Introduction: What is filial piety? Filial piety is an adult? The first thing you need to do is to go back to your home and see if you can find it. The heart of that; filial piety is the rich reward after success; filial piety is the parents lying in the sick after careful care. Childish naivety filial piety, is the eyes of the twinkling stars; young filial piety, is flawless emerald; adult after the filial piety, is the platinum of blunt truth. All good filial piety first, filial piety is the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but also the basic code of conduct. The ancient story of filial piety shocked people's souls, and the children learned not only knowledge, but how to be a man.
How parents can teach their children to be more filial First, let the children understand the hard work that their parents have put in for him and the family. Nowadays, many children don't know how their parents work, don't know how their parents get their money, and only know how to ask their parents for money to buy this and that, and think that it's only right for their parents to give their children a good meal, a good dress, and a good use of their money. How can such children honor their parents from the bottom of their hearts? For this reason, parents should consciously and often tell their children about their work and income, the more specific the more, so that children understand that their parents' money is not easy to come by. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and you'll be able to get them to fit in the back of your head, so you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. The second thing to do is to train your children to be respectful of their parents' behavior. The general requirements for educating children to honor their parents are: listening to their parents, caring for their parents' health, sharing their parents' worries, participating in household chores, and not giving their parents any trouble. To turn these requirements into practical action for children, it should start from the daily small things. Such as caring for parents [microblogging] health: require children to greet their parents home from work every day; when parents are tired, the child should take the initiative to help or ask parents to take a break; when parents go out, the child should remind their parents whether to forget something or pay attention to the weather changes; when parents are sick, the child should take the initiative to take care of more words of relief, for them to receive guests and so on. Children should take on household chores that need to be done, even if it's just setting up chopsticks at dinner. According to the child's age, ability, learning situation, reasonable distribution, specific guidance, patient training, enthusiastic encouragement. This is not only conducive to children to develop the habit of housework, but also conducive to children continue to enhance the concept of filial piety and respect for parents:? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. Third, to set an example, parents should be a model of filial piety and respect for elders. A child's attitude toward his parents is directly affected by their attitude toward their elders. There is a story that is worth learning. Once upon a time there was a middle-aged couple who were very ungrateful to their elderly parents, who whisked the old man away to live in a dilapidated hut, and sent some unsavory things to the old man with a small wooden bowl for every meal. One day, they saw their son carving a piece of wood, so they asked the child what he was carving, and the child said: ? Carving a wooden bowl, so that you can use it when you are older.? At this point, the middle-aged couple snapped out of it, invited their parents back to the main house to live with them, threw away the small wooden bowl, and took out the best food in the house for the old man to eat. As a result, the children changed their attitude towards them, and from then on, the three generations of the family lived in harmony. We can see that the example of parents, how much influence on the children. Nowadays, the situation of middle-aged couples neglecting their parents still exists. Some middle-aged couples not only do not take care of their parents, but instead do everything possible? Scratch? old people's belongings, which gives their children a worse influence. Therefore, we must not manage their own small family, but also always forget to take care of elderly parents, never add a son and forget the old man. If usually live farther away because of work is busy and can not spend time with the elderly, then on vacation days to try to take the time to take the child to visit the elderly, to help the elderly to do some chores, with the elderly * * * get together with the fun, to do a child's due diligence and obligations. Such a long time, the child learns from experience, implicitly, will gradually develop a good habit of respect for elders, filial piety and respect for parents.
Home to see your parents
If your parents are in the city and you are working in the city, no matter how busy you are, you should learn to find time to go back to see your parents, buy your parents a couple of new clothes, and talk to your parents about your current situation and listen to your parents to tell them the story of their lives, in this way, you will be able to see your parents in the city. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
Learn to report good news and not bad news
If the work or life problems or troubles, in front of their parents, to learn to talk to their parents about happy things, because many times your parents have no way to help you solve these problems, but only for you to worry about the empty, which is unnecessary, so these things do not have to let their parents know, do not know, there is no worry. The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that your parents are aware of your problems and that they don't have to worry.
More chat with your parents
If your parents live with you, not only let your parents eat and sleep well even if it is filial piety, go home from work and more chat with your parents, more care about your parents, listen to them talk about the family and response.
Some things you can listen to your parents
Life will certainly appear a variety of different sizes of things, some of the more important things to do their own decisions, some other things you can ask your parents, listen to their views, so that they feel that although they are old, but in the family still have a certain status and talk is still very important. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Educate your elders to respect your parents
If there are children or elders in the family, they must be educated to learn to respect their elders, and sometimes, although we are very filial, but the children do not know how to respect their elders, and take their parents to use the maid to make the call or disrespect to their parents, which will affect their parents to a greater or lesser extent. The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of how to use the Internet and how to use the Internet in a way that will make it easier for you to get around.
