It can be seen from this sentence that we should not spend unnecessary energy wrestling with our own feelings. A good reason to entangle with others is that the return on investment in love is often equal to zero, but what we learn may be lifelong skills.
Emotional input, money expenditure, time consumption and endless love stories in the process of love are all costs. However, if the cost of money far exceeds the emotion, it is putting the cart before the horse. When choosing a spouse, women should pay attention to emotional input, not a lot of material input, which can not only change love, but also easily make themselves lose.
The reason for love is the principle of reciprocity.
1, the idea of "actress". With the progress of social civilization, women are becoming more and more independent. But there are also some women who go to the other extreme and feel that they can support men or have economic advantages over men, so that they can have confidence.
2. The concept of marriage and love goes astray. Due to work and other factors, I delayed getting married, missed the marriageable age and turned myself into a leftover woman. At this time, when choosing the other half, I was born with the psychology of "finding a man to marry", and I often panicked and wished I could catch a flash marriage.
3. Take shortcuts with all your heart. Some women are young and beautiful. If they want to marry a rich man and work hard for a few years or help their families out of trouble, they will try their best to get close to the big bosses and rich people in the upper class. Some women even spend money on various etiquette classes for training.