First of all, whether it is a man or a woman, you must know that your woman doesn't fool herself, and there are always men who like to fool her; If your man doesn't like it himself, there are always women who want to like it. Look at the reality in life, many cheating couples just want to find someone to coax her or hug him. From this point of view, in marriage, men must know some tricks to coax women, and women must learn some ways to hold men. This is not hypocrisy, this is wisdom!
1, home is not a place to make sense: this sentence is a truth that my wife and I understand after quarreling for many years. It is impossible for husband and wife not to quarrel, but don't pester each other for a trivial matter, be sure to make it clear. Some things don't need to be clarified, but they won't be very good. At the same time, don't ask the other person to admit his mistake, even if the truth is on your side. Because there is no winner in the quarrel between husband and wife, there is no need to tell the winner. But turn a blind eye; Not only that, you also need to use your true feelings to maintain a real home.
2. Tell the truth: When men are socializing outside, they sometimes like to hide the truth and tell some lies to deal with their wives. In fact, as long as it doesn't involve work, there is no need to make up excuses such as "in a meeting" and "working overtime" to cheat your wife. Because it often takes ten sentences to cover up a lie, and mistakes are inevitable. How tired you are.
3. Smart "henpecked": There is nothing wrong with proper "henpecked" families, which often last for a long time. At the same time, such men often know that their wives have suffered a lot, so they are willing to be "henpecked". Many times, they refuse some unimportant parties, but go home from work to help their wives cook, stir-fry and wash dishes. Not only that, such men often don't haggle over every ounce.
4, do not blame the wife's embarrassment: women generally only love to talk, love to talk in front of the man they like. Maybe this man had a bad day at work, or just had a conflict with his colleagues, but at this time, his wife is like a tireless bird, chattering in front of you, making your mood even more irritable. But don't blame her too much, you just need to say to her: honey, I'm tired, let me have a rest alone.
5. Men should take the responsibility of supporting their families: Men bravely take the responsibility of supporting their families, no matter whether their wives are independent or innocent girls, even if their wives are working like you now and earn more or less every month, you should also regard yourself as the pillar of your family! Seeing his wife coming home tired of cooking, a man should say, "It's so hard, I'll support you!" " "Smart wife will also think of your hard work, get care and recognition, and work will be more motivated!
6, anniversary must remember: your wife's birthday, various festivals, anniversaries, you don't have to celebrate with great fanfare, but remember to give her a gift; You don't have to give her a gift, but invite her to have dinner with you. You don't invite her to dinner, but remember to bring her flowers; You don't think it's a waste to send flowers, so buy her some snacks she likes; You don't buy snacks, but remember to call and say hello. At worst, send her a meaningful message. Whether you forgot to send a message or not, wait for her to complain about you. 7. Be careful of his wife: In those days of her physiological cycle, a man must be careful, pay attention to his wife's diet, and make her some blood-enriching food appropriately, and she will feel very happy.
8, to know how to praise: a man must praise his wife, you can not praise his wife.
Who are you praising? Unless you're crazy
9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it: If a man fights because of a quarrel between husband and wife, he will be opposed by everyone.
Despise, in that case, your marriage will be in danger.
10, both sides make progress together: women should learn to enrich themselves and men must encourage them. This can be guaranteed for a long time.
There is a certain balance between the two, and the gap will not be too big. Can you imagine a graduate student living with someone who hasn't graduated from primary school?
In fact, women should be coaxed, not spoiled-this is the experience accumulated by men from long-term life!
Coaxing is not cheating, although coaxing and cheating are often linked, called coaxing. But there is a difference between coaxing and cheating.
If you read it carefully, I sincerely hope I can help you _