth to a child is a dead end for a woman, and Ann knows it. Finally, the delivery was smooth, and it was a girl. The doctor said half jokingly, you really should thank us. We saved your mother and daughter today.
After four days in the hospital, I was discharged. In fact, if the child's jaundice is high, Ann really doesn't want to stay here. She eats two meals a day and sometimes something cold. Go home and have at least a hot meal.
The wound hurts. Ann has been lying down except for eating. Sometimes Huizai will take her children out to bask in the sun. Neonatal jaundice needs more sunshine. Mother-in-law has a big opinion, saying that if she doesn't go in peace, Huizai will stand on her side and say that she is in peace.
In fact, when a girl is born, her parents-in-law are naturally unhappy. At the moment she left the delivery room, her father-in-law called to ask about the boy and girl she gave birth to. Huizai said she was a girl, and her father-in-law hung up. My mother-in-law called her relatives at home and said that many children were born in the hospital that night, all boys, only the girl she gave birth to.
Ann was very uncomfortable when she heard this, but if she didn't cry, it would be troublesome to cry again in the next month.
5/7
All contradictions and dissatisfaction are brewing step by step, just waiting for the fuse to light.
On June 28th, 18 gave birth to a baby, and he was still very weak. I don't know why his buttocks hurt after giving birth and he couldn't sit down. In addition, the child refused to breastfeed himself, and every time he was safely sent out and fed with a bottle. I have to get up many times a night, milking and warming my milk, which makes me feel uncomfortable and naturally makes me feel bad.
At this time, my mother called and asked how Ann was recently. Ann said, while complaining a few words. My mother-in-law immediately came to grab the phone and said that Ann was not careful enough, not careful enough and lazy.
Hanging up the phone, I rushed to Ann's room and said, "I'm still stuck in a garbage university with my son! Huizai is also a fool. At that time, Miss Guang and he had to find such people. Bad luck! I am only related to you, and my son is my relative. " After hearing this, I looked at the floor for a long time and really wanted to drop the child. Finally, I calmed down and answered: Don't worry! Go as far as you can! As soon as this sentence came out, my mother-in-law did not hesitate. It happened that Hui Zi went out and came back at this time. When the mother-in-law saw her son come back, she immediately complained in front of him, saying that Ann had scolded her, while crying. Huizai didn't find the reason, so she rushed to Ann and slapped her. Fortunately, Ann wore glasses, blocked them and knocked them off, but they didn't hit her face. The hypocritical mother-in-law came to stop the fight. Keiko patted Ann on the back, holding the child in her arms. The child's waist was bent, but the man in front refused to stop, grabbed Ann's hair and asked, Did you scold my mother? Huizai also wants to fight An 'an. Ann didn't want to take care of Huizai, so she took out the milking machine to milk. Huizai took Ann's milking machine and fell to the ground. Ann caught fire and didn't start it, so she put the charger of the milking machine on the table to heat it. Huizai tried to beat Ann, but her mother-in-law took it away.
Later, my mother-in-law kept crying, and most of the building was crying. The landlord asked the assistant to come up and watch it several times. If there was no murder, they wouldn't care.
Mother-in-law said she would go, and she would go with Huizai the next day, and the children would also be taken away. Even the children's clothes and milk powder are packed. Ann called her mother in tears and said that if they took the child away, I would kill myself. In this life, I have lived too hard. The mother on the other end of the phone said eagerly, don't do anything stupid. Let's buy a plane ticket right away!
Mother-in-law, I insist on an's apology, saying that I have hurt her, and I want to bow my head in peace. An An said that I was still in the second month, so I couldn't bow down. Let me make amends by pouring you a cup of tea.
My mother-in-law said I wouldn't drink your tea, so I did as my son said, and her son said exactly the same thing: kowtow to my mother and apologize!
To tell the truth, at this point, life can't go on, but for the sake of children, An An is still persuading himself to be patient.
Just as she was about to kowtow and kneel, Huizi took a video with her mobile phone, ready to shoot a video of Ann kneeling and kowtowing. My brother's phone is calling. My brother said not to kowtow and kneel. This is your dignity! The mobile phone was taken away by her mother-in-law, and Ann was not allowed to contact her family.
Busy for a long time, very tired, but also in the middle of the month, the body is already very weak.
Ann has a backache lying in bed, and it is difficult to turn over. Her mother-in-law came to Ann's room. Ann still said normally, Mom, I'm cold. Please give me the air conditioner remote control and I'll turn up the temperature. Mother-in-law said maliciously: you are cold, I am not cold!
Later, it was time to give the child a bath. Ann asked her mother-in-law to get some warm water. As a result, my mother-in-law brought a basin of cold water. She also gave birth to a child, knowing that she could touch cold water if she was not hungry the next month.
