Second, exercise restraint, deal with it calmly, and choose to laugh it off after weighing the pros and cons. Zhao Benshan had a certain degree of fault in the female apprentice storm, but he was able to admit his fault in time and contact the female apprentice through his agent to solve the problem through consultation. It can be said that Zhao Benshan kept enough restraint and calmly handled the female apprentice storm. However, the female apprentice clung to this matter, insisting that Zhao Benshan had wronged herself for many years, hurt her family and broke up her marriage. Aren't female apprentices responsible for themselves? The female apprentice put on a rogue appearance in public. Zhao Benshan thinks this is absurd and irrational behavior. If Zhao Benshan handles this matter, it will make him angry and embarrass himself. Of course, he will laugh it off and ignore the female apprentice after weighing the pros and cons.
Third, this matter is insignificant compared with family happiness, and he will not lose big because of small things. Zhao Benshan can clearly realize that at this age, he should enjoy family happiness. Therefore, Zhao Benshan can eat with his wife and eat and drink with a smile when the female apprentice storm has not subsided. This is responsible for yourself and your family. Compared with their families and other more important occupations, female apprentices are insignificant. Zhao Benshan won't lose big because of small. He knows that the happiness of his hometown is the most important thing. The incident of female apprentice's storm is not a big deal, and she has not made any decisive mistakes, and she has no main responsibility for the storm. That's why Zhao Benshan didn't bother to pay attention to this female apprentice who made a fuss in public like a buffoon to make such a rogue move.
Zhao Benshan can put family first and ignore unnecessary disputes; Keep restraint and deal with it calmly, and you won't lose big because of small things. This is also the embodiment of his great wisdom and great mind.