Occasionally complain, can let people relieve pressure, the negative emotions of the repressed feeling for a long time will also be cathartic. But if a person long-term sexual complaints, look at things have been aimed at the shortcomings. Time after time, this kind of women feel that their "life is bitter", all day long worried about the frown. There is a friend or relative around this, has been shouting all the time that their economic development is not good, only debt. Always say they are a "bitter" woman, looking for a husband who can not earn money. Once in the home of this family and friends, the oppressive family atmosphere, always make people unconsciously want to escape.
She was actually anxious about the economic development in addition to the home is also considered happy. Life is going to be a circle with vacancies, and some people spend all their time patronizing the vacancies to fill them up, while others simply lie down in the circle and sleep right through them. Another family friend, because the husband has an unmarried child and divorced. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and the second time I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and the third time I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley.
When friends and family are sympathizing with her life, she is smiling all day and night square dancing, cooking. In her view, the existing natural environment is a given fact, only to change their own mentality, in order to live a better life. To say that "life is hard" is the objectivity of truth, but to think that one's life is "hard" is the subjective initiative. That is, the objectivity of the truth can not be changed, to change the subjective initiative, perhaps the life is not so bitter. Bitter women like to complain, complaining will only make themselves feel more bitter. The yellow tree under the music, to bitter for pleasure. Have such an optimistic mindset, perhaps you can let the bare feet walk stone road people, wearing a pair of straw shoes.
Two: never satisfiedFeeling their "life is bitter" woman, has not been satisfied. This is not satisfied, but also will make themselves more bitter. Television series "buy a house couple", Wen Hongqi was originally a physician, ready to rely on scientific research to get assigned a house, but always by others to do tricks to snatch down. So it simply went to sea and carried out a pharmaceutical sales company. With her persistence in purchasing houses, she was not afraid of death to put in the work. It was common to pedal a bicycle to pull customers on snowy days.
Wen Hongqi finally bought a house as she wished, she thought as long as she bought a house home can be happy. Also after having a house, but still busy working all day long. Husband suggested that the in-laws to take over to take care of the family, Wen Hongqi therefore feel the need to buy more than one suite for the mother-in-law to live. So the continuous purchase of housing, and husband's dispute, Wen Hongqi are attributed to the house problem. Wen Hongqi feel that their "fate is bitter", so hard, husband or lukewarm mentality. Never satisfied with him, eventually bought a luxury villa, but also lost the marriage and family.
When into the new house party finished, the group dissipated, Wen Hongqi hand raised red wine a drink to, tears will follow down. Wen Hongqi confined to the first suite, immediately slowed down, and her husband to repair the relationship, may not even feel their own life bitter. Bitter women are not all poor material life, inner emptiness abounds. Therefore, women who are miserable are desperate to improve their chemical standard of living. In fact, the richness of their own inner world, is considered to be the best way to say goodbye to the bitter life.