Let your parents get to know some friends/checkers
The elderly also have the need to make friends, otherwise, often stay at home will feel bored and empty, you can persuade your parents to go out more often, such as to the park near the home with friends of the same age to dance, play chess, so that your parents will be free time to live a full up.
These are the first steps in the process.
Take your parents on a trip
If time and material conditions allow, you can take your parents on a trip to see some of the famous tourist attractions out there, but at the same time, you need to take into account the flow of people and diet, it is best not to go to too many people to go to, and the diet should be taken care of to take care of the parents' eating habits.
How to educate your child to be more filial 1, the parent's example. Parents should first lead by example. The most labor-saving practice in education is to teach by example, that is, to lead by example. 2, parents and children together to honor the elderly. When parents go to visit their parents (children's grandparents, grandma and grandpa), take the child with them, so that the child can see for themselves how parents honor their parents. The kind? They love their own mother, not their husband's mother? The phenomenon is quite common among young mothers. I can clearly tell these moms, in front of the mother-in-law, you call? Mom? I'm not sure if you're a good mother, but I'm not sure if you're a good father, and I'm not sure if you're a good mother. Old thing? One day, your daughter-in-law will also call you "old thing". Old thing? At that time, your son will definitely take it for granted! 3. Let your children feel the hard work of their parents, and give them the opportunity to honor their parents. In many families nowadays, love is only a one-way inclination of parents to their children, and can not realize the two-way communication of love, then this love is a deformed love. The child only to parents to his love into his parents love, this love seed is considered in the child's heart to take root, blossom and bear fruit, this great love of mankind is so to inherit. When a young child learns to care for his or her parents, he or she will be able to grow up to love the country and its people, to respect the old and love the young, and to love all the people in the world. 4. Ask your children to do something for the elderly. When a parent is sick or unwell, it is important to ask the child to do the things he should do justifiably, such as bringing water to send medicine or accompanied by a doctor, do not be afraid of delaying his study time. Teaching children to honor their parents starts with guiding them to do these small things for their parents. When the child shows disrespectful words and deeds to his parents, we should give appropriate criticism and punishment, do not think: the child is still small, do not understand the reason, do not have to pay more attention to his words and deeds, when he grows up, naturally know the filial respect for the elderly. This is a very important part of the process, but it is also a very important part of the process. 5, let the child to mom and dad birthday. Let the child remember mom and dad's birthdays, for the children who are growing up day by day, it is entirely possible to let the child host to mom and dad's birthday. It's not good for parents to just give their kids birthdays and not themselves. 6, from the daily life of small things on the child to make demands. Such as going out and parents to say goodbye, go home and parents to greet; meal first parents to be seated, for the parents of a good meal; and parents should speak respectfully, can not speak out of turn. When parents can not meet the requirements of the child, tell the child not to lose his temper, to sympathize with and understand the difficulties of parents. If a child loses his or her temper, parents should always stick to their principles. Parents should never initially do not agree to the child's requirements, the child lost his temper, parents gave in; the child is stubborn, parents gave in. This is the same as encouraging the child to continue to make unreasonable demands. 7, let the child experience the hard work of parents. You may want to say your daily work to the child, or take the child to go to work once or twice, so that he knows what routes you go to work, do something every day, what are the difficulties of your work; you can also tell the child the next month, the next year, the family need to buy what things, how much money you need to spend. In short, it is for the child to see and experience the difficulties of his parents, rather than just letting him hear his parents say ? I am very hard? 8, ear to ear in the establishment of affection. In the case of children's time allows, parents should ask their children to help their mothers brush chopsticks and wash the dishes, and give their fathers a whack on the back and rub shoulders. Affinity development is very often about details that are easily overlooked by us. In this regard, I am not in favor of children going to boarding schools far away from home from kindergarten or elementary school because it is not conducive to the cultivation of affection. Bonding is something that is built up in the day-to-day ear-to-ear contact. 9. Use affectionate stories to inspire children to honor their parents. Parents must regularly take some time to talk to their children, to their own difficulties and the family's difficulties to selectively tell the children. Through the conversation, you can let the child experience affection and inspire the child's sense of filial piety and respect for their parents. 10, appreciate every filial behavior of the child Appreciate and praise every filial behavior of the child, even if the child just clip a slice of bitter gourd to the mother, even if the child is just the grandmother to buy vegetables from the gate mentioned in the kitchen, even if the child is just a time for the father to take a cup of water. There is a psychological ? Hint effect? (also called the Rosenthal effect): what a person is seen as and how he or she is treated becomes reality in a short period of time.