May Yanfang, in the age of splendor, many people feel sorry for her. Some people feel that her death was due to cancer. But Mui's mom gave another reason for her death, depression. May's mom did this because she knew that the things that Anita Mui went through were so unbelievable.
One, the things that Anita Mui went through were full of trials and tribulations that cast a shadow over her
Anita Mui appeared on stage at a very young age and was paid to subsidize her family. Anita Mui attached great importance to her family, but Mui's mother was very strict, so Anita Mui did not feel the warmth of the family, which is also an important reason why she wanted a family. During the period of cancer, it is clear that it can be removed, but she insisted on her will, not willing to give up the right to be a woman, and finally left us.
Annie Mui loved her family and longed for its love, but in reality, she was plagued by it. Mui's mom was not only demanding, but also required her to make money to support her family. Not only Mui's mom, but also Anita Mui's brother and sister. They were like bloodsuckers, attaching themselves to Anita Mui's body until she had no blood production. Anita Mui felt that as long as she had a family, she could get rid of her previous family, and it was evident that her family was hurting her.
To start a family, you have to marry someone. She had a boyfriend that she liked very much, but Mui's mom didn't like it and the two had to break up. Mui's mom said that Anita Mui listened to herself very much, which shows how controlling Mui's mom was. Although Anita Mui was unhappy in her heart, she did not want to upset her mom. For Anita Mui, if Mui's mom badmouthed her in front of the media, her career would be off a cliff, and for that reason, she put up with it.
During the time she was suffering from cancer, a lot of media waited for her outside her house just to find out about the condition from her, which put a lot of pressure on Anita Mui. Anita Mui is a very facetious person, she did not go out all day and washed her face with tears. All these pressures, he put in his heart, and it is not surprising that he had depression. However, Anita Mui did not tell others, and is not willing to tell others, just as those who are depressed, put the pressure in the heart.
Two, depression is serious, leading to her passing
Depression, it seems that there is nothing wrong, especially for actors. Because they often act, the eating public is not quite sure whether they are acting or really depressed. Qiao Renliang said he was a bit depressed before he was born, and some people still don't believe it. Waiting until after his suicide to think, the original Qiao Renliang's disease, is so serious. Depression is a mental illness, the outward appearance is less obvious, it is easy to be ignored.
Annie Mui has a wonderful performance in many movies and TV dramas, we like her in the screen, but also like her singing on the stage, a hundred changes in the shape, so that she attracted countless fans. In the hearts of many people, Anita Mui is perfect. In her life, Anita Mui felt the same way. She was not good at refusing, even if she didn't want to. This is true when facing her family, and also when facing the audience.
All the pressure, all by herself, she carried, she felt, since the audience so high evaluation, we must be able to afford the audience, this is her high standards for themselves, strict requirements. However, everyone is not a machine, also thinking of taking a break. Just like an elastic band, you can't keep it taut all the time, it's easy to have problems, and you can present yourself better with proper rest. But Anita Mui did not do so, so the pressure is like a mountain on her shoulders.Annie Mui also looked for friends to confide in, also want to rest at home for a period of time, but the outside world's voice is a lot, very big, pressured her breathless, but also had a breakdown and cried, cried, still smiling like a flower in front of everyone. Many people feel that Anita Mui only pined when she was sick, and her close friend once said that she had a lot of bitterness in her heart and was not willing to pour it out, and transformed this bitterness into acting strength.
Annie Mui was sick, but she wasn't just physically sick, she was emotionally sick too. Some people think it would have been better if she had found someone to de-stress with, or a psychiatrist? She wouldn't! Finding a psychiatrist would be known by the media, and when the time came, there was no telling what these people would write. What's more, she wanted to save face and didn't want the media to know about these things, so she preferred to keep these in her heart.
Three, in the face of depression, Anita Mui did not have a good coping method
Depression, is a terrible disease, just like split personality. It's normal when you're interacting with people. It is only when it strikes that it appears to be different from people. Depressed people, when they encounter a blow up point, are devastated. Reza was also depressed and when it was severe, thought of committing suicide. Controlled by taking medication, fortunately, she pulled through. When Anita Mui was tormented, she didn't find a reasonable channel of detachment and ended up on the road of no return.
She probably felt that if she exposed her condition, it was considered revealing her personal privacy, which was unacceptable to her. Because she is not willing to show her vulnerable side to everyone. Just as we are not willing to tell our family members that we are having a hard time when we are working outside the home. Because telling them would add to their burden. Anita Mui felt that if she told the public, they might act as spectators.
The spectator mentality, more of a curiosity, Anita Mui is not willing to be the talk of others, not to mention, the spectators take her condition. Anita Mui suffered alone, coupled with the torture of the disease, she did not survive. When you encounter depression, the best way is to seek medical attention, inform the doctor of your condition, and face the illness with the doctor, and maybe, get through it. Depression, a hidden disease, also needs treatment.
Some people do not have timely treatment, on the terrible road; some people after treatment, well. When faced with the condition, there needs to be a proper outlet for catharsis. Some say that reputation is more important and don't want to be talked down to. This is possible, but life is precious because it will not come again. So, cherish life and stay away from depression. What do people think about this? Welcome to leave a message!