If your heart is too soft, you should harden yourself; if you are too introverted, you should have more contact with people. Being your truest self is the happiest version of yourself! 1. I also had this kind of personality when I was in junior high school. I had no friends in the class, and I had to accept people's looks. Things are much better now. If you can't agree, just keep in contact less. 2. How is your working ability? If you feel you are lacking, just improve yourself. When you are capable, you won’t be afraid of other people’s looks, and others won’t dare to look down on you too much. Even if I look down on you, I won’t dare to bully you so blatantly! 3. ?It doesn’t hurt to do a little extra work - you can train yourself 4. Those who challenge the leader either have a background - their family is powerful or rich, or they have personality problems - they are too arrogant. It would be worrying if there is no future for both.
The most difficult thing in the world is interpersonal relationships. As the saying goes, the weather is not as good as the right place, and the right place is not as good as the right people. The contact between people is so subtle. Harden your attitude and learn to refuse appropriately. At the same time, Communicate more with people and participate in more programs with a lot of people. Over time, you will get better.