There are only Mo Ran bacteria that love you.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been one of the most difficult relationships in today's society. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly triggered various family conflicts, and even some people who once really loved each other chose to divorce.
It is a major reason for the unhappy marriage of husband and wife. How to solve this problem has become a problem that many men think about. Because helping his wife is unfilial; If you help your mother, you will hurt your wife's heart.
So, today, Mo Ran will give you a lecture. If you want to mediate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must know these three points.
0 1, help the manager or not.
Palm palm is full of meat, it is not wise and correct to take sides.
Therefore, simply stand in the position of the middleman and mediate the contradiction between the two. Make sense of everything. If the wife is right, I will coax you to wash her. If mom is right, you can coax your mom.
Note that Mo Ran told you to coax her, not reason with them. Women don't listen. So, whoever is right as a reward will comfort you.
In fact, if you calm down, everyone can reflect on their mistakes. So, even if she was angry at that time, she would feel guilty after a while. At this time, she must be given a step.
02, understand their psychology.
What is the origin of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? The real source is you.
In other words, both women are jealous of earning you. Of course, the metaphor is not particularly appropriate, but the words are not rough. To ease the contradiction between them, we must correctly analyze their psychology.
Women long to be loved, cared for and unique. Therefore, you should make them feel that they are unique, that you love her the most, and make her feel safe enough.
03, find something to do by yourself.
Once people get busy, they will forget everything.
About mom, you can encourage her to dance square dance, or you can ask her to sign up for a tour group and see the scenery along the way. As for the wife, try to have your own job.
Usually, the less time two people spend together, the less contradictions there will be.
If economic conditions permit, you can even buy a new house directly outside me and build your own love nest.