Ann crustily skin of head, wiped the child, freshened up a little, and got ready for bed. This day is really tiring. Plus, after sitting for 18 days, I didn't get any mud, but it was light. I can't keep up with my energy.
However, after lying down, I couldn't sleep at all Look at wechat, a lot of information, sent by colleagues, to pay attention to my health in the next month, and also sent some recipes. My mother-in-law came to grab the mobile phone again, but Ann didn't give it to her, saying that I was dealing with my work and I didn't go to work. Do you want to drink northwest wind? How does your son live with thousands of dollars a month? As soon as my mother-in-law heard this, she retired.
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This night is really long, as if it had been centuries. The husband I chose refused to listen to my parents and insisted on marrying him. As a result, my heart was torn to pieces.
In the early morning, Huizai will go on a business trip with her luggage, and she is also going to take the children away. And threatened Ann that I would take the child away if you didn't kowtow to my mother. Ann is combing her hair. In fact, she doesn't want to care about Huizai at all. Take it if you want. Let your wife, 18 the woman who just gave birth, kowtow and kneel to your mother. I guess only a man like you and a bean dregs family can do it.
But the mother-in-law on the other side is in the way, and she doesn't kneel or kowtow, so she says she will live like this in the future. Let's go Ann didn't want to say it at first, but in the end she said it bluntly, and she should live a good life in the future. When she said these words, Ann's heart was shaking, and she lived well, hum!
My brother sent Ann a message saying that my sister had come to take Ann home. Ann finally feels better, and her family is here. Let's see if this evil mother-in-law dares to be arrogant.
To tell the truth, whose daughter has suffered so much injustice, she will not give up. Her family does, but it's not empty.
My brother has a large group of friends doing business in Guangdong. I heard that my sister came to Guangdong, picked her up for dinner and sent her to a safe place to live. My mother-in-law was fierce before, and her legs trembled with fear when she saw a large group of people rushing in. My attitude changed immediately, telling my sister that they didn't bully me, but I was unreasonable. My sister is very angry.
My sister and Ann spent a day in Guangdong. After the others left, her mother-in-law showed her true colors again. Eight out of ten sentences say that Ann is not good. Hypocrisy is still her background color. When cooking, she specially asked Ann whether she ate dry rice or porridge. I guess I gave Ann a big bowl of rice when I was eating, but Ann said she couldn't eat that much. My mother-in-law said I gave it to you, but you didn't eat it.
On the third day, my sister was going back, and Ann was afraid. After my sister left, it was another painful day for Ann.
Sure enough, my sister was still brushing her teeth in the morning, and my mother-in-law quarreled with Ann again, saying that she had called so many people to kill her son, but fortunately her son was not here. AnAn was anxious and replied: Did you fight? You did this to me, and my mother's family didn't touch you when she came! I can't live like this anymore. Ann packed her things and left with her sister. I didn't ask for anything else (and I didn't have many decent clothes, all of which were bought cheaply on Taobao and didn't take shape after washing several times), so I took important documents.
When An An left, the child was still sleeping, and changed a diaper for the child (in other words, this diaper was brought back from Hong Kong by Anto, and An An went to his colleague's house to get it back. Pregnant women who are pregnant for 7 or 8 months are carrying 4 packs of Kao diapers. People who don't know the truth think that Ann has no men. Mother-in-law's scolding didn't weaken, so she took a stool and sat at the door of Ann's room and scolded: You said you would starve to death. Who finished such a big bowl of rice yesterday? . . . .
Ann and her sister went downstairs, and her mother-in-law rushed out to scold and rushed to the street to scold. Mom says this kind of life is really impossible. Give up, son, I wronged you.
My sister helps Ann with her backpack. In fact, my backpack contains not only important documents, but also children's clothes. I still have some illusions in my heart about whether they will send their children to Ann.
But it turns out that Ann thinks too much.
Ann and her sister stayed in a hotel in a village in the city for one night, and the early flight the next morning returned to Xi 'an.
Along the way, Ann's tears were dry and wet, wet and dry, and I don't know how many times she cried. I used to think that this man could give Ann happiness, but I didn't expect it to end like this.
I lived in Xi 'an's brother's house 1 for many months. Thinking about darkness during the day and thinking about darkness when it gets dark in the morning is so painful every day. At this time, I am still wishful thinking. Will they come to take Ann back? The children don't know what is happening now. When they wake up, they don't know if their mother will cry.
But in fact, on the day when Ann left, Huizai's sister sent a photo of her mother holding her child to her relatives, saying that their little baby could eat and sleep. I hear it's easy to take.
The implication is that you don't need your mother. Seeing this news, An An retired from the group.
There is a kind of pain called heartbroken. Ann really experienced it. Sometimes he really wanted to find an overpass to jump, but then he thought, at my brother's house, my brother took Ann away, so he died. Didn't that hurt my brother? So I gave up the idea.
