Teach you a few tricks to tease girls
Teach you a few tricks to tease girls, is not very interested in it? In daily life, there are a lot of boys in the encounter of their favorite girls will always be at a loss, do not know how to chase girls. It does not matter, I teach you a few girl tricks, to ensure that you successfully chased the girl.
To teach you a few tricks to tease girls 1
1, the first move: to be a person who will ask questions
To chat well, the first thing to start from will ask questions.
The author first warns against asking questions directly, like interrogating a prisoner.
What kind of questions make people feel like they're being interrogated?
Closed questions!
What do you mean by closed questions?
It's like doing multiple choice or simple Q&A questions like how old are you, do you have a boyfriend, where do you work, how much do you pay a month, did you buy a house, do you have a car, etc.
The questions are not just questions, they are not just questions.
days **, finally know why the New Year home, do not like to chat with those nosy aunties, because they ask all these closed questions, very easy to let people have a sense of being interrogated, and people's innate reverse psychology will be in the heart of the middle finger: off you bird!
Aunties, in addition to working on the square dance, you must also improve on the chatting art ah, so that we can clearly know, the neighbor's girl in the outside world is not good, than their own family daughter is worse or worse.
So, ask the question, must be open-ended, what do you mean by open-ended?
That is, the person being asked can have a variety of ways to answer, there is a certain depth and thinking.
Now there is a popular saying, do not ask questions that can be answered by Baidu.
For example, what is the name of Cao Cao's grandfather? If you ask such a question, you will only make people feel that you are testing his knowledge of history.
This kind of thing, people have had enough of the nine-year compulsory torture, where there is still the mood to go to the torture chamber again.
If you ask, Cao Cao in the end is ** or loyal, this is open-ended, you take this question, to ask the Beijing cab driver, guaranteed to have a hundred wonderful answers.
So, being able to ask questions is a great skill for chatting. Professor suggested that it is best to design questions based on each other's experience, such as your opposite girl just came back from Hokkaido, you can ask, Hokkaido has what beautiful places, how to go and so on. After a good chat, the other person may invite you to her home to see photos, you know.
Finally, the author suggests, don't worry about what you're asking, make sure you look eager to get the answer. Also, don't ask condescending questions like, how have you been? Then the only answer you'll get will be, not bad, not bad at all. And don't ask too broad . Questions. For example, what do you think of China at the moment?
This kind of question, just think of the answer to think half a day, well, people want to think of three seconds to find that it is not good enough to answer, will immediately give up this copy, and you say goodbye.
So start with a simple question, do not ask too difficult to meet a girl, and immediately ask, are you willing to marry me, this is too difficult, people call the helpline are not necessarily give the answer. If you ask, do you want to drink a coffee together, it's much easier.
What is the most annoying question? It is to ask others with their own answers, for example, ask: It's good to eat shrimp today, what do you think?
The Lunar Reading Club is a good account, don't you think?
I go, you think it's good, and ask me? If I say it's not good, are you losing face? If I say it's good, does that make me a voice-over?
2, the second move: sincere praise
The elder Carnegie has long seen through the truth: we are born to love sweet words.
The author reiterates the importance of this again. The author analyzes that people have a **habit** of repeating behaviors that are encouraged.
I'm sure this one is felt by pro's as well, if they go home and tell mom that the braised fish was delicious today. It's done, and you're ready to eat at least four more meals of braised fish over the next week.
So, it's good to know that we're not just talking to people.
The author isn't so chicken-soup and simple. He provided a masterpiece, which is to show enthusiasm when the other party talks about positive energy, but when the other party talks about negative energy, show cold.
Over time, the other person will be encouraged to talk to you about happy things.
It's too important ah, who's not around one or two complaining about the party ah, the company live too tired, the community is too which so, friends are too dark, the prices have risen.
We know how to deal with it, when he talked about these, less involved. Try not to participate in the spit, although the spit will bring a moment of **** Ming, but over time, will certainly affect your pleasant chat.
So, praise is very important, here is a secret, criticize to be tactful, praise people to be direct, direct sentence, you are so beautiful today, it is better than 10,000 Tang poems, flinging ten miles of spring wind is not as good as you 10,000 Li Bai, well!
Of course, the authors also have some unique secrets to praise people, or the book will not sell well all over the world.
For example, when complimenting someone, add the person's name to make people feel that they are specifically complimenting him. For example, Tinsel, you are so beautiful today.
Some people, especially Chinese people, are very modest and always say, "What?
What to do? The author suggests adding a question after the compliment.
The author's suggestion is to add a question after the compliment.
For example, Tinseltown, you are so beautiful today, where did you find this Mongolian dress?
OK, people will not say where where, but to tell you where the skirt, and the heart is certainly cool, thinking about whether to put your pure friendship and then sublimated a bit.
Maybe some pro said, the other side is really a slag, there is no point to praise the place.
Teach you a few tricks of the trade One of the best things to do is to talk about the atmosphere What is the atmosphere of the talk? In fact, it is to grasp the sense of rhythm, create a good atmosphere, and improve her interaction with the topic. Here pay attention to three points. A. Boys must take the lead in the chat Boys and girls chat. Only if you lead the conversation and let the girls follow you, there will be a good chat atmosphere. Generally in the chat conversation, boys should lead 70% of the topic. Watch you chat. If you are always led by the nose by the girls, you can't get good results. B, chat rhythm control The rhythm of chatting is mainly focused on the lightness and urgency. Some boys and girls always chat in a hurry, said a lot of nonsense. Some boys and girls chat. As long as the girls back to him, he has been talking without brakes. These are unable to control the rhythm of the chat. Second, learn to judge how girls feel about you Boys and girls chat more from her feelings about you. If a girl is interested in you, your chat won't be too laborious and the girl will give you a comfortable reply. If she is not interested in you, even if you chat well, the girl will still be indifferent to you. A simple example If, when you are chatting or eating together, she is always bored and looking around yawning. This proves that she has no interest in the man in front of her. For a girl who is not interested in you, there are two ways: 1. give up before it's too late. 2. don't pursue it again and again. The first is to do well for yourself. If, when you talk, she always drags her chin and listens carefully, it proves that she has feelings for you, and she will pay special attention to what you say. Third, mobilize emotions Women are a kind of emotional animal, her emotions are controlled by emotions, not as rational and logical as men. You can't convince her to like you, but you can make her like you by stirring up her emotions. Everything a woman does is related to her emotions, so the way to build attraction is to turn her emotions on and off. You want to work on making her experience joy, curiosity, hope, emotion, excitement, jealousy, anger, disappointment, sadness, and concern. Emotions are out of her control. She can't help liking someone because that person changes her emotions. Fourth, be confident, show your value The confidence here is not blind bragging and exaggerated expression, but know their value, reasonable show their value. Girls attach great importance to the first impression of boys. Appearance, physical appearance, clothing are all important factors in determining the first impression. So these first impressions are not good if you don't hit them. Usually appearance gives the first impression is y embedded in the other person's heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can notice his usual attitude towards clothes, then he is in love.