The elderly are not obliged to help their children with their children. The reason why the elderly help their children with their children is out of love, not responsibility, not to mention obligation. Children should respect the elderly, even if some of their concepts may be backward, but they themselves were brought up that way, to understand the elderly, more communication with them.
But if you let the old man take the child, the two people have different habits, the concept of child rearing will have some differences, the two people communicate is also very troublesome, the old man did not do the right thing, the daughter-in-law is not good to say, over time will produce conflicts. If the husband is no longer to their own, at home is certainly aggrieved. So there are a lot of baby moms will choose to let their own mother with children, so the elderly with children has become a parenting buzzword.
While our parents gave birth to us and raised us, their duty is done. They gave up their own comfortable lives, so they followed their children to strange cities, enduring loneliness and helplessness, just to save us the trouble. As a son or daughter, if you decide to let your parents help you with your children, don't just focus on yourself and never ignore their feelings.
We should respect and cherish our parents, and never wait until we don't have the chance to regret it. Whether you ask your child's grandma or grandma to help with your child, if they are willing to help, it can only be said that it is a favor, not what they are meant to do. If you have an elderly person to help you with your child, you should be grateful, and if you don't help, you should understand. When you are bringing up your children, who is helping you? If it's the elderly, be sure to be grateful to them.