My brother and sister, as well as my 5-year-old nephew, take good care of Ann and have a home. My sister has been protecting Ann for fear that she will be unhappy. Even if I go to the toilet for a long time, my sister will ask. I also have a cousin who sleeps together at night. My little nephew is also very good.
After the full moon, that man, Huizai, is still swearing. If you don't come back, we'll move out. At that time, you can't find us. They also said that An An was cruel to her mother, and they exchanged messages on WeChat. Finally, Ann hacked this man.
Later, my brother told An An that, in fact, on the first day after An An left, Huizai's father had been sending text messages to scold An An's family. These words are not like the virtues that a teacher should have at all. It is said that Ann uses too much water for bathing and takes a long time for bathing. Hum, under the sun, there are also fathers-in-law who take care of their daughters-in-law to take a bath. How ridiculous, they are not afraid of jokes when they say it, not to mention the short messages they send, which are recorded.
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After this painful day, Ann gradually saw everything. What do you need a man to do when you have a job and income? Besides, isn't it enough to be hurt by this man?
After the maternity leave, Ann went back to work in Guangdong and rented a house outside, away from all other thoughts. Life seems much simpler.
It's almost the end of the year, and Huizai is going to treat the children and collect money. As Huizai's mother said a long time ago, there is too much money and it has not been recovered. Please treat the child for 2 days after birth, and let relatives and friends follow 2 cents.
It's good to treat. My daughter-in-law hasn't come back for six months. I'm afraid outsiders will laugh when the mother is away. Hui Zai called Ann and told her to go back, saying that it was the children's treat. Ann said crossly, it's your treat. If I don't participate, I don't exist!
During the Spring Festival that year, An An went home for the New Year, which was the first time she went home for the New Year after she married Huizai. Huizai brought his parents and relatives to settle down and apologize, and let An An go back. But the old couple didn't mean to let Ann go back. If it weren't for treating children, they wouldn't apologize for their kindness at all.
For the sake of the children, Ann went back, stayed for one night, and left early the next morning. After all, treating guests is not flattering.
Ann has been working outside and doesn't often go back. Sometimes she buys some clothes for her children, who are always taken by the old couple.
Huizai's sister, a woman who is nearly 40 years old, has always been single, and everyone in the family says that this woman is afraid that she will never get married. Parents are confused, women don't like to dress up, they look sloppy and have a bad family style.
Later, I learned that this man even gave birth to an illegitimate child, but her man didn't know where it was. I heard that she went to the hospital alone when she gave birth, and the doctor dared not deliver the baby without the signature of her family. In desperation, I had to call my former college classmates (all in the same city now), and others came to sign, and the baby was born, a girl.
What a coincidence! Huizai's child was born in June 1 1 year, and his sister's child was born in July 1 year of the following year, just a difference of1year.
Later, this woman took care of the children alone. Now the child is 4 years old. She has never been home, nor has she contacted her family, and the father of the child doesn't know where it is.
A muddled family, it's really bad to do more, and it pays off. She is no exception.
Not long ago, Huizai's parents were urging Ann to have a second child and a son. An An said, I never want to talk about having children again in my life, never again. The first one almost killed him, and the fool will never be born again. If you want to have a baby, you can find someone else to have a baby or divorce. It doesn't matter to me. Anyway, I came back for my children. If you don't cherish it, I won't miss it.
People should accumulate virtue and do more good deeds all their lives. Once, Keiko's parents laughed at Ann's mother's poor health, diabetes and high blood pressure. But now, Huizai's father also has high blood pressure, his legs are lame and he walks badly.
Today, it has been five years since this incident. Every June, An An can't help but feel heartbroken. In fact, Ann has changed a lot in recent years. Read a lot of books, understand a lot of things, the whole person's state is much better, and the work is soaring. But some pains, like a broken mirror, rarely reunite. Even if they barely stick together, there will still be cracks.
An An said that it is of far-reaching significance to thank Huizi's family for attending this class. I want to forget, but I can't
If there is an afterlife, if you are still alone, you will not love any man any more, which is not worth it.
That's right. If a woman depends on herself for everything and a man brings her only pain, what should he do?
I cried, hurt, scolded and hit in my confinement. It is said that hatred in confinement is not * * *. I don't know if Ann will get sick after all this. If she knows, she should know. This is fate, destiny takes a hand, you can't hide it if you want.
Sometimes An An will think of Hui Zi who sent short messages to scold An An in those years: he died of depression and swallowed his anger. Ann smiled gently, and life was really great. Wenchuan earthquake, your world war, COVID-19 epidemic, he is alive. Is it true that life should not die?
Explanation: true story, but all the names in the text are pseudonyms.