People in this life, in addition to not being able to choose their own origin, other things can be their own master, the key lies only in what you want, and whether you are willing to for your? I'm not sure if you want to do that, but I'm sure you want to do it. The first thing you need to do is to take action.
Just move the mouth, everyone can be a strong king of the mouth, but life does not lie in saying, lies only in doing, you want to climb to what heights, touch what circle, know what kind of people, all depends on your own.
Young, you like a large group of people lively atmosphere, you like to make friends, feel that the more people know, the more they appear to be able to, but time to grow, you more and more like to clean, will regularly review your social circle, those who are purely meat and wine friends, or to you full of use of good friends, one by one, they are all screened out, you only want to be able to a few friends to make a heart-to-heart.
Friends are not limited to the same sex, we can also have a few friends of the opposite sex, some men do not understand things, women can give you to solve the puzzle, I believe that there is a pure friendship between men and women, not pure just people.
But if you are older, you have to pay attention to the boundaries of the opposite sex friends, if not necessary, it is best not to contact.
Don't bother with family friends of the opposite sex, it's good for both sides
While you used to have a very good friendship, it's not the same today, and each other is a married status, there are children, and then there is a very frequent liaison, is it appropriate?
If your wife doesn't discuss something with you, take a married man as a psychological tree hole, what do you feel? A green hat is about to be put on your head, can you still calmly keep smiling?
Since they all have their own families, it is good to run their own new life, three do not know the walk, want to contact feelings about a meal can be, not convenient to bring the family, then the two **** friends pull on, so as not to give others the opportunity to misunderstand.
And married friends of the opposite sex to come and go too much, the impact is the two families, you if you still think of the old love, away from his life a little farther.
There have been and you have emotional disputes of the opposite sex, it is best to never see again in this life
In my personal opinion, there has been love, so you have been moved, there has been a beautiful people, after the separation is unable to go back to the position of friends, and then meet her, your heart will not be a little ripples are not there, because you still have regrets and unwillingness, and most of the world back together, and in the end, can not escape to repeat the same mistakes. The most important thing is that you can't get away with repeating the same mistakes you made.
The past, let it dissipate with time in the memory, since the original choice to let your story end, do not think of renewing, you do not have so much time to toss, and no energy to seriously love a person, may be you have a family, the son will soon face the midterm exams, you are sure that you want to let this long ago dust in the past, to break the stability of your existing?
No reply to your initiative, don't waste time
People at any age, have the right to pursue love, even if you're still single in your sixties or seventies, you can also accompany you to dance with your peers to express their likes, others say you're old and unorthodox, unashamed, but only because of your? The reason why they say you are old and unashamed is because you are different from them. Let them sore eyes, they do not want to want to be as brave as you, but they care too much about the world's eyes, to say an open word, sixty or seventy years old, half of the body is in the ground, since doing this thing will make you happy, then do it, or when you wave goodbye to the world, you will be very regrettable.
People over the middle age, the need for love is increasing day by day, and compared to strangers, you with the willingness to develop friends around you, but if she is not interested in you, never respond to you to take the initiative, then don't make a fool of yourself, and then there is no need to contact, after all, there has been such a small festival, it is difficult to treat as a friend again.
Friendship between the opposite sex, the most taboo is the fuzzy relationship, you if people as a friend, on the precise location of your position, do not because you are a person are not consciously, led to the tragedy of the